Hello, first of all I have a lot of
respect to all of you in here. I think
it is great that you all are taking
responsibility for your actions. I am 17
and in highschool. Im not pregnant, but
I am looking for any
info/interviews/stories that you could
give me. Anything would help. This is
for a report I am working on, so if you
dont feel like answering, its completely
understandable. I would like to talk to
any of you who are willing.
Thanks so much
kaleigh
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 09-11-03 11:15am
I can give you a big story but what do you
need it on? Teen mothers?
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 09-11-03 11:44am
Because my sister was 15, turning 16 and
she ran away all the way from california
to nebraska to live with the guy she was
going to "marry" and raise the baby out
there, then my mom had her arrested out
there for being a runaway, and my mom and
dad drove all the ay out there nonstop, (3
days) to get her, brought her back and had
her live here. My parents cared that much
to have her home. Daniel (the dad) found
a new girlfriend out there while my sister
thought he was faithful and would be home
soon. So now her and my mom are like best
friends (mothers bonding) and daniel came
back, they tried to work things out, it
didnt happen and now he doesnt see the
baby at all, shes going to be 1 and hes
seen her maybe 5 times. Now shes at court
as we speek getting him for child support
and penalizing him for not using his
visitation. Whew! Long story! Thats not
even detail either! The baby is very
beautiful. I can even take a picture of
the both of them and email it to you if
you want! My cell does that. Let me know
if you want my story. I was there for
everything. I spent many paychecks
spoiling my sister buying anything she
needed while pregnant. Oh yeah, then she
got the disease pre-eclampsia and she had
to deliver at 7 months, the baby weighed
4.1 pounds. And my sister wanted to give
people trouble to pronounce her name so
she named her "esperanza graciela
martinez" my sister was in the hospital
for a week. And they said the baby would
be in there for 2 months but she did so
good they let her out at one week later.
Ok so let me know if you want the whole
story!
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Missa
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2003 Posts: 5 Location: Canada
Posted: 09-11-03 18:52pm
Well I would like to ask if in this report
you scare the crap out of boys who will
say they will be there and when it finally
comes to there part they back out and say
it anit theres and call you a promiscuous
person! Well as you can see this is my
story to me so please to a scared soon to
be mom hit them were it hurts so they in
the end know what they are getting into!
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tmjjj
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Sep 2003 Posts: 15 Location: Indiana
Posted: 09-11-03 21:31pm
I have a story. Its long so I will
tell you the simple things. Pregnant at
15, mother told me to get an abortion, I
ran away from home to live with my dad.
Ended up losing the baby when I was 4
months along. My mom told me that was the
happiest day in her hole life. Know I
have 3 lovely babies, and my mom only see
them about every 2-3 months. There is
alot more if you want to know..
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Angeleyes28677
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Sep 2003 Posts: 7 Location: NC
Posted: 09-14-03 23:30pm
Boy have I got a story for you...I'll make
it short and if u wanna know more u can Pm
me? I was 16 and preg with my 1st, I had
high blood pressure and was labeled high
risk...My 2nd child I was preg with when I
was 18, I was married and he spent the
whole pregnancy in prison, afterward
nothing, he still wants nothing to do with
his son (lousy friend) but anyhoo, my
third was when I was 20, I was raped and
he is the product, but I love him so much
it hurts. So glad I kept him! Now my
boyfriend and I are expecting another
baby, I am 23, he already has one...So
between the both of us this will be five
kids and I have got to be the happiest
woman on earth, young, healthy children, a
man who adores me and my children...To
make this story really short...God has
blessed me many times over! Good luck on
the report!!! :d
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mana_25_2002
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Sep 2003 Posts: 6
Willin to Help Posted: 09-15-03 12:33pm
Hi I am willing to answer any questions
for you. I have had preclampsia and lost
my first child at 26 weeks pregnate and
the father wasnt there at all. Well I
went back and got pregnate by him again
and had another beautiful boy and he still
wasnt there for me at all. He doesnt help
me out with anything my baby is almost 2
and he has seen him like maybe 6 times he
doesnt pay child support still. But I
make it on my own and I am willing to
answer anything that will help you. Pm me
hope I can be some help to you
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 09-15-03 12:50pm
You should go to court and force it. My
sister gets 324 a month and shes going
back so she can get more. Then she said
that there were alot of mothers who only
get 119 or nothing at all. And they only
get that because they dont fight to get
more money. Two of you made that baby,
then the two should support it. The judge
will order him to appear and show his
check stubbs and grant that he pays for
the baby. And the less he sees, the more
he pays. And the longer it takes for you
to go and he hasnt paid, the more he owes.
Go for it girl, you deserve it.
