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lostnavymommy2b

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Location: Williamsburg,Va
4 Weeks Today..
Posted: 04-24-04 07:03am

Just found out.. 4 weeks.. Found out I was preg today. Taking it a bit hard. One of my friends said this is a good place to come and ask questions.. Im soo lost right now...
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cherry_pie

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Joined: 25 Jan 2004
Posts: 599

Posted: 04-24-04 07:07am

Will you keep the baby?
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lostnavymommy2b

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Joined: 24 Apr 2004
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Location: Williamsburg,Va
My New Life..
Posted: 04-24-04 07:11am

Rolling Eyes I think I will. I dont know yet. I told my mom and she hung up on me. I just realize that it wasnt worth it. To loose my family.. And maybe my career over 20 mins that wasnt even good. But yes. I probably will keep the baby
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insurancegirl

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Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286

Posted: 04-25-04 00:10am

This baby will totally be worth it. And as stated in another post, I hope you can find something positive out of it, I also think I am preg, and i'm a bit upset, but I know it will be okay. Just still praying that i'm not. I know I sound like a hypocrite, but I already have 3 kids (and I adore them) but 1 more is going to be stressful, especially right now because I have taken on more responsibility at my job. I'm here if you need anything.

~jennifer~
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lostnavymommy2b

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Joined: 24 Apr 2004
Posts: 40
Location: Williamsburg,Va
Hmmm....
Posted: 04-25-04 01:10am

Like I said earlier.. I really am thinking that I am gonna keep the baby. Its just im going home to nothing.. No one..
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lostnavymommy2b

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Joined: 24 Apr 2004
Posts: 40
Location: Williamsburg,Va
Hmmm....
Posted: 04-25-04 01:10am

Like I said earlier.. I really am thinking that I am gonna keep the baby. Its just im going home to nothing.. No one..
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insurancegirl

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Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286

Posted: 04-25-04 01:12am

I know this doesn't account for much, just yet, but you have me, and the teen pregnancy girls, come in and see how close we are. (cept for the fakers) but the real girls have a bond. We will help you however we can.

~jennifer~
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lostnavymommy2b

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Joined: 24 Apr 2004
Posts: 40
Location: Williamsburg,Va
Ummmm..
Posted: 04-25-04 01:19am

Yeah thanks..I really need it.. I cant talk to anyone over here.. I mean either the other girls I live with treat me like a leper now or they think im a promiscuous person.. Or there dykes...... I really need people..I read some of the other posts.. Seems that you gals are pretty cool.. And I know you dont put up with the fakes.....
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Neva Whittaker

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Joined: 31 Dec 2003
Posts: 169
Location: FLORIDA

Posted: 04-25-04 01:32am

Well this baby is a blessing to you and I hope that you do find comfort in the girls here they r very nice and they try there best to help you your family will eventually come around it is just a shock to them that is all but they will come around you wait and see buti do do wish you best of luck I am hoping that you go all the way and you r not a leper good luck and try not to stress yourself out if you feel stressed you can always come to the forum aand find comfort
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lostnavymommy2b

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Location: Williamsburg,Va
Thanks
Posted: 04-25-04 01:46am

Thanks neva.. I know my parents arnt gonna come around.. Im mormon so its not a good thing.. I am really thinking im gonna stick it out.. I just need to get out of here.. I dont wanna be that girl on the news who gets killed.. Ive already lost alot of other friends..
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Neva Whittaker

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Joined: 31 Dec 2003
Posts: 169
Location: FLORIDA

Posted: 04-25-04 01:51am

I am so sorry I am not familiar with the mormon religion and I hope that they do because you sound so sinciere and I really believe that it was a mistake and you did not mean for it to happen I hope that everything works out for the best
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lostnavymommy2b

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I Am
Posted: 04-25-04 01:58am

I am sincere. I have nothing else.. It was a huge mistake.. I was scared... I mean I went from high school to watching people die. I never know whats gonna happen here.. Im so scared.. I just got lied to and duped. Much like many others.. But I should have known better and stopped..
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Neva Whittaker

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Joined: 31 Dec 2003
Posts: 169
Location: FLORIDA

Posted: 04-25-04 02:03am

Sometimes you r better judgement doesnt kick in on time and you just do things spontaneousdly you never that wasd going to happen you r my hero because you r over there ensuring my country's free will thank you from the bottom of my heart
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lostnavymommy2b

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Joined: 24 Apr 2004
Posts: 40
Location: Williamsburg,Va
Yeah...
Posted: 04-25-04 02:07am

Thanks. I am over here cause I want to be... I just cant belive I did this.. It is so not like me.. I held out for sooo long.. My tent mates hate me.. They want me to move.. I even found promiscuous person written on my helmet cover today.
I just want to crawl in a hole and go away.. I have duty tonight.. Maybe we will get hit////
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Neva Whittaker

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Joined: 31 Dec 2003
Posts: 169
Location: FLORIDA

Posted: 04-25-04 02:10am

Why r they mad at you they act like they havent had sex before when you say you have duty u mean u r going to fight why sweetie you r supposed to be careful
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lostnavymommy2b

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Joined: 24 Apr 2004
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Location: Williamsburg,Va
Me..
Posted: 04-25-04 02:15am

Cuase I dont fit in with there click.. I dont drink.. Smoke. Gossip.. I read.. Sleep.. Cry.. And they think its funny.. I was this little good girl.. And its all gone..... They always find someone to break.. I guess im it now.. And I guess there right. Having sex in a tent.. On a cot.. In a war zone.. What kind of prostitute would do that.... Guess me
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Neva Whittaker

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Joined: 31 Dec 2003
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Location: FLORIDA

Posted: 04-25-04 02:20am

At least it was on cot and not on the barricks floor like some of them please stop blaming yourself it was not your fault
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Guest

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No
Posted: 04-25-04 02:23am

No~~ again I write this doesn't make you a bad person.
And I will never understand why people come down on others for something like this.A baby is a wonderful thing.Yoou just need to come full circle and not put yourself down.If you think your choice was bad than change your direction there is always tomorrow and love yourself and this life that will have unconditional love for you~~now that's something to come home too!! Isn't it?
If those around you can't support you what are they afraid of? You can't tell me you are the only one doing it?
So please hug your life and the little one you've created~as someone wrote earlier it's happen for a reason a very special one.
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lostnavymommy2b

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Joined: 24 Apr 2004
Posts: 40
Location: Williamsburg,Va
You Dont Understant
Posted: 04-25-04 02:26am

I could have said no.. It is my fault.. A floor would have been more comfortable.. But I could have said no.. I guess it was scared and what I thought was love now whos gonna want me...
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Neva Whittaker

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Joined: 31 Dec 2003
Posts: 169
Location: FLORIDA

Posted: 04-25-04 02:28am

Plenty of people will want you a baby is not the end of your life it is only the beginning
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