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giganticworrywart
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Pregnancy Without Sex?
Posted: 01-07-08 17:37pm
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i'm 15, and my boyfriend came into town
last week.
we didn't go all the way, but both of us
to third base. he didn't have a condom on
so i'm worried that i might, by my
horrible luck, become pregnant. it was the
first day after my period, so i have to
wait until the end of the month to figure
it out!
i'm seriously FREAKING out, but i can't
tell any of my friends. he tells me that
he didn't have semen on his hands and that
he had ejaculated on his hip, but i'm
still completely worried that some stray
sperm on the bed or something might've
infiltrated base, to put it lightly.
i am known to be paranoid, but i can't
keep thinking about it!
does anyone know the chances of me
becoming pregnant, or did any of you
become pregnant without having sex?
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PenguinsRus
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Posted: 01-07-08 17:52pm
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You are not pregnant. Sperm dies when it
hits the air. Also, it is highly unlikely
you ovulated the day after your period.
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Proud Mama
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Posted: 01-07-08 18:03pm
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It is very unlikely that you're pregnant.
Even though it's only the average that
women ovulate 14 days after their period.
Just please maybe look into birth control
if you're not ready to get pregnant right
now. It can be a big help.
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giganticworrywart
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Posted: 01-07-08 19:16pm
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thanks guys, i mean i've read it all
online but it's actually really reassuring
to actually have people say this to me.
however i'm just always going to be
paranoid so i hope i don't relate
everything i do to me being pregnant.
also, there is the fact that i do have bad
luck.
thank you very much, it really did ease
me.
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PenguinsRus
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Posted: 01-07-08 19:19pm
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If you are paranoid, buy a test just to
ease your mind. I'd say theres a .000001%
chance you are pregnant though, since his
penis didn't even enter your vagina.
Also, if you are convinced you think
you're pregnant, sometimes your body makes
up symptoms to go along with that even if
you aren't pregnant, so try not to worry
too much
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-07-08 19:43pm
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your not pregnant
you dont even need a test
you are NOTpregnant
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Posted: 01-07-08 19:45pm
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I don't know why some of you think sperm
dies right away. It doesn't.
The life-span of
sperm
Question
How long does sperm live once it's in the
open-air?
Answer
How long sperm can live in the open-air
depends on the situation, what kind of
environment it's in and how much sperm is
present. But, on average, sperm can't live
for much longer than a few hours in the
open-air. It's important to remember that
if sperm is inside a women's body, it can
survive for up to seven days.
There is a risk of pregnancy if sperm
comes into contact with the vagina in any
way including from sperm on fingers. If
you think that sperm may have come into
contact with your vagina within the last
five days, and you don't want to get
pregnant, you should seek advice on
emergency contraception as soon as
possible.
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PenguinsRus
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Posted: 01-07-08 19:58pm
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True, but in her case theres really not a
way she can be pregnant. He didn't
ejaculate on his hand or anywhere near
her, and she's worried that a small amount
fell off of himself and onto the bed sheet
and somehow crawled up the bedsheet and
into her vagina and managed to get all the
way up to make her pregnant when they
didn't have sex at all. It just doesn't
seem possible.
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giganticworrywart
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Posted: 01-07-08 19:59pm
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I would get an emergency contraceptive,
but everything I've read says it'd be too
late for me. Also, I'm not on any sort of
birth control and have no idea how i'd
break it to my mom. She'd freak, and never
trust me again, even though i didn't
really think that anything could happen. I
too believe that there is the slimmest
chance in hell that I could be pregnant,
but I still can't get it off of my mind.
Thanks for being supportive, and
constructive.
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Posted: 01-07-08 19:59pm
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| PenguinsRus
wrote: | | True, but in her case theres
really not a way she can be pregnant. He
didn't ejaculate on his hand or anywhere
near her, and she's worried that a small
amount fell off of himself and onto the
bed sheet and somehow crawled up the
bedsheet and into her vagina and managed
to get all the way up to make her pregnant
when they didn't have sex at all. It just
doesn't seem
possible. |
I agree with you. I just wanted people to
know how long sperm can live after they
hit air.
DIE you little buggers! lol!
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giganticworrywart
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Posted: 01-07-08 21:32pm
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i am a paranoid pessimist, i wish it
wasn't so.
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Relm
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Posted: 01-07-08 21:33pm
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My advice is to talk to your mom, go to
the doctor, get birth control and use it.
If you're going to fool around, even not
going "all-the-way," you should be
protected, and well educated.
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1ragani
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Posted: 01-09-08 14:24pm
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well i got pregnant right after i had a
miscarriage but it wasent intentional that
i got pregnant but know im 5 months and
tomorrow im about to find out what its
going to be but you can get pregnant if he
cums inside of you it just depends how
your body works
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Posted: 01-09-08 23:53pm
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| futureshock
wrote: | I don't know why some of you
think sperm dies right away. It doesn't.
The life-span of
sperm
Question
How long does sperm live once it's in the
open-air?
Answer
How long sperm can live in the open-air
depends on the situation, what kind of
environment it's in and how much sperm is
present. But, on average, sperm can't live
for much longer than a few hours in the
open-air. It's important to remember that
if sperm is inside a women's body, it can
survive for up to seven days.
There is a risk of pregnancy if sperm
comes into contact with the vagina in any
way including from sperm on fingers. If
you think that sperm may have come into
contact with your vagina within the last
five days, and you don't want to get
pregnant, you should seek advice on
emergency contraception as soon as
possible. |
actually i dont believe this article one
bit because sperm can only survive on the
body for up to 5 days nothing more
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Posted: 01-10-08 07:35am
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its highy highly unlikely like almost
everyone else has said
but you need to try to calm yourself about
this, becuase if you freaking out every
little pms symptom your gonna take as a
pregnancy symptom, also if your that
worried you can actualy make yourself feel
pregnant and you can delay your period
too....stress can delay ovulation which
delays your period
~alicia~
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Posted: 01-10-08 07:36am
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| PenguinsRus
wrote: | | You are not pregnant. Sperm
dies when it hits the air. Also, it is
highly unlikely you ovulated the day after
your period. |
Actually, if she ovulates even a week
later, and there are sperm in the area,
she could get pregnant. Of course there
is almost no way there are any sperm in
the area, so I'm sure she's not pregnant.
I just wanted to point out how far out
ovulation can take place after sex and
still lead to pregnancy.
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giganticworrywart
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Posted: 01-10-08 15:02pm
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this actually puts it in better
perspective but for the past few days i've
felt sort of sick to my stomach in the
morning and i hope i'm imagining it.
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