purrfection
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Posted: 12-31-07 10:13am
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PLus you also said you did have precum and
you didnt wipe it off and put it back in
in her? Why would you have sex for that
long without a condom then at the end put
one on? Im confused. Oh well.. She could
possibly get pregnant she may bot but if
you dont wanna risk a baby then get plan B
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bigballer155
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Posted: 12-31-07 10:16am
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I cant get it because im not 18. Im only
17 and shes 17. Neither of us can get it.
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Roberta777
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People Who Responded to You
Posted: 12-31-07 19:52pm
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Did so in good faith because they honestly
care about your inquiry. These women have
been on eHealth Forum and are very well
respected for their honesty and caring for
others.
Anytime you have sex, please use
protection. There are a lot more things
than pregnancy here for you to be
concerned with. And, at 17 years of age,
just imagine being thrown into adulthood
and fatherhood. Being a father is for the
rest of your life. And, you haven't even
reached manhood yet.
As the Girlfriend and BridgetHeartsFinn
have so kindly advised you - think before
you act. It is the rest of your life
you're talking about here.
Maybe you will be lucky this time. I hope
for both of your sakes that is true.
For myself, I am not a gambler. Even a
16% chance of pregnancy according to your
article would keep me up at night. Just
have to wait for her period, I guess.
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young Girl
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Re: the Article
Posted: 12-31-07 20:54pm
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| bigballer155
wrote: | In the article i read from
the internet it said that the chances of
her being pregnant are low. IT SAID THAT
SPERM COULD ONLY BE IN PRE-AJACULATION BUT
ONLY AFTER RECENT AJACULATION. THERE WOULD
BE SPERM LEFT DANGLING FROM THE URETHRA.
"recent" MEAN MASTURBATING EARLIER THEN
NOT PEEING AND THEN HAVING SEX WITH A
WOMEN OR DURING THE SAME SEXUAL EPISODE OF
RECENT EJACULATION. URINATING IN BETWEEN
TIME WILL GET RID OF THE SPERM FROM
DANGLING THERE. I highly doubt that shes
pregnant.
Did you happen to read what i got or did
you not? |
your post DOESNT MATTER BECAUSE THERE
COULD BE SPERM no matter WHAT
you dont know
end of story
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bigballer155
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the Girfriend
Posted: 01-01-08 03:14am
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The Girlfriend,.........I got this off the
internet. It says that pre-ejaculate wont
have any sperm in it. The only way it had
sperm is if i ejaculated, didnt wipe, and
then stuck it back in here. Thats not what
i did. I felt that i was going to come
soon so i pulled out. When i pulled out i
didnt cum but after stroking it precum
came out. Then i started to have sex
again. There should not be any cum in my
pre-ejaculate because i didnt cum before
then. I didnt cum at all actually. I
should be pretty safe. My best friend has
sex with his GF all the time and he doenst
use a condom and pulls out. He did exactly
what i did with his Gf and they have been
together for about year and a 1/2. Hes
precam alot in her. He said everytime they
have sex he pre cums in her. I think that
im really worrying about nothing. Most
precum doesnt have sperm in it unless i
have cummed before and didnt pee
afterwards and didnt wipe after peeing.
Pre cum is a way of me getting myself wet.
Its the same way as when a girl gets wet.
Its like lubricant that is produced.
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bigballer155
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Posted: 01-01-08 03:17am
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what Roberta777 wrote:
For myself, I am not a gambler. Even a 16%
chance of pregnancy according to your
article would keep me up at night. Just
have to wait for her period, I guess.
Its a .16% chance of her getting pregnant,
not a 16%. Just to let you know =)
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Bridget
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Re: the Girfriend
Posted: 01-01-08 09:35am
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| bigballer155
wrote: | | The Girlfriend,.........I
got this off the
internet. |
if you read it on the internet it must be
true.
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Posted: 01-01-08 09:57am
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http
://wiki.obgyn.net/page/Contraceptive+Relia
bility?t=anon
look at that, its very very simmilar to
the one i see in my obgyn office, if its
in an obgyn office id take it as more fact
then a letter written to someone on some
website
if you come on here looking for answers
take them and dont be a jerk, if you dont
want our answers dont ask.....and do REAL
reasearch before you claim you are right
~alicia~
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Roberta777
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Thanks Alicia
Posted: 01-01-08 14:49pm
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That is a very good website. Out of 100
pull outs, 27 pregnancies resulted.
