Subtil
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Unprotected Sex
Posted: 01-01-08 15:04pm
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I recently made a big mistake.. One that I
will never make again, that was having
unprotected sex. Through reading, even
though I did not ejaculate inside her, nor
ejaculate at all, there always is
"pre-ejaculation". After having sex on the
29th, my partner and I were worried about
her being pregnant. Her 1st day of her
period was on the 10th, and ended around
the 14th, I also do believe she is either
on a 28 day cycle or a 30 day. We had sex
on the 29th, If the calculators online are
correct she would be ovulating on the
14-16 and she would be most fertile 12-20.
Just to make sure, we bought Plan B and
she took it. Were also both curious what
else its supposed to do after the first
day or two after she takes it. Her first
day she was cramping, had headaches and
felt like she wanted to vomit (she did not
vomit). I would guess that this means plan
B is working. So from this point on do we
just wait? What are her risks of being
pregnant? And we've never had sex with any
other person, we both lost our virginity
to each other. (1st time we used condom).
Any information would be grately
appreciated, some form of assurance would
help, I can swear my black hair has turned
grey and sadly.. its something this risky
to make us think twice about unprotected
sex. Thank you!
-Brandon 
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manuftw82
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Posted: 01-01-08 15:07pm
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It's very very very unlikely that she is
pregnant. So I'd say no she isn't. I'm
glad you've decided to stop having
unprotected sex. Maybe she could go on
Birth Control AND you can use condoms?
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Subtil
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Posted: 01-01-08 15:13pm
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yea, thats what were going to do. I know
its no excuse.. End point, i let my little
head think for my bigger head :[. Yea were
going to go to planned parenthood and
start her on pills, I dont know when we
will have sex again, but one thing for
sure is that, well. Its going to be
protected, and not just used as something
to do when were bored. I love her we've
been together for 7 Months so, shes
someone that I wanna see in my future and
it hurt me so bad hearing her go through
the plan b and still saying hi and saying
that she loves me, shes a trooper and I
love her.
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manuftw82
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Posted: 01-01-08 15:19pm
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I'm glad you learned from it 
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Subtil
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Posted: 01-01-08 15:23pm
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i dont mean to sound vague but have you
ever had unprotected sex as well?
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manuftw82
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Posted: 01-01-08 15:26pm
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Yea but I don't see what that has to do
with anything lol.
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Subtil
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Posted: 01-01-08 15:27pm
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i was just wondering what was going on
through your mind after wards. like were
you "omg what did i just do?" or....
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Posted: 01-01-08 15:45pm
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No. I was on birth control the only time
I had someone finish in me. And evem if I
turned out to be pregnant I would have
welcomed it although I wasn't trying.
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Posted: 01-01-08 15:58pm
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| manuftw82
wrote: | | No. I was on birth control
the only time I had someone finish in me.
And evem if I turned out to be pregnant I
would have welcomed it although I wasn't
trying. |
Then you were protected 
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manuftw82
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Posted: 01-01-08 16:00pm
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| Jules
wrote: | | manuftw82
wrote: | | No. I was on birth control
the only time I had someone finish in me.
And evem if I turned out to be pregnant I
would have welcomed it although I wasn't
trying. |
Then you were protected |
Well I've had unprotected sex other times
but used pullout. I know that diminishes
the chance but I still don't consider that
protected.
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Subtil
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-01-08 17:49pm
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| manuftw82
wrote: | | Jules
wrote: | | manuftw82
wrote: | | No. I was on birth control
the only time I had someone finish in me.
And evem if I turned out to be pregnant I
would have welcomed it although I wasn't
trying. |
Then you were protected |
Well I've had unprotected sex other times
but used pullout. I know that diminishes
the chance but I still don't consider that
protected. |
you dont consider birth control protected?
or you dont consider pull out being
protected?
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-01-08 17:50pm
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| Subtil
wrote: | | anyone ever use plan
b? |
plan B is only effective if you take it 5
days after you have sex and if MOST
effective if you use it in the first 72
hours after sex 
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Posted: 01-01-08 17:51pm
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Definitions are getting looser and looser.
Maybe we need a glossary.
I consider unprotected sex to mean sex
without contraception/birth control.
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-01-08 17:56pm
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| futureshock
wrote: | Definitions are getting
looser and looser. Maybe we need a
glossary.
I consider unprotected sex to mean sex
without contraception/birth
control. |
yeah me too
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Subtil
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Posted: 01-01-08 18:08pm
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well. my girlfriend used plan B 1 Day and
4 Hours after we had intercourse
(unprotected) so she will defintely be
okay.. I didnt ejaculate inside her either
but, I can honestly say thats the last
time I have unprotected sex till I
graduate from college and head to pre-med
school.
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Posted: 01-01-08 18:12pm
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| the_girlfriend
wrote: | | manuftw82
wrote: | | Jules
wrote: | | manuftw82
wrote: | | No. I was on birth control
the only time I had someone finish in me.
And evem if I turned out to be pregnant I
would have welcomed it although I wasn't
trying. |
Then you were protected |
Well I've had unprotected sex other times
but used pullout. I know that diminishes
the chance but I still don't consider that
protected. |
you dont consider birth control protected?
or you dont consider pull out being
protected? |
I dont consider pull out being protected.
And I only consider birth control
protected if you take it right.
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Subtil
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Posted: 01-01-08 18:35pm
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i'll ttyl folks. headed out to the gym..
gotta get in shape for lacrosse season.
peace out fellow e-healthy people!
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Posted: 01-01-08 18:59pm
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| Subtil
wrote: | | i'll ttyl folks. headed out
to the gym.. gotta get in shape for
lacrosse season. peace out fellow
e-healthy
people! |
haha nice
i LOVE lacrosse!
ttyl!
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Posted: 01-01-08 19:00pm
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| manuftw82
wrote: | | the_girlfriend
wrote: | | manuftw82
wrote: | | Jules
wrote: | | manuftw82
wrote: | | No. I was on birth control
the only time I had someone finish in me.
And evem if I turned out to be pregnant I
would have welcomed it although I wasn't
trying. |
Then you were protected |
Well I've had unprotected sex other times
but used pullout. I know that diminishes
the chance but I still don't consider that
protected. |
you dont consider birth control protected?
or you dont consider pull out being
protected? |
I dont consider pull out being protected.
And I only consider birth control
protected if you take it
right. |
Quoting myself haha. I actually think not
wearing a condom is ALWAYS unprotected
even if your on birth control because you
still aren't protected against STDs.
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