taking Ava eat at a restaurant again. Me,
my dad, my mom, and her went eat Mexican
tonight. Well, well, well Miss Ava
decides that she's pissed off at everyone
and everything. She starts throwing
things, refuses to eat, slaps my mom's
friend that comes to kiss her. Nothing
made her happy, but a pack of fruit snacks
that she gobbled down in a minute. When
my food came she threw a fit. I had to
take her out. I almost left crying. My
mom ate, then took her walk around while I
hurried up and ate. While they were
walking I hear, "MOM!!!!, MOM!!!!" I turn
around and she's yelling and waving at me
like she hasn't seen me in a week.
It was complete misery. I've sooooo
learned my lesson.
She's been so defiant and DIFFICULT
lately. It's one thing after another and
with the tantrums and her temper, It's
getting out of control and I feel like I'm
failing as a mother.
I'm starting to think if 4 kids are right
for us. I can hardly handle one. I'm
physically and mentally exhausted right
now and it's time for Jesse to get off of
work.
God Bless all of you stay at home moms. I
could not do it as much as I absolutely
love, love, love my child!
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Bridget
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Posted: 12-31-07 21:22pm
sorry she's giving you a rough time. do
you think it's just a phase?
when do you go back to work?
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jessesgirl
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Posted: 12-31-07 21:28pm
I don't know what the heck it is. It's
been going on for a about 2 months now.
It's like she turned 1 and went crazy.
She gives me trouble ALL day long. I
honestly can't leave her side for a
second. I think she's going through major
seperation anxiety which is typical for
her age. I don't know where the acting up
comes in though.
I really don't want to go back to work. I
love spending time with her and I'll miss
her like crazy. It would just be nice if
Jesse worked a normal job and was home
every night to give me a break. There's
no such thing as that around here though.
I could cry right now. I'm so fed up.
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Bridget
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Posted: 12-31-07 21:59pm
sorry.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 12-31-07 22:07pm
I'm sorry Betsy hopefully she gets
over this soon. I wish I was closer so I
could come watch her for you!
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Sandbox Party
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Joined: 25 Jul 2006 Posts: 7276
Posted: 12-31-07 22:10pm
ive been there.. hell i AM there. My kids
embarrass me everywhere i go. Its just
something that i've grown to live with.
Its a stage they go thru.. its where they
are starting to define their
independance.. and its REALLY REALLY
annoying. I have to deal with it two times
as bad because Jacobs going thru the
terrible two's and Caitlyn sits back and
watches and learns.
I feel lik im in your boat sandy lol, i
have a 2 yr old and 1 yr ood and jordynne
likes to copy joseph, he just got up 30
min agi and hes been layin on the floor
screaming and bashin his head on the
floor. i never take him out in public
much lol for that very reason that he will
throw a fit. hes been doin it for 6 mths
now.