Sounds to me that it is certainly more
than .16%.
For the most part, when we are young, we
think nothing bad is ever going to happen
to us. Look, we are healthy, young, our
lives are before us. It looks like smooth
sailing.
But, the truth is, bad things can and do
happen to all of us, young or not.
The important thing is to know that it is
you and you alone who has to take
responsibility for what you do. Can't
dump it on anybody else but yourself.
The Girlfriend and BridgetHeartsFinn and
now Alicia are here to help you if you can
listen. Or not.
They have families and other people who
are grateful for their help.
I know a young man who said they used the
pull out method for years and it worked.
He was seperated from his wife, went back
and again used the pull out method. Only
this time, she got pregnant. He said, I
don't remember it even happening. Well,
it did. Now they are divorced with a baby
coming in six weeks.
I say, if you don't love a person, please
admit that to yourself and get your head
out of your behind. And, please have the
respect to listen to people who are trying
to help you.
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bigballer155
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Posted: 01-01-08 16:41pm
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alright, well i talked to my dad about
this and he said that what i released was
kinda like lubricant. He said that its
basically what a women does. At the
begininng of my post i said that i stroked
my penis and it was wet after i did that.
Well i didnt stroke it and it was wet when
i pulled it out. I just figured that i
stroked it for some odd reason. I even
talked to my girl if i stroked it after i
pulled out and she said no. If i remember
right my penis was wet before i inserted
it in her. I remember that because she was
stroking me before and she said that i was
wet. Then i put it in her. I think it was
just my way of being lubricated for sex or
anything sexual. My dad said that all guys
do this. So i didnt pre cum at all. Im
pretty sure of this. Thank you guys for
the information, and i will use protection
every time for now on. I was just in the
heat of the moment and i will carry a few
condoms with me for now on. Thanks and the
information is very appreciated.
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Re: the Girfriend
Posted: 01-01-08 16:50pm
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| bigballer155
wrote: | | The Girlfriend,.........I
got this off the internet. It says that
pre-ejaculate wont have any sperm in it.
The only way it had sperm is if i
ejaculated, didnt wipe, and then stuck it
back in here. Thats not what i did. I felt
that i was going to come soon so i pulled
out. When i pulled out i didnt ejaculate
but after stroking it precum came out.
Then i started to have sex again. There
should not be any ejaculate in my
pre-ejaculate because i didnt ejaculate
before then. I didnt ejaculate at all
actually. I should be pretty safe. My best
friend has sex with his GF all the time
and he doenst use a condom and pulls out.
He did exactly what i did with his Gf and
they have been together for about year and
a 1/2. Hes precam alot in her. He said
everytime they have sex he pre cums in
her. I think that im really worrying about
nothing. Most precum doesnt have sperm in
it unless i have cummed before and didnt
pee afterwards and didnt wipe after
peeing. Pre ejaculate is a way of me
getting myself wet. Its the same way as
when a girl gets wet. Its like lubricant
that is produced. |
UM NO sperm DIES in the air so it would
DIE in the air
dude you have no idea what your talking
about
you just need to stop haveing unprotected
sex if you are so cluless
and if you know it all
then go to google next time you need help
with something because what EVERYONE is
telling you is the truth. and you dont
wanna hear it. so bye bye
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Re: the Girfriend
Posted: 01-01-08 16:51pm
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| BridgetHeartsFinn
wrote: | | bigballer155
wrote: | | The Girlfriend,.........I
got this off the
internet. |
if you read it on the internet it must be
true.
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yeah i read on the internet that the
lochness monster and big foot are real so
that MUSt be true...sinec i got it off the
internet and all 
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-01-08 16:53pm
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| bigballer155
wrote: | | alright, well i talked to my
dad about this and he said that what i
released was kinda like lubricant. He said
that its basically what a women does. At
the begininng of my post i said that i
stroked my penis and it was wet after i
did that. Well i didnt stroke it and it
was wet when i pulled it out. I just
figured that i stroked it for some odd
reason. I even talked to my girl if i
stroked it after i pulled out and she said
no. If i remember right my penis was wet
before i inserted it in her. I remember
that because she was stroking me before
and she said that i was wet. Then i put it
in her. I think it was just my way of
being lubricated for sex or anything
sexual. My dad said that all guys do this.
