I Hope Someone Can Help Me.... Posted: 01-03-08 00:22am
I have been with one particular man for
most of my life. I've dated him for 4
years. About a year ago he moved away so
we have a long distance relationship. But
for a the past few months he has been
treating me horribly. He tells me he
doesnt care if I die, he calls me a bunch
of names, tells me he doesnt care about
me, I dont deserve anything. And if
something is wrong or if something bad
happens to me, I tell him and he has no
reaction to it. He says okay at the most.
But then he tells me he loves me. I havent
believed he loves me for the longest time.
I know he did before though because before
he treated me amazingly and showed me
love. We were a strong couple.
I cannot take what he is doing to me. He
hurts me too much, too often. I dont know
what to do. I cannot emotionally handle to
cut myself off from him. Even if we are
broken up (we have broken up before for a
short amount of time) he still treats me
this way. I dont know what to do. I love
him with all my heart and I need him but
at the same time it hurts too much to
continue with him. Whenever I try to leave
him, I find myself coming back after a
couple hours of crying. I dont know what
to do anymore. Any suggestions? Please. Im
stuck!
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Jude-Love
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jun 2007 Posts: 727 Location: Williamstown, Kentucky USA
Posted: 01-03-08 00:40am
There really isn't anything to be
suggested here. You just have to leave
him and not take him back. You don't
really need him and you CAN be happy
without him, even if you don't believe
that right now.
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mominashoe
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Joined: 04 Dec 2007 Posts: 1534 Location: , USA
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Posted: 01-03-08 02:33am
I know you are emotionally tied to him,
but he definitely isn't to you. I don't
understand why he hasn't actually just
said that he is breaking up with you and
moving on to other people.
You need to just tell him that it's over
and leave it that way for good. It will
take a little time for you to heal, but it
is better to start now than to keep
putting off the inevitable and getting
constantly hurt and put down at the same
time.
Keep yourself busy with other things to
help yourself get over him. Find a new
hobby that will preoccupy your time and
your mind. After a bit, look for someone
else to give your time and your love
to......someone who will care about you
and deserve what you have to offer:
because the one you are giving it to
really does not deserve it.
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