irregular cycle since miscarriage

Well I can't give you too much advice about PCOS because I don't know too much about it but I too suffered a m/c in July and my body is still not back to normal.

For me usually(before m/c) I can tell exactly when I am ovulating (by CM and tenderness) however since then I have no idea. My body isn't giving me any signs at all. I just don't feel right. My cycles used to be around 29 days but now they go from 35 to 45 days long. It is super frustrating!!!

And now for about a week before my period I start feeling nauseous, back pain and a lot of cramping......it almost feels like what it felt like when I was pregnant. I never had that before either. I too really don't know what to do anymore...everyone tells me to give it time to let my body get back to normal but you would think that by now it would be. Like how long is this supposed to take????

Are you temping or anything like that? Did you have trouble conceiving the 1st time? I know your scared but maybe it wouldn't be a bad idea to see your doctor about it. At least you know that you "can" get pregnant, maybe you just need a little help to make it happen faster. I am so sorry hun that this is happening to you...I really wish that I could be of more help to you.

I hope that our bodies finally get back to normal and we get our bfp's really soon!!!

At least I am not the only one with this problem =0) I feel better now. Yeah I get the breast tenderness to but yeah I cannot figure out anything by my body anymore. Grr I tested again when I got home and still a bfn. Well we tried for about a year before I got the BFP and mc'd We will see grrrr

This is so bizarre........pretty much right after I posted I went to the washroom and I finally got a sign that I just might O this month. I had lots of that egg white kind of cm. So I am thinking that it just might happen this weekend.

So maybe people are right when they say give your body time to adjust.....I don't know. Do you temp? Or take those ovulation predictor things ( I don't because they are too expensive for me) but I was just wondering if you know if you are O'ing or not. Did you have regular cycles before the m/c? Also there are a couple of girls who have gotten pregnant after being diagnosed with PCOS and are going on to have healthy babies. So if I were you I would go to the doctors and let them know how irregular your cycles are.

Feel free to pm it you ever need to talk.....Shannah

I use to temp and use the kits but Honestly it made me go insane. I am not sure if I am o'ing but I do get sore bb's just no AF. Yes I was regular almost to the second before I mc'd

I know how hard this is for you, but you really should see a dr. I have been going thru all the same things, and I had a early mc in July. Finding out I have PCOS was the best thing that has ever happened to me. I have lost 25lbs with just the pcos diet alone, no meds, I ovulate now(clomid, but it works!) and my periods are like clockwork, which they never have been before. You may be like me, I have a mild case of pcos, no cysts on my ovaries, just my bloodwork(insulin) is alittle off. One small thing can throw off your whole cycle, and stop you from conceiving or carrying to full term. Don't think of it as a bad thing, it may be just a small tweak to get you your baby. Good luck, we are all here for you.

I had a miscarriage Dec. '06, it's a hard thing to go through, but I agree that you should check with your Dr. I found out that my miscarriage was because of my septated uterus. The sooner you find out what might be wrong, the sooner it can get fixed and the closer you are to having babies. I'm like you, I've wanted to be a mother since I was a little girl, for some of us, it'll just take a little more time.
Good luck, and pm me if you need to!