Q: Alone..stressed And Pregnant
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j_n_k
on December 29th, 2007
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I am 17 years and will be 18 in march. I am now somewhere in between 3 and 4 months pregnant. I am still in school i make good grades but i am very concerned about my future. THe father of my child was very excited when i showed him the pregnancy test that said positive but the excitement only lasted for about a month. He then changed his mind and bought up me getting an abortion. I have had one before in the past when i was alot younger and although i was against it it turned out for the best. I was scared to tell my mother about this pregnancy but after what we thought was around 2 or 3 months he decided to tell his mother. She told him it was up to me and my mother what we decided to do but i had her support in either situation. The father and I have been seeming not to get along. I didnt want the abortion but i felt as if he were pressuing me to get it. I then have told my mother and she agreed on the abortion they looked into the information and the day of my abortion appt. (that i didnt want to go to) i went to get a first time ultrasound which confirmed that i was further along than 14 weeks and could not go along with the abortion. THis mad me happy.My mother is now on my side 100% but now the father has gotten really upset with me. He know longer calls me or anything of the such.He didnt even offer to go with me to get the abortion. He says he's just taking a break but he doesnt understand that hes causing me stress which isnt good for me and the child. I feel that hes cheating but he swears that hes not but i feel as if he really doesnt care if were together or not. I tried calling him today and no one answered i know that he is now at home but he has failed to return the call. I am very unsure of what i should do it is to hard to move on because i love him and i am carrying his child. Can someone please help me and tell me what i should do? I havent been able to keep my mind off of the situation and it stresses me out even more....
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