Joined: 22 Oct 2007 Posts: 542 Location: Just Know That It Sucksville, Usa
Best Decision Posted: 01-02-08 13:19pm
ok here's the deal,
My sister is pregnant, i think like 2 1/2
months and i'm not really sure what to do
for her, and
what i mean by this is that her boyfriend
dallas, doesn't do anything for her, he
don't have a job she pays for everything,
Her car, he drives it but doesn't pay for
gas or her insurance or her car payment.
She has no insurance on her car due to the
fact she can't afford it,
Another thing, their house they just got,
she pays for the bills, electricity, gas,
water, rent, down payment, ect.
Her phone, he uses it and runs the bill up
but doesn't help pay for it when the bill
is $200
Ok and her job she works at Walmart and
get's paid Bi-weekly and only gets paid
like $400-$500
Now the deal is he wants her to move to
Alaska with him, we live on the
oklahoma/kansas border.
And i can't do anything to help her
because we don't speak, again, but
HELP!!!!
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moldedbymercy88
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Joined: 28 Nov 2007 Posts: 521 Location: Somewhere, FL USA
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Posted: 01-02-08 13:32pm
I don't know how we're supposed to help
here. Is your sister showing any signs of
leaving him? Sounds like that would
certainly help her budget, and you don't
want her with someone that uses her. You
say that you and your sister don't speak,
are you on bad terms or did you just drift
apart?
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Little Miss Oops
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2007 Posts: 542 Location: Just Know That It Sucksville, Usa
Posted: 01-04-08 12:40pm
we are on bad terms again, no she doesn't
show any signs of leaving him..... we have
never been close but she got mad at me
because on christmas morning she decided
to tell my parents which is my dad and
step mom that she was pregnant and i
recorded it on my phone because i thought
it was a special time and in the last part
of it my dad says "i was 25 when i had
you!!" and sam which is my sis said "and
mom was like 12" well she was 20 yrs old
when she had sam, 16 when she had my
oldest bro, 17 when she had my youngest
bro, 20 when she ahd sam and 21 when she
had me. well i showed my mom the recording
not knowing about that whole thing and she
asked sam about it and sam lied. So sam
texted me that same morning and said "why
don't you go back to not noticing me and
not talking to me it was soo much better"
i don't really know what to do....