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Little Miss Oops

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Posted: 01-02-08 13:19pm

ok here's the deal,

My sister is pregnant, i think like 2 1/2 months and i'm not really sure what to do for her, Confused and what i mean by this is that her boyfriend dallas, doesn't do anything for her, he don't have a job she pays for everything,

Her car, he drives it but doesn't pay for gas or her insurance or her car payment. She has no insurance on her car due to the fact she can't afford it,
Another thing, their house they just got, she pays for the bills, electricity, gas, water, rent, down payment, ect.
Her phone, he uses it and runs the bill up but doesn't help pay for it when the bill is $200
Ok and her job she works at Walmart and get's paid Bi-weekly and only gets paid like $400-$500
Now the deal is he wants her to move to Alaska with him, we live on the oklahoma/kansas border.

And i can't do anything to help her because we don't speak, Sad again, but HELP!!!!Crying
or Very sad
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moldedbymercy88

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Posted: 01-02-08 13:32pm

I don't know how we're supposed to help here. Is your sister showing any signs of leaving him? Sounds like that would certainly help her budget, and you don't want her with someone that uses her. You say that you and your sister don't speak, are you on bad terms or did you just drift apart?
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Little Miss Oops

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Posted: 01-04-08 12:40pm

we are on bad terms again, no she doesn't show any signs of leaving him..... we have never been close but she got mad at me because on christmas morning she decided to tell my parents which is my dad and step mom that she was pregnant and i recorded it on my phone because i thought it was a special time and in the last part of it my dad says "i was 25 when i had you!!" and sam which is my sis said "and mom was like 12" well she was 20 yrs old when she had sam, 16 when she had my oldest bro, 17 when she had my youngest bro, 20 when she ahd sam and 21 when she had me. well i showed my mom the recording not knowing about that whole thing and she asked sam about it and sam lied. So sam texted me that same morning and said "why don't you go back to not noticing me and not talking to me it was soo much better" i don't really know what to do....
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