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BillM

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Is My Penis to Large
Posted: 04-21-04 11:50am

My penis is 9 inches long and about 2and a half inches in dia. I have allways been worried about this. Am I worring over nothing
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cherry_pie

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Posted: 04-21-04 12:02pm

Shocked yes! I can understand guys being worried that their member is too small... But i've never heard of someone being worried cuz its too big.. Why be worried?! Sounds alright.. Heck.. Wonderful to me!!
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Teenytoona

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Depends On the Person
Posted: 04-21-04 12:59pm

Really there is all this hub-bub about being "bigger better faster more" wrt penises. And you know what- bigger isn't neccesarily better... Neither is smaller. It's how you interact with your partner and pay attention to the whole sexual experience (not just your own) that matters most.
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2ferano

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Posted: 04-22-04 12:40pm

Most women prefer a larger penis. I personally wish more men had your size! But, make sure you use it correctly and pay attention to her needs! Bigger does not mean that you are the man! It does help, however.
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darcee michelle

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Posted: 04-24-04 14:36pm

You shouldn't have a problem unless the woman you're with is very small, in which case, make sure to use lots of lube and try positions that don't penetrate so deeply. And remember, size does matter, but it doesn't mean everything. You still need to know what to do with it.
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Gehris22

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Posted: 06-04-04 19:58pm

Hmmm??? Can I have your phone # !!!!!!! lmao just kidding.
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jessechaseme

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Posted: 06-04-04 20:53pm

Yeah uhm, where do you live?? Laughing

we always say size doesn't matter, but we're lying. It matters greatly.
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Teenytoona

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Posted: 06-07-04 10:28am

Size does matter: the smaller the better! (in other words- everyone is different and has different preferences)

and anyways, everybody ought to know that intercourse (the ol' in-out) doesn't really do it for women... What matters is a man who knows the what/where/how of the clitoris.
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Darling

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Posted: 06-07-04 13:24pm

My boyfriend is about 9.5 inches. I cringe everytime we have sex. Im not sure what to tell you! I always tell him he should get it reduced! Lol
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sparklypixie12

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Posted: 06-08-04 12:32pm

Ouch-thats massive! I dont think size matters that much-i wouldnt not go out with someone cos of it-thats just health question!

Tanya-id be the same! Ouchhhhhh
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JanetBee

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Posted: 06-08-04 15:58pm

Well, that's probably bigger than average, and actually some things would probably be a bit uncomfortable (and to be honest, I think giving oral sex to someone that large would be very tiring!). On the other hand, it would barely get you a bit part in a porn movie!
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zilbucks

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Posted: 06-08-04 16:54pm

Pretty sad how I see this post and go straight to it, ahhhh yeh, haha. Anyways- it depends- everyone has something they're self concious about. I gotta say though you have nothing to be ashamed or awkward about..Because like someone else mentioned, people say size doesn't matter, but yeh it does. Big is great for some people, myself included, and horrible for others, because we are all built differently. Some women are tinier - uterus , ovary wise, and it's painful for a ummm.... Large man like yourself,to have s.E.X with... But for others its faaaaaabuluous, so no, noting to be ashamed of , be proud of your manly part, cause it is definetly manly
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Darling

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Posted: 06-08-04 17:27pm

Whether its big or small be content with what you have. Some women will enjoy it some wont just like some women will like your personality and others wont. You can't change how big it is therefore just accept it and learn how to use it Smile
i have a small build and small frame and it seems no matter how many times I have sex (and trust me it's alot) it feels like im a virgin again .E.V.E.R.Y. Time!
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Confuzed and Concerned

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Posted: 06-15-04 15:18pm

Personally I don't like a big penis. My ex boyfriend's was bigger and we had trouble because he always hit my cervix during sex and it always hurt. I noticed I bled more often too with him.


Honestly, the best sex i've ever had was with a guy about 5-6 inches long just because of how he did it. Technique is everything when it comes to me.
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2ferano

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Posted: 06-16-04 01:06am

It is all personal preference, bottom line.
And teenytoona, maybe you don't like the in and out, but that doesn't mean that all women don't! Yes, clitoral stimulation is good, but if the in and out didn't do anything, or didn't matter then we would all be lesbians.
You do have to know what you are doing. Technique and confidence matter, but size does matter. I don't care what anyone says.
Some women do no like a big penis, so therefore size matters to them as they will get pain from a large penis. And some women like a large penis and therefore a small penis would be pointless.
But, ultimately we cannot control who we fall in love with or the size of their penis, so no matter what the size, if it is true love, then it will not matter.
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Confuzed and Concerned

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Posted: 06-16-04 18:25pm

Actually teenytoona, i've orgasmed numerous times from just sex without the guy ever laying anything on my clitoris. All depends on my mood and his technique. Smile
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sandyallen

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Posted: 06-16-04 19:00pm

It is not what you have, it is how you use it!
Sincerely,
sandy
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Teenytoona

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Posted: 06-19-04 22:05pm

Rolling Eyes sigh, just because I said the ol in-out doesn't do it all the time for everyone doesn't mean a. I don't like it, or b. That it doesn't work for some women. There are no absolutes. But for the majority of women, intercourse only does not produce orgasms by the bucket. Hell some women, even i, orgasm at times from intercourse - it's just not always a surefire guarantee.

And besides if you think lesbians don't use penetration, think again. :p
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