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cindy_23

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My Boyfriend Does Not Masturbate
Posted: 12-30-07 04:20am

I am 23 y/o girl, i have a boyfriend that is 20 y/o. He goes to the gym every day.
We live together in my appartement. Sometimes i travel for two or three weeks as i work for an airline company.
He does not masturbate when he is alone. He does not enjoy doing this to himself. His penis became so sensitive and his balls became so hard and sometimes he feels pain when he does not ejaculate when i am away.

I decided to give him a hand in masturbation. I found that his penis is too sensitive to my hands. Once i touch his penis, it starts oozing some pre-cum drops, and it continues that dripping while i am masturbating him.
It seems that he saves a lot of load inside him for long times without letting it out. For this reason, i cannot move my hand away from his penis until making him cum. This is something very erotic to me and enjoy doing this.
When i come back home, I love to tease his penis and deny the orgasm for a while and enjoy watching him dripping too much before the final ejaculation.

I want to know if this has a bad effect on him or not ?
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Tylanas

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Posted: 12-30-07 11:28am

That pre-ejaculate is SUPPOSED to happen. He's not too sensitive, that's normal. It's to create lubrication.

It's probably not harmful; abstinence from masturbation for just three weeks isn't going to hurt him. I think he probably should masturbate at least once if he's in pain because he could potentially injure himself, but otherwise it's harmless.
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happyman

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Posted: 12-31-07 02:46am

My point is, before i work with that company and had to travel and leave him for a long time he was not like that. His pre-cum was not too much as it is now.

This pre-cum really turns me on and makes me need more of it. That is why i don't let him cum easily. I keep him too close to cum then i stop, so he drops more of his pre-cum.

I want to know if teasing him and denying his orgasm will hurt him or something even if it took an hour for example ?
This is very important for me to kknow as i love doing this to him.
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Posted: 12-31-07 10:38am

What you are doing is orgasm control, you are infact building up the pleasure of the orgasm. If you do all this and do not get him off, then that is denying the orgasm. But no you wont hurt him as long as the stimulation continues and it ends in a climax.
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Posted: 12-31-07 14:22pm

good for him...
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lele25

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Posted: 01-05-08 23:03pm

It won't hurt him. That's great that he has so much control.
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awkwarddepressed

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Wow
Posted: 01-08-08 12:29pm

thats awesome. wish my girl tended to my junk with that kind of tender loving care.
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EmilyS

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Posted: 01-08-08 15:28pm

I do it to my boyfriend too and he loves it and so do I
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damonshouse

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I dont masturbate
Posted: 01-17-08 06:32am

I dont believe in guys masturbating. It is a shame to waste sperm like that, so I dont masturbate. I have gone several months with no release. You do feel very full but you get used to keeping your seed within you.
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redneck programmer

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Posted: 01-17-08 07:00am

i believe in it, i believe it's a very healthy thing to do....why wasting? It's not like we have a limited amount that will run out some day. Ah..th poor little sperms, landing on a tissue paper or whatever: 'ey man, where's the uterus? dude, I'm so lost...HEEEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLLPPPPPP'
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damonshouse

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Posted: 01-17-08 07:18am

Men become better people and better lovers if they do not ejaculate through masturbation. I am also into fitness, and I have an amzing amount of energy now that I dont ejaculate.
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Posted: 01-17-08 16:52pm

damonshouse wrote:
Men become better people and better lovers if they do not ejaculate through masturbation. I am also into fitness, and I have an amzing amount of energy now that I dont ejaculate.

Yeah, except you just discussed how you do ejaculate, and how it shoots over your head and 14 feet if you stand up. I doubt that is even physically possible. Nice try, though.
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Posted: 01-18-08 09:59am

Eiri wrote:
damonshouse wrote:
Men become better people and better lovers if they do not ejaculate through masturbation. I am also into fitness, and I have an amzing amount of energy now that I dont ejaculate.

Yeah, except you just discussed how you do ejaculate, and how it shoots over your head and 14 feet if you stand up. I doubt that is even physically possible. Nice try, though.


BUSTED! Nice catch Eiri.
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