preggie meggie
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13 And Having Sex !!!
Posted: 01-06-08 15:55pm
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Okay guys I know I'm not a parent but My
sister told me that she had sex the other
night when she came over untill mom got
home to pick her up from my house...she is
only 13. I freaked out after she left
....I didnt know weather or not to tell my
mother. This is a new place THEY JUST
moved to. Im so angry at her, she has only
known this kid for 1 month and he is 2 yrs
older then her. Should I tell my mom or
keep it between her and I? 
Megan
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-06-08 15:57pm
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tell your mother if you want to help her
she could have an std of somethng and she
needs to get pap tests done now
if you let it go then something can happen
in the long run and you might feel bad
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amethyst eyes
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Posted: 01-06-08 15:58pm
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Tell your mother. She needs to know
exactly what is going on with her child,
because she is a CHILD and she is putting
herself at risk for diseases and
pregnancy..
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Phant Ears
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Posted: 01-06-08 16:01pm
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You should tell your mother. But telling
your mother isn't going to stop her from
having sex.
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preggie meggie
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Posted: 01-06-08 16:19pm
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| the_girlfriend
wrote: | tell your mother if you want
to help her
she could have an std of somethng and she
needs to get pap tests done now
if you let it go then something can happen
in the long run and you might feel
bad |
These are thing I brought up to her and
she's like this is why I dont tell you
things...I felt bad. BUT I love her and
dont want to see her get hurt. I'm calling
my mom now or should I tell her in
person....what should I say to her?
AHHHHHHHHH 
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preggie meggie
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Posted: 01-06-08 16:20pm
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| iridescent_opal
wrote: | | Tell your mother. She needs
to know exactly what is going on with her
child, because she is a CHILD and she is
putting herself at risk for diseases and
pregnancy.. |
I know she is a CHILD that is why Im am so
worried!
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Relm
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Posted: 01-06-08 16:30pm
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I know what you're feeling and trust me,
your going to feel bad but you'll be
helping her out soooo much. You could be
preventing her from being really hurt.
I think tell your mom in person, and don't
panic because you'll cause her to panic.
Tell her you need to talk to her about
something important and say that you are
concerned about your sister. She's not
going to be very happy, but you need to be
her strong spot for a few minutes until
she comes to.
Good luck!
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-06-08 16:32pm
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id tell your mom in person  and maybe
sit her down by herself and then you and
your mom can go talk to your sis?
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amethyst eyes
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Posted: 01-06-08 16:38pm
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I would tell your mother asap before your
sister has a chance to leave her and go
off and do something else that is equally
stupid.
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-06-08 16:39pm
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hey megan i pmed you
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preggie meggie
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Posted: 01-08-08 19:11pm
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| the_girlfriend
wrote: | | hey megan i pmed you |
Thank you!
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preggie meggie
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Posted: 01-08-08 19:13pm
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Okay guys I told my mom, she wasnt Mad
just upset. She talked to Melissa and told
her she isnt alowd over their any more.
But her b.f Jared can come over when both
her and dad are home. So i feel a lot
better now! Thanks guys!!
Oh and Yes her b/f and my husband have the
same name just spelled diff.
Mine= Jarad Hers= Jared Lol. I found that
funny!
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Relm
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Posted: 01-08-08 19:35pm
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I'm glad it went well : D
Did you guys talk about getting her on bc
tho? Probably still a good idea! Those
tricky teen : )
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preggie meggie
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Relm
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Posted: 01-08-08 22:57pm
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Wahoooo! Thank goodness she has a sister
like you : )
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preggie meggie
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Posted: 01-09-08 19:01pm
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| Relm
wrote: | | Wahoooo! Thank goodness she
has a sister like you :
) |
Thanks...Lol. I hope that with me telling
mom and all that she dosn't decide not to
tell me things. I dont normally tell on
her but this is somthing that mom needed
to know. Like Melissa smokes, I dont tell
mom because I hope that by seeing what it
did to our Grandma that just died two days
ago she will quite. I smoke and I know its
bad so I think mabey if I quite she will
too. Pluse they just passed a bunch of new
laws here in Illinois about smoking so
really ya just have to quite. O-well
right...Lol
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fantasticj2
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Ok this is if you wheter or not....
Posted: 03-17-08 15:33pm
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I think first you should try convincing
your Sister about how sex is and when to
do it and why. It depends on how old you
are. I mean if my sister would've been
doing sex i would take her for a check in
the doctor but before that i would try to
convince her why she shouldn't do it with
a guy she just met. After taking her to
the doctor she will probably be convinved
a little because i would let the doctor
help me out by telling my sister about
different diseases she might get by doing
that same thing like that and because he
is professional she would probably would
understand more i mean for a girl age of
13, she has to be a little mature to
understands, special when she has her
sister worrying about her. I wouldn't tell
my mom because i wouldn't like she doing
the same thing to me, and because im her
big brother i should take care of her
more. So if my life matches with yours, i
think you should just think about it
before telling your mom, I think you
should just try to convince her, because
she won't stop making sex, she probably
would if somebody almost her age would
tell her about it.
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fantasticj2
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One more thing....
Posted: 03-17-08 15:39pm
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Oh and Megan you are a good SISTER =) just
think about it, take you time, but not
much =) i know you will do the right thing
if you should or shouldn't your still
helping your sister, Take care of her alot
because litle girls these days are being
with guys who they don't even know really.
Show her what you know, show her what she
suppose to know to survive in this world.
Don't worry about about it, she will
understand, just that don't make her
understand once the damage has been done,
try to show her now that she's ok.
Hope my Advice helps you. Continue being
a great SISTER. You do a great job at it
=)
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