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Electriceyes
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I Guess I Get What I Wanted...sorta
Posted: 01-06-08 23:43pm
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So, I just found out my ex. (baby's
father) might be moving to Tenn. I was
really hoping he'd be around to be part of
the baby's life at least a little bit but,
at the same time I wanted him gone for how
he treated me at the end of our
relationship.
IF he moves to Tenn. that means Dallas can
raise this baby as his own without the
interference of Devon which we both some
what want.
As much as I dislike Devon I DON'T want
him out of my life and that far away. I
mean this IS his baby to, He should be a
part of his life. He still thinks it would
be best for me to give him up but the fact
that I AM keeping him doesn't make him
dislike me or not want to be a part of his
child's life. Or so I thought.
I still care for Devon a little then again
I will always in some way care for all of
my exes. But this was just a HUGE shock to
me and makes me a bit upset that he's just
now telling me this. We're really good
friends so I would have thought I'd have
known sooner.
I hope he decides to not go.
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-07-08 00:17am
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why is he moving
manohman
this is sucky
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 01-07-08 00:29am
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he sounds like he wants to be in the babys
life.. he just seems to think it would be
best (Probably) due to ur financial
situation to give the baby up. He probably
isnt secure enough in his finances and
feels he couldnt provide for the baby the
way he feels it should be, which is
commendable.
I hope he doesnt move, as it would be nice
for the child to know their real father.
but if he feels its in his best interest
(and yours) then so be it. It sucks.. but
what can you do?
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Electriceyes
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Location: Monroe, Michigan United States
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Posted: 01-07-08 00:38am
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Suzy- I asked why he is moving and I have
not got a response and probably wont until
some time tomorrow.
It is very sucky
Sandy- He did say he wants to be a part of
the baby's life no matter what I did. Keep
him or give him up (we would have done
open adoption with a family friend)
That is EXACTLY why he wanted me to give
up the baby and well because of our ages.
He has a temp job working with him mom now
till march and is looking for a full time.
Well was looking. I told him he didn't
have to provide for the baby and he said
ok but he'd still help out when he could.
He's more worried about finishing
college.
I agree. It would be nice for him to know
his real father. He can be a great guy
most of the time and would make a
wonderful dad. I know I can't stop him but
I wish I could. I just think he's not
ready to be a dad at all.
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-07-08 00:50am
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yeah
unfortunatly girls mature fater then boys
it sucks but its true
this will be tough but hang in there
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 01-07-08 00:52am
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well you are both young.. it was scary
when i became a mom at 23.. i cant imagine
being 16 or 17 with a baby. I'm proud of
you guys for being so responsible about
keeping the baby. It shows maturity and
that you are being responsible for your
own actions.
He'll come around. Especially if he
manages to be there when the baby is born.
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Electriceyes
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Posted: 01-07-08 00:52am
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yeah,
Well, i've always heard boys mature faster
girls just show it sooner lol
I'm a generally though girl so I know no
matter what I'll get through it 
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Electriceyes
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Posted: 01-07-08 00:54am
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| Sandy_Pants
wrote: | well you are both young.. it
was scary when i became a mom at 23.. i
cant imagine being 16 or 17 with a baby.
I'm proud of you guys for being so
responsible about keeping the baby. It
shows maturity and that you are being
responsible for your own actions.
He'll come around. Especially if he
manages to be there when the baby is
born. |
I told him he WILL be there when the baby
is born..as long as it's not 4 am 'cuz he
wont drive 40 mins at that time of day.
but if he's at wrok he'll just have to
leave  .. I really
hope he comes around
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 01-07-08 00:55am
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who cares if its 4 AM!?? lol make his butt
be there!! He didnt care when it was 4 AM
when he knocked you up!! lol
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Electriceyes
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Posted: 01-07-08 00:56am
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lol, yeah, i'll make some one drag his
butt outa bed
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 01-07-08 00:58am
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well i hope he stays.. what reason does he
have to move away?
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-07-08 01:00am
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| princess6591
wrote: | | Sandy_Pants
wrote: | well you are both young.. it
was scary when i became a mom at 23.. i
cant imagine being 16 or 17 with a baby.
I'm proud of you guys for being so
responsible about keeping the baby. It
shows maturity and that you are being
responsible for your own actions.
He'll come around. Especially if he
manages to be there when the baby is
born. |
I told him he WILL be there when the baby
is born..as long as it's not 4 am 'cuz he
wont drive 40 mins at that time of day.
but if he's at wrok he'll just have to
leave .. I really
hope he comes
around |
girl i wnet in labor at 4:18 am lol
travis has never jumped out of bed so fast
in his LIFE
i said" trav wake up the babies comming"
and in 5.2 seconds he was UP lol
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Electriceyes
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Posted: 01-07-08 01:15am
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I don't know his reasons for leaving.
Lol. I don't think Devon would be up that
fast but I do think he'd try to get there.
His mom and grandma might try to stop them
but screw them both.
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Electriceyes
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Posted: 01-07-08 09:02am
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Well, he mailed me back this morning and
the reason I "b/c I just want outa
Michigan"
I told him I don't want him that far away.
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yellow ribbon
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Posted: 01-07-08 18:37pm
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| the_girlfriend
wrote: | | princess6591
wrote: | | Sandy_Pants
wrote: | well you are both young.. it
was scary when i became a mom at 23.. i
cant imagine being 16 or 17 with a baby.
I'm proud of you guys for being so
responsible about keeping the baby. It
shows maturity and that you are being
responsible for your own actions.
He'll come around. Especially if he
manages to be there when the baby is
born. |
I told him he WILL be there when the baby
is born..as long as it's not 4 am 'cuz he
wont drive 40 mins at that time of day.
but if he's at wrok he'll just have to
leave .. I really
hope he comes
around |
girl i wnet in labor at 4:18 am lol
travis has never jumped out of bed so fast
in his LIFE
i said" trav wake up the babies comming"
and in 5.2 seconds he was UP
lol |
man i woulda loved to see is face lol
ashley with that kind of reason i would
doubt hes going anywhere, he prob just had
a bad day.
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Electriceyes
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Posted: 01-07-08 18:42pm
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I hope he stays. He's said he was moving
before. But that wasn't going to be until
his gf graduates in may..so i doubt he's
gonna leave anytime soon if at all
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yellow ribbon
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Posted: 01-07-08 20:52pm
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wait gf? she knowyour having his baby?!
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Electriceyes
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Posted: 01-07-08 20:55pm
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yes, she does. She sees no problem with
it. She HATES me but has no problem that
he's got a kid on the way.
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yellow ribbon
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Posted: 01-07-08 21:56pm
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i assume they got together AFTER you got
pregnant
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Electriceyes
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Posted: 01-07-08 22:01pm
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yeah, I was about 5.5-6 months pregnant
when we broke up and less than a week
later they got together.... Then he
cheated on her the first two weeks with
me. We still lived together..and I had no
clue they were together or I wouldn't have
let that happen...
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