Hello! I have a little question that I
was wondering if you guys could help. I
have been with my boyfriend for 7 years.
And I want to spice things up. We use to
do it the same way, but now me and my best
friend have been talking about getting a
dildo. I want to go crazy and buy the
kinky stuff but i'm not sure what he might
like. When I ask him he turns red and
tells me to suprise him. The only thing
that he will tell me he likes is when we
play with are selfs. So should I keep it
simple or should I go and buy what ever I
think we can handle... :d
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laura27
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Sep 2003 Posts: 22 Location: west coast
Your Boyfriend Posted: 09-11-03 00:49am
How old is he?You?
Yes, it matters
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tmjjj
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Sep 2003 Posts: 15 Location: Indiana
Sex Posted: 09-11-03 14:48pm
He will be 25, and I am 22. If you dont
mind me asking why does this matter.
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nikki_caro
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Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 09-11-03 15:05pm
I think it was because maybe she thought a
kid was coming into this and asking. I
know I wouldnt feel right advising a 15 yr
old on sex. But anyways, I think you
should go ahead and go for all the
kinkyness you want. He is the shy type
and you need to open him up. There are
alot of sex shops and you can go and check
eveything out from lotions to dildos to
eatible condoms. Maybe lickable body
paint. Or you can go for a vibrator and a
dildo. You need to be spontanious and
surprise him. Simple gets boring after a
while. I havent done that yet with my
husband but maybe soon I will. Good luck!
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blu_eyes00
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jul 2003 Posts: 96 Location: Canada
Posted: 09-11-03 18:26pm
Go for the dildo! He will totally love
it because you can use it in front of him,
and he can use it on you as well. Or try
a diiferent location..Or pop in a porno,
and watch it with him....Mildly kinky, yet
tasteful and fun!
Have fun!
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laura27
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Sep 2003 Posts: 22 Location: west coast
Laura27 Posted: 09-14-03 00:56am
The reason I want to know your ages is
because men go through phases in their sex
life. I am married to somone 12 years
older than my self and and age makes a
difference in thier inhibition. (or
lackthereof) he is twenty five and you
have been together for seven years.
Sounds promising. What I mean to say is
you most likely have a lot of trust in
each other. Men won't try new kinky
things if they believe you will blab to
your friends. Start small and escalate
with each success. Start with a french
tickler for example, and if that works try
fuzzy handcuffs. With men it's
complicated. We are led to believe
(falsley) that they love all that has to
do with sex and are ready for anything.
Not true. They have inhibitions too. You
can't just walk into the bedroom with a
saddle and expect him to be thrilled.
They need coddling.
:d
