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TwistedJack

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hair fetish
Posted: 01-09-08 17:26pm

I have one of the strangest fetishes I've personally ever heard of. I've searched the web and couldn't quite find anyone that shares it. Closest I've gotten is long hair fetishes.Mine is very specific. I have a fetish for half updo hairstyles. It's strange I know, and I'd appreciate if nobody made fun of it. It gets even more specific too, if the hair is curly or too wavy it doesn't turn me on, it has to be straight. The hair must also be generally split equally. Also, the bun or ponytail can't be low, it has to be any amount higher than the line that splits the down hair from the gathered hair. Though it still turns me on a little if some of the down hair is in front of the shoulders, I much much rather it all be behind the shoulders. If I see a hair do like that I go crazy, and I feel very sexually frustrated because I don't see it enough on girls. I'm not seeking mental help because I know this isn't unhealthy, I simply feel the need to share. If anyone else has a fetish they find hard to share I'm all ears too, I don't think any sort of fetish is sick or disgusting in any way,
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Posted: 01-09-08 19:01pm

thanks for sharing! Wink there's quite a few people have come forward here recently about fetishes, i am finding them all really interesting to read. i enjoy hearing about the unusual ones and all the diversity! i dont judge anyone for their fetishes either, as long as it's not hurting anyone! i think yours is pretty cool!
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Posted: 01-09-08 19:47pm

I'm glad to hear that, I'm very insecure about that fetish of mine and this is only my first time opening up about it and i appreciate what you think about mine Very
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Posted: 01-09-08 20:46pm

Hey the nice thing about that one is when you find a girl you like, you can get her to have that hairstyle.
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TwistedJack

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Posted: 01-09-08 21:13pm

That's the good part about it, it wouldn't take a girl with pretty straight hair any convincing really to do that for me, my main problem is I'm just insecure about this wierd taste of mine. I do have other unusual fetishes but this one takes the cake for being just plain wierd. Honestly I have no clue why it turns me on, it has nothing what so ever to do with sex yet it absolutly drives me up a wall to see beautiful straight hair put in a half ponytail.
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Posted: 01-10-08 07:25am

i have a question for you, i hope you don't think its rude or prying... i just want to understand your fetish better. say for example you see a hairstyle like this in a magazine and you are masturbating, do you have to imagine actually having sex with the girl in the magazine, or is it enough just seeing the hair like that? do you get off just looking at or thinking about her hair and nothing else?
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TwistedJack

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Posted: 01-10-08 15:49pm

fiona05 wrote:
i have a question for you, i hope you don't think its rude or prying... i just want to understand your fetish better. say for example you see a hairstyle like this in a magazine and you are masturbating, do you have to imagine actually having sex with the girl in the magazine, or is it enough just seeing the hair like that? do you get off just looking at or thinking about her hair and nothing else?
Believe it or not, I get off just looking at hair put up like that, I don't have to think. If I ever had a magazine like that I honestly would never get tired of masturbating over it. By the way I don't find your question rude, in fact asking questions helps me express this more and I really appreciate them.
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Posted: 01-10-08 16:15pm

I don't think you are strange....I have heard of much weirder fetishes..much much weirder...yours is actually quite normal I would think. Well, maybe not normal but surly not overtly weird or sick or anything.
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Posted: 01-13-08 08:21am

homerx wrote:
I don't think you are strange....I have heard of much weirder fetishes..much much weirder...yours is actually quite normal I would think. Well, maybe not normal but surly not overtly weird or sick or anything.


