Having sex for the first time and cumming quick Posted: 01-01-08 10:52am
Hey guys, Please help
I am worried about 2 things, both with a
different nature attached.
I am 18 years old and was a virgin until
last night, when I had sex with my
girlfriend. I don't regret it and I loved
it. But I am worried and would like a
confirmation or something to settle
myself.
First thing; My girlfriend is on the pill
at the moment, and shes had sex before.
Last night I was, i think, TOO happy to
get down there, I didn't have a condom but
we still went ahead anyways. Now she just
had her period about a week or less ago.
Usually this didn't concern me until I was
reading through about pre-cum. I am very
worried, can anyone confirm for me that
there is no way she could have gotten
pregnant based on the information I have
provided. If there is anything I have
missed please ask to provide more.
Second thing; Having sex for the first
time...I wasn't nervous so to speak...well
I didn't feel it. But for some reason I
couldn't last 30 secs before wanting to
cum really hard. If it got to that point I
would either stop or pull out, but it
really started to bug me, when I saw that
I think she was enjoying it but I pulled
out or stopped.
Shes great, she understood that it was my
first..and that I should stop beating
myself up about it, but seriously.....What
the hell? Is there anything that can
prolong me from wanting to cum or cumming
so quick? I just can't help feeling like
i've let her down.
Thanks for reading, if anyone can, please
help me I would really
appreciate it.
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marvel
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Posted: 01-02-08 11:02am
The pill, though very effective, is not
100% effective. Success rates for the pill
run anywhere from 99-99.9 per cent. You'll
never get a pill that says it's 100%
effective. Did you ejaculate inside of
her? There's a greater chance that she
could be pregnant as a result of being
ejaculated in, as opposed to
pre-ejaculate. There's just more sperm
involved.
And, as for the sexual stamina... it will
come to you in time. Just like riding a
bike, it takes practice. It's frustrating,
but you'll catch on pretty quickly and
it'll be great. Just make sure you're safe
and responsible.
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x0x011
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Posted: 01-02-08 11:45am
Condoms can help prolong ejaculation as it
decreases the sensitivity. And you get the
extra protection as a bonus.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 01-02-08 17:40pm
She's on the pill, and as long as she is
taking it correctly than you're fine, you
can relax. If you're that concerned about
pregnancy, then you can use a condom with
the birth control, but you don't have to.
It just depends what you're comfortable
with. And of course, the condom will
protect you against STD's, which you
should also be worried about.
Most guys blow it pretty quickly the first
time lol. Actually, the first few times.
She sounds like she's understanding, don't
worry about it. You'll last longer when
you are more experienced.
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Hazboi
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Posted: 01-02-08 19:45pm
Thanks for the replys guys.
No I didn't ejaculate in her, I pulled out
both times, I was mainly worried about
Pre-cum. Yeah, I'll be using a condom from
now on, I just didn't that night because I
didn't even know she was sleeping over
till late.
I hope my stamina improves too.
Thanks again.
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lele25
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Posted: 01-03-08 02:16am
Your stamina will deffinately improve over
time. My hubby would kill me for saying
this, but sometimes when he's super
excited or has just come home from a long
buissnes trip, he's goes pretty quick! But
the sex is still amazing!
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Hazboi
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Posted: 01-03-08 08:51am
Good to know, as long is it will get
better.
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mxquad31
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Posted: 02-05-08 11:24am
I have had severe PE for about 15 years
now and my marriage suffered tremendously.
Tried Clomipramine and saw maybe 1-3
minutes increase of time (better then 2
seconds!), but had insomnia and difficulty
urinating first thing in the morning, and
had headaches and nausea. Tried Zoloft
and saw absolutely no increase in time of
Ejac. Finally tried Paxil (Paroxetine)
and within the first week saw a dramatic
increase in time of Ejac with minimal side
effects. Now 4 weeks of use I can last 30
minutes plus, no side effects, and feel I
have my wife back and have a whole new sex
life now!!!!! We're trying all kinds of
new positions.
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