pain when hymen penetrated ?

I wish my boyfriend was bigger, i can barely feel it when he puts it up my bum let alone my vagina!

For those girls who think anal hurts... It hasn't for me, and I've had up to 8inches up me....

Sorry if this offends anyone lol

James
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not every thing ready yet jthorne i didnot choose my wedding dress yet i still looking for dress i like to my wedding i become so worry i wanna be pretty in that day . and my apartment still buy some stuff to it .but i did buy my under wears and my lingrie stuff

i dont know yet how is my boyfriend bigger or small lol . but its willnot make differnce with me , about anal i dont like it or intrest in it at all and its make health problems too &dont wanna try it one day . but its good if u like it and enjoy it that is good that every one do things which she enjoy it and u seem u like anal and wow its not hurt u at all cause i heard it so painfull

I am 23 yrs old and jus lose my virginity, at this moment I am still feeling a lot of pain. Is there any one that can help me how to get rid of the pain i'm feeling. Pls ladies i need y'all advice.

So are you waiting till after you get married to have sex?
It sounds amazing that you've been together three years and you havent seen his penis. You two have never fooled around in any way?
I guess that isn't that weird though.
I never saw or touched my boyfriend's penis until the night we had sex for the first time, which was a little over six months of dating.

But as for sex advice, just take it slow. If you're confused about lube application, do what i do and use a condom that already has lube on it.
If you're nervous about picking a position, let him pick it.
If you don't like it, you can suggest to change it...or just change it!
there's usually not a lot of talking involved when you're in the moment so a gentle tug in the direction you wanna pull him into should work.
As for being nervous about being on top...
some guys like it!
My boyfriend actually likes to start out that way and then we switch around...he actually pulls me onto him...it's sexy
well good luck and congrats on the upcoming wedding!

honestly, this is my advice. experiment with yourself first and foremost. have u ever used fingers on yourself? if not, then you will probably experience some pain having sex. i suggest either exploring yourself first or using a toy.

iam really sorry that u have pain and hope that u get ride of it soon . i think if u use lubricante will be geart and less ur pain and i hope its work.

yes maji iam waiting after marrage to have sex and yes he never touch me through the 3 years i want my first kiss,first touch and first hug to me in all my life to be after marrage i think its will be differnt feeling and will be differnt in every thing and i think the slow will be good with me . about me on top i think i cant do it cause iam shy so i think he who will be on top .... iam sooo thanks to u maji for ur help and for ur replay

i dont think that i will try the anal one day i refuse it at all and didnot intrest in it . i know that there are alot of people like it and enjoy it but i dont think in it at all . i finally find dress to my wedding and i hope to look good in that day and thanks for u for ur care and for ur replay

no i dont use my fingers on my self befor and cant do it or use toy for some reason and thanks too much for ur replay

Wow, I hope your wedding day is just perfect! It's so nice that you are really saving yourself for marriage. I can't imagine how special that day is going to be for you.

Is that a picture of you under your name? If so, you are very beautiful and I'm sure you could wear anything and still look sooo pretty!

As far as your original question goes, sex didn't really hurt me my first time, and I am muuuccchhh smaller than my boyfriend was (my now husband). Just make sure you are reeeaally ready to do it, and not just going to do it because you are rushing home from your wedding. Give it time, and do lots of kissing (let him go crazy and really kiss you everrrywhere... that's always a turn on) and touching and just be intimate with him. I'd definitely suggest having him on top of you first. For me, that position is the most comfortable. If your husband's penis is really big then it will be less likely to be long enough to hit your cervix (it feels like he hits a wall where he can't go in any further) this way. YOu should also probably try lube, but I didn't use any my first time and I don't remember any pain really. In fact, the only time it hurts is when he goes in really deep, but it's not an unbearable, sharp kind of pain. I'm sure he loves you very much and will go slow as this is your first time, but you may find that you are so in love with him that you're comfortable doing things you never imagined before you'd want to do! Just really enjoy the special moment and let us know how it is after it happens!

yea i hope that day is going perfect too . no this pic not for me but my friends say that i look like her , but i dont know if i will be pretty on that day or not .
iam really happy that ur first sex wasnt painfull . about lubricante i will use it in god willing . do u know that he said that too that i will make things with him and i never imagine that i will going to do it . ok and i will let u know how it was after its happen and wish good luck for me :') my wedding after 28 day from now:P
thanks so much for ur replay

i remember my first time trying anal, it was ok we took it slow, didnt use eough lube tho lol ouch. second time amazing is all im gonna say lol i didnt kno i would like it so much. we've been together 16mnth and only tried it like 3 times lol

thanks for ur replay . i know that much people do anal and liked it but i dont intrest in it at all and never imagin that i try it one day . but why u tried it 3 times only in 16 months u didnt liked it or what?

I had never tried it so I was nervous. Plus it takes a lot of time because you have to take it slow and I somètimes I don't feel like taking my time lol but
I do it more freguently now and take my time. It is a little messy afterwords when
your done that's why we don't do it all the time lol

did u enjoy it when u do it?? and how u enjoy it? i feel its more enjoy for the male more than the female but i realy dont know cause i never try any kind of sex yet