I agree, these days there are people with much stranger fetishes. The pony stuff is quite funny.
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Posted: 01-13-08 13:32pm

TwistedJack wrote:
fiona05 wrote:
i have a question for you, i hope you don't think its rude or prying... i just want to understand your fetish better. say for example you see a hairstyle like this in a magazine and you are masturbating, do you have to imagine actually having sex with the girl in the magazine, or is it enough just seeing the hair like that? do you get off just looking at or thinking about her hair and nothing else?
Believe it or not, I get off just looking at hair put up like that, I don't have to think. If I ever had a magazine like that I honestly would never get tired of masturbating over it. By the way I don't find your question rude, in fact asking questions helps me express this more and I really appreciate them.


cool! i'm glad i didn't offend you, it's something i've always wanted to know!

see, it would be over a year ago now i was making my boyfriend's bed and i was tucking the sheet in under the matress and i came across a photo he had printed off the internet of this girl showing off her painted fingernails. it took a little while (and a few drinks!) for me to pluck up the courage to ask him if he had a nail fetish and he said embarrassedly that he did. the more i thought about it though the more i embraced it and i want to understand it better and find the right time to slip it into the conversation again. i havent really ever found the right time to ask him what exactly he imagines when he is fantasising about this. but i really want to know! i want to be a part of it.

i'm a bit of a tomboy at heart so i never used to care about my nails, but ever since i've found out about his fetish i try to keep my hands well moisturised and try to grow my nails and keep them painted. it's hard though cos i work in a fairly manual job where they break all the time, and i can't afford to get acrylics done. i get jealous when i see people with nicer hands than me, cos i think he desires them more Sad recently i went to his work do with him and met a girl who works in his office and she has the most beautiful hands i have seen on a girl and i couldnt shake off the idea that he must imagine shagging her. i suppose that's why i asked you that question, cos i wondered if having a fetish means you desire only the object (like hair, or nails) or does it mean you desire the person that has them? Confused

i suppose i would find it reassuring if he was the same as you in this respect! it is interesting, because for me, although i have fetishes, i still always have to be imagining people having sex to be able to get off lol. this is interesting...
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pretty mild, as far a fetishes go...
Posted: 01-16-08 09:27am

just speaking from my own personal expeience, it sounds like it's a quite mild fetish, an abolutely nothing to be ashamed of. and no, I#m not going to list of the fetish things that turn my crank. too embarraassed even in this anonymous forum.
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TwistedJack

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Posted: 01-16-08 16:09pm

I know it's not severe or totally out there, it's just something I wouldn't expect anyone else to have, seeing as hair isn't a sexual part of the body. I hear about people with fetishes for defecation, urinating, lactating, and mentration, and though people with such fetishes might consider them really out there, they all have to do with sexual parts of the body, so I find mine just plain strange and picky and not one that anyone else would have. Thogh I don't feel so alone now that Fiona posted about her boyfriend's nails fetish =).
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Posted: 01-16-08 16:12pm

Of course hair is a sexual part of the body! If it wasn't, why would porn stars spend so much money on getting their hair done? lol
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Re: pretty mild, as far a fetishes go...
Posted: 01-16-08 20:29pm

redneck programmer wrote:
just speaking from my own personal expeience, it sounds like it's a quite mild fetish, an abolutely nothing to be ashamed of. and no, I#m not going to list of the fetish things that turn my crank. too embarraassed even in this anonymous forum.


ah come on. i've said mine before, he's said his, now it's your turn!
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redneck programmer

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yeah ok...
Posted: 01-17-08 06:47am

since we're all in such a sharing mood. I really enjoy 'female desperation'- when a lady holds too long instead of going to the bathroom for a pee...to see them wiggle around and hold themselves (yup, the pee dance) drives me crazy. And yes, there are sites that cater to this fetish.
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Posted: 01-17-08 11:59am

hey that wasn't so bad! i've heard of that one before too. in fact there was someone only a month or two ago on here posting saying they got sexually excited hearing the sound of people peeing. not the same i know, but you're not alone Wink
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TwistedJack

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Re: yeah ok...
Posted: 01-17-08 23:38pm

redneck programmer wrote:
since we're all in such a sharing mood. I really enjoy 'female desperation'- when a lady holds too long instead of going to the bathroom for a pee...to see them wiggle around and hold themselves (yup, the pee dance) drives me crazy. And yes, there are sites that cater to this fetish.
Though that doesn't get me goin I can totally understand that fetish, I can see why that'd turn someone on. Doesn't surprise me that there are in fact sites dedicated to that specifically.
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