Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 7892 Location: *UPTOWN*NEW ORLEANS*, La
husband afraid of sex Posted: 01-04-08 12:15pm
So, I don't know if I've really spoken on
it, but my libido has been in the crapper
this ENTIRE pregnancy!! I haven't wanted
to have sex at ALL!
I'm not one that'll deprive Baron for
longer than a week or 2 though.
With Oni, I was the COMPLETE opposite! I
wanted sex every day, all day if I
could!!
Anyways, now that I'm 36 1/2 weeks, Baron
doesn't want to give me ANY!! He's sooooo
paranoid that it'll hurt the baby, or make
her come out.
Since I got preggers, he hasn't came in
me. Which was started by me. I didn't want
to take a chance in inducing labor once we
got further into it. So to get him used to
pulling out, we started from jump street.
Anyways, we ran out of lube, so it had
been awhile since we did the deed. About a
week ago, I bought more and wanted to have
sex that night...of course he
REFUSED...and still refuses to this day!!
I keep telling him that I'll be out of
commission for at LEAST a month after the
baby, so if he's smart, he'd get him some
NOW!! but he won't listen! He says "I'm
fine with that...I DON'T want the baby to
come early like Oni!"
I tell him that every pregnancy is
different and women have sex up till the
day they're due to TRY to induce the
labor...and for him to not be afraid...but
he won't listen...::sigh::
What should I do?!?! Neither of us are the
solo masturbating type. And I don't have
the urge for oral..it just seems gross to
me at the moment! LOL!!
I don't know why I even care, It's not
like I can have an orgasm
anyways...crap...
I have not enjoyed sex the whole time
either so far. I know that poor David
tries and tries and he can not make me
orgasm either. I just don't even try
anymore unless he is the aggressor usually
i am lol i was trying to figure out a way
to get some fun into but everything i try
doesnt work. Also David is the same way he
is scared he will hurt the baby which
makes it even worse for me because i like
him to do certain things and now he wont.
I think even though you not the
masturbating type try it, it helps get
some frustration out lol thats what i
resorted to doing when im not dead tired
at the end of the day in which most cases
i am. This may sound weird but i dont
really get any enjoyment out of giving him
oral so i rarely do it lol and he slacks
in that area too! darn him!
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Eyes Wide Shut
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 7892 Location: *UPTOWN*NEW ORLEANS*, La
Posted: 01-04-08 13:24pm
lol!! I was actually thinking about
getting one of those magic bullets to get
me to orgasm.
My fav position is doggy style, and I'm
the one that gets myself off, (with the
help of Baron of course).
But he doesn't like to do it as hard
because of the baby. And I'm alll about it
being rough!
man, it just really sucks...When I'm not
preggers, I'm a multi-orgasm'er(if that's
a word! lol!) I'll get off no less than
twice...and it TOTALLY helps with
frustration/stress.
With Oni being sick, and him getting sick,
I'm stressed to the MAX and NEEEEED to
have an orgasm!!!!
Sarah
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Marianne0558
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Joined: 10 Sep 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: Charleston, SC USA
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Posted: 01-04-08 13:33pm
Oh girls... my friend was telling me about
the panties that will make you orgasm a
whole bunch...
all it is, is a strand of pearls.
lol!! I was actually
thinking about getting one of those magic
bullets to get me to orgasm.
My fav position is doggy style, and I'm
the one that gets myself off, (with the
help of Baron of course).
But he doesn't like to do it as hard
because of the baby. And I'm alll about it
being rough!
man, it just really sucks...When I'm not
preggers, I'm a multi-orgasm'er(if that's
a word! lol!) I'll get off no less than
twice...and it TOTALLY helps with
frustration/stress.
With Oni being sick, and him getting sick,
I'm stressed to the MAX and NEEEEED to
have an orgasm!!!!
Sarah
Trust me i know what u mean Sarah
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Becky
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Joined: 01 Jan 2006 Posts: 6225 Location: London, England
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Posted: 01-04-08 13:56pm
Aw I'm sorry hun. Just masturbate alot and
hold on for a little bit longer til the
baby is born then you can do it all you
like
