Joined: 02 Jan 2008 Posts: 2 Location: New Jersey,
sex second time ? Posted: 01-02-08 04:57am
Hey im new to this website and need some
advice ok well im 14 and i recently had
sex for the 1st time with my bf i wasnt
really ready to do that i wanted to wait
but my bf was ready to do it so it happen
but now he wants to do it again and i
didnt like it the first time and i dnt
wanna do it anymore but since i already
started should i continue? and after you
have sex for the 1st time is it gonna feel
diffrent after you keep doing it?
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young Girl
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Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
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Posted: 01-02-08 05:06am
tell him NO???????
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Makenzie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Dec 2007 Posts: 1
Posted: 01-02-08 06:36am
you should tell him how you feel about
it.
Just remember protection, plus if you dont
want to dont let him pressure you.
you have to be strong. im 14 and i have
had sex so just use proection or you will
be in my problem right now.
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stickyicky
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Dec 2007 Posts: 151 Location: jacksonville, tx usa
Posted: 01-02-08 09:45am
you shouldn't continue just b/c you
started... mostly since you did not like
it. if you don't think you were ready for
it then, you wouldn't be ready for it now,
and chances are ... that is the reason you
didn't like it, so it wouldn't feel any
different the second time around. don't
let any guy pressure you into doing
anything. =]
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Rosie H
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Joined: 11 Jun 2007 Posts: 1136 Location: Phoenix, AZ, USA
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Posted: 01-02-08 10:52am
sex will feel better after your first
time. But you do not sound like you are
ready to have sex. So just tell him the
truth, there is no reason why he should be
pressuring you. If he truly cares for you
he will wait for you until you are ready.
If he doesnt and keeps pressuring you then
he doesnt deserve the gift you have given
him. Sex is a huge responsibility, please
dont take it lightly.
Also try and get on birth control if you
do decide to have sex. You can go to your
parents or go to planned parenthood for
birth control and most definately condoms.
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JoselynnMariana
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2008 Posts: 5
Posted: 01-02-08 11:38am
dont let him pressure you he might say
"well if you wont let me its over" let it
be over he only wants you because he
thinks your a dumb 14 year old that is
gonna give it up anytime he wants.. SEX IS
A BIG RESPONSIBILITY BECAUSE IF YOU HAVE
SEX YOU GOTTA BE READY TO BE A PARENT YOU
NEVER IF THAT CONDOM MIGHT BREAK THEN YOUR
SCREWED MOST GIRLS ARENT LUCKY THE FIRST
TIME AN THEY GET PREGNANT BUT ITS YOUR
DECISION TO GO ON WITH THE PREGNANCY IF
YOU EVER GET PREGNANT TRY TO GET ON BIRTH
CONTROL IF YOUR PARENTS DONT KNOW THEN GO
TO THE CLOSEST HEALTH DEPARTMENT AND ASK
FOR A TEEN CHECK UP THEY WONT CALL YOUR
PARENTS.....ALL IT TAKES IS THE FIRST TIME
TO GET PREGNANT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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imani
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2008 Posts: 2 Location: New Jersey,
Posted: 01-02-08 19:54pm
Thanks everyone for the advice, it really
helps im gonna tell him the way i feel and
hopes he dosnt be mad at me over it. I
dont think he will break up with just
because of that or atleast i hope not.
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n2r7moopad
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Dec 2007 Posts: 30
Posted: 01-04-08 15:32pm
who cares if he breaks up with you
hun.....that shows that he is NOT the one
for you. The RIGHT guy will be willing to
stay with you regardless of if you give
him some or not.
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umbrellas
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Dec 2007 Posts: 19
Posted: 01-04-08 18:58pm
Just because you did once, doesn't mean
you have to ever ... and I mean ever ...
again until you are 100% ready. If your
boyfriend breaks up with you because you
won't have sex with him, count it a
blessing that he is gone from your life.
You have so much more to offer than just
sex. The right guy will wait on you --
even if you choose to wait until
marriage.
GOOD LUCK and do not do anything you are
uncomfortable with.
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Georgia59
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Joined: 11 Apr 2007 Posts: 5557 Location: Along the Mississippi, USA
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Posted: 01-05-08 00:16am
You never owe somebody sex- you can ALWAYS
say no!!
