Hi Just Want to Be Here If You Guys Ever Needed Advice. Posted: 09-10-03 22:41pm
Hi my name is colena, i'm 21. I got
pregnant w/ my oldest son when I was 15
hes was born 8/4/98 I was 16. His father
was never around. On sept 12,2001 yes the
day after 9/11 lol I met the love of my
life dec 29 we got pregnant w/ my baby
jonathan he was born sept. 21 02 we had
lots of problems but hes here and healthy.
The love of my life's name is junior he
also has taken fabien into his heart and
my son now calls him daddy. But I have
had it hard and we have been through hell
and back. And we still are but if any of
u guy ever have any questions PM me. I'd
love to anwser any questions you might
have. So as long as ur serious i'll talk
to you. Thanks keep in touch.
Colena
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HongKongChick
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Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 222 Location: Oklahoma
Posted: 09-10-03 22:49pm
That's really great that u are willing to
help these confused teens!!!!
Hope u and ur family are enjoying
everything u have, which is each other.
thanks for ur involvment
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crazyg8498
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Sep 2003 Posts: 8 Location: Tn.
Well? Posted: 09-10-03 22:53pm
They r confused yes and it makes me mad to
hear 15 yr old say i'm pregnant and
pround I was far from proud u just have to
grow up thats all it takes really
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HongKongChick
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Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 222 Location: Oklahoma
Re: Well? Posted: 09-10-03 23:00pm
crazyg8498
wrote:
they r confused yes and it
makes me mad to hear 15 yr old say i'm
pregnant and pround I was far from proud u
just have to grow up thats all it takes
really
that's that I think too, I mean even
though we are in the 21st century which
sex isnt that much of a shame as it was
long time ago, but there is still a
limit..
I myself am very proud! I am 17 and have
worked really hard to support my baby who
is due in the upcoming month. I don't
think it is wrong to be proud of staying
in school, working 2 jobs, being
respective of my mom and my boyfriend, my
elders and of everyone who has helped me
and given me advice. While my daughter
was not planned, that does not make her
any less wanted or make me any less proud
to have her as my daughter. While I do
understand that you have been there as a
teen mother, I am a little older and wiser
than alot of teenagers who do have babies.
I have not missed one prenatal visit, and
have beaten more than half of all teen mom
statistics because not only am I working
hard to be a good mother, a good provider
and a good nutureer but I am also working
hard to break the mold of "typical teenage
parents". Personally I think I have done
a good job and I think there is always
room for improvment! So while I
personally think that I can be an
excellent mother, I am always up for
advice or suggestions and I always ask
questions when I need help. That is my
advice for young parents, if you don't
know..Ask!
Welcome to the boards colena!
Good luck and best wishes
-jessika-
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crazyg8498
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Sep 2003 Posts: 8 Location: Tn.
True Posted: 09-10-03 23:06pm
Sometimes I wish I could just sit and talk
to these teens u know tell them what is
was like for I have a 15 yr old sister
shes been sexualy active since the age 12
shes been on bc since the age 14 I did
lose my virginity till I was 15 so u kno
what I did I should her the best bxc in
the world I had my mom make my sister
watch me give birth to my youngest son boy
trust me it worked she asks me to take her
to get her bc shot now lol
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crazyg8498
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Sep 2003 Posts: 8 Location: Tn.
True Again Posted: 09-10-03 23:10pm
That is very true but not everyone is like
you. I don't work and thats by chose yes
we have it hard sometimes but I enjoy
staying home watching my boys grow I
volenteer in fabien's kindergarten class
every monday I love it daddy makes the
bacon my fiance like me to stay home but
when I meant was there r 14 and 15 yr olds
out there trying to make babies and that I
do not agree w/ I would just like to talk
to them let them know its hard but it can
be done if it must be
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HongKongChick
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 222 Location: Oklahoma
Posted: 09-10-03 23:15pm
youngmama
wrote:
i myself am very proud! I
am 17 and have worked really hard to
support my baby who is due in the upcoming
month. I don't think it is wrong to be
proud of staying in school, working 2
jobs, being respective of my mom and my
boyfriend, my elders and of everyone who
has helped me and given me advice. While
my daughter was not planned, that does not
make her any less wanted or make me any
less proud to have her as my daughter.
While I do understand that you have been
there as a teen mother, I am a little
older and wiser than alot of teenagers who
do have babies. I have not missed one
prenatal visit, and have beaten more than
half of all teen mom statistics because
not only am I working hard to be a good
mother, a good provider and a good
nutureer but I am also working hard to
break the mold of "typical teenage
parents". Personally I think I have done
a good job and I think there is always
room for improvment! So while I
personally think that I can be an
excellent mother, I am always up for
advice or suggestions and I always ask
questions when I need help. That is my
advice for young parents, if you don't
know..Ask!
that's very possitive, I know that some of
the teen moms are proud to be moms and
proud of themselves, which is a good thing
only for those who knows what they want
and what they are doing. For those who
are just so immature and big-headed, the
whole attitude is just taking a bit too
far, and that's why we want to suggest or
give our opinions to those who are a bit
toooooo proud to be having sex with lots
of guys unprotected.
That I do agree with. I was explaining to
my friends little sister, who is 13, that
having a baby at 13 wasn't good. She
thought that is was so cool watching my
tummy roll when cheyenne moved and how
excited austin and I are. I was telling
her that it is hard for a 17 y/o to find a
job sometimes and at 13 in az it is
illegal to have a child employed. I also
explained that while it was cool to watch
my belly move when cheyenne did, it is
cool until 4:15 this morning when she
decided to punch me in the ribs! Lol so
just so all of you know cheyenne is
grounded until she is 18! Lol shes not
supposed to punch mommy in the ribs! back to the point,
I think that more schools should have the
btio program along with the pregnancy
suit. I think that would get some younger
teens to understand that pregnancy is not
all about the second trimester kicking and
ultrasounds and roses. As all of you saw
in my post earlier this week, you can
freak out over stupid stuff! Ok well
thats all I am gonna say! But you know
i'll be back, I always am! Hehe
gl and bw
-jessika-
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crazyg8498
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Sep 2003 Posts: 8 Location: Tn.
Ok What? Posted: 09-10-03 23:18pm
Did u mean that in a good way or what?
Sorry i'm a bit tired and can't think
straight right now is there anyway u can
im me?
Me?? If you meant me, I did mean it in a
good way!! we need good role
models and experienced teen parents in
here! I am glad that you joined, cause I
am always full of questions and I have
been freaking out this past week about my
pregnancy! You and hkc are my new best
friends! Lol
yes I am living with the daddy, his name
is austin and he is 20
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crazyg8498
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Sep 2003 Posts: 8 Location: Tn.
Good Posted: 09-10-03 23:24pm
Good ask away i'll anwser to the best I
can and can u please PM me?
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HongKongChick
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 222 Location: Oklahoma
Posted: 09-11-03 11:40am
youngmama
wrote:
me?? If you meant me, I
did mean it in a good way!! we need good role
models and experienced teen parents in
here! I am glad that you joined, cause
I am always full of questions and I have
been freaking out this past week about my
pregnancy! You and hkc are my new best
friends! Lol
yes I am living with the daddy, his name
is austin and he is
20
