Female orgasm not always possible? Posted: 01-03-08 15:19pm
Ok. Here is my question. My wife and I
had a discussion the other night and I do
not understand how this can happen. She
tells me that she can not orgasm at times
because its like her "spot" is not there.
I asked her if it is something I am doing
wrong, and she said "no, its nothing with
you...sometimes i am able to have an
orgasm and other times i am not". This
goes in spurts, and I was just wondering
how it is possible that a womans "g spot"
is not there at times and cant feel it? Do
any of you ladies have this issue? Thanks
for your help!
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lele25
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Dec 2007 Posts: 520 Location: Southland, USA
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Posted: 01-03-08 16:27pm
I don't think that its literally gone, but
sometimes yeah it is hard for me to
climax. It has nothing to do with what my
husband is or is not doing, sometimes its
just difficult. I have found though that
if we prolong forplay, then climaxing
during sex comes much easier. Also, if I'm
stressed, tired, had one to many glasses
of wine, ect. then it can really mess up
my ability to climax. Try more forplay, if
your not already, and ask her if there's
anything else you can do to please her.
Good Luck!
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mrsJ
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Mar 2007 Posts: 82 Location: ,
Posted: 01-04-08 01:22am
Go for her clitoris...g spot Os are
impossible for most women anyway.
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n2r7moopad
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Dec 2007 Posts: 30
Posted: 01-04-08 15:38pm
I had this issue for years.....do some
g-spot research, read some of the other
g-spot topics on this page they should
help you.
She has to be VERY arroused, not think
about having the O it will lessen the
arrousal.....and practice.