So i didnt pre ejaculate at all. Im pretty
sure of this. Thank you guys for the
information, and i will use protection
every time for now on. I was just in the
heat of the moment and i will carry a few
condoms with me for now on. Thanks and the
information is very
appreciated. |
no all guys dont do this
thats not true
hmm what else isnt true about this post?
oh yeah basically everything.
its not a "lubricant" LOL and ts not "what
women do"
women do NOT have sperm in our ejaculate
you do
so quit being ignorant and freaking take
some of the advice people are trying to
give you. i hope to GOD this girl is not
pregnant because to be a decent parent you
need to learn how to NOT be so stubborn
and rediculous.
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Bridget
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Posted: 01-01-08 17:22pm
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| bigballer155
wrote: | | alright, well i talked to my
dad about this and he said that what i
released was kinda like lubricant. He said
that its basically what a women does. At
the begininng of my post i said that i
stroked my penis and it was wet after i
did that. Well i didnt stroke it and it
was wet when i pulled it out. I just
figured that i stroked it for some odd
reason. I even talked to my girl if i
stroked it after i pulled out and she said
no. If i remember right my penis was wet
before i inserted it in her. I remember
that because she was stroking me before
and she said that i was wet. Then i put it
in her. I think it was just my way of
being lubricated for sex or anything
sexual. My dad said that all guys do this.
So i didnt
pre ejaculate at all. Im pretty
sure of this. Thank you guys for the
information, and i will use protection
every time for now on. I was just in the
heat of the moment and i will carry a few
condoms with me for now on. Thanks and the
information is very
appreciated. |
what you just described *is*
pre-ejaculating! if you're having an
orgasm and semen is coming out, you're
ejaculating. if you're not having an
orgasm and something is coming out while
you're aroused, that's pre-ejaculate.
how old are you?
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Re: the Girfriend
Posted: 01-01-08 20:04pm
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| BridgetHeartsFinn
wrote: | | bigballer155
wrote: | | The Girlfriend,.........I
got this off the
internet. |
if you read it on the internet it must be
true.
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I also read that if the girl is on top she
can't get pregnant either..is that true?
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Roberta777
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Manuftw82
Posted: 01-01-08 20:30pm
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There is a great post on here under Sexual
Health - Women, posted by Kia under
Sticky: the Info Post. Will give you all
you need to know.
Just wish we could publish this and have
it as required sex education in every
school level above the fifth grade.
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Re: Manuftw82
Posted: 01-01-08 20:32pm
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| Roberta777
wrote: | There is a great post on
here under Sexual Health - Women, posted
by Kia under Sticky: the Info Post. Will
give you all you need to know.
Just wish we could publish this and have
it as required sex education in every
school level above the fifth
grade. |
I was kidding.
But I'll look at the post anyways.
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Roberta777
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Thanks For the Idea
Posted: 01-01-08 20:45pm
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Now, for the young man with the questions,
please go to Sexual Health - Women, posted
by Kia under Sticky: the Info Post.
She posted it for Teen Pregnancy but it
actually goes across the board to
pregnancy in general. It is well worded
and very informative.
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bigballer155
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Posted: 01-01-08 22:36pm
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My dad told me that it was lubricant.
Before we had sex my penis was wet on the
head. She was stroking my penis before we
had sex and she said that i was wet. After
that happened we dry humped and then had
sex. Thats exactly what happened. Did the
sperm in the pre cum die or is it still
alive? If its dead then im fine.
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-01-08 22:38pm
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| bigballer155
wrote: | | My dad told me that it was
lubricant. Before we had sex my penis was
wet on the head. She was stroking my penis
before we had sex and she said that i was
wet. After that happened we dry humped and
then had sex. Thats exactly what happened.
Did the sperm in the pre ejaculate die or
is it still alive? If its dead then im
fine. |
no your not fine because you stuck your
penis in her after that RIGHT? so then you
still had precum while you were inside
you cant feel precum
it just happens
so she could STILL be pregnant
and tell your dad hes wrong
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