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lostnavymommy2b
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Apr 2004 Posts: 40 Location: Williamsburg,Va
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4 Weeks Today..
Posted: 04-24-04 07:03am
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Just found out.. 4 weeks.. Found out I
was preg today. Taking it a bit hard.
One of my friends said this is a good
place to come and ask questions.. Im soo
lost right now...
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cherry_pie
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jan 2004 Posts: 599
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lostnavymommy2b
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Apr 2004 Posts: 40 Location: Williamsburg,Va
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My New Life..
Posted: 04-24-04 07:11am
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I think I will. I dont know yet. I told
my mom and she hung up on me. I just
realize that it wasnt worth it. To loose
my family.. And maybe my career over 20
mins that wasnt even good. But yes. I
probably will keep the baby
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
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Posted: 04-25-04 00:10am
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This baby will totally be worth it. And
as stated in another post, I hope you can
find something positive out of it, I also
think I am preg, and i'm a bit upset, but
I know it will be okay. Just still
praying that i'm not. I know I sound
like a hypocrite, but I already have 3
kids (and I adore them) but 1 more is
going to be stressful, especially right
now because I have taken on more
responsibility at my job. I'm here if
you need anything.
~jennifer~
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lostnavymommy2b
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Apr 2004 Posts: 40 Location: Williamsburg,Va
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Hmmm....
Posted: 04-25-04 01:10am
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Like I said earlier.. I really am
thinking that I am gonna keep the baby.
Its just im going home to nothing.. No
one..
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lostnavymommy2b
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Apr 2004 Posts: 40 Location: Williamsburg,Va
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Hmmm....
Posted: 04-25-04 01:10am
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Like I said earlier.. I really am
thinking that I am gonna keep the baby.
Its just im going home to nothing.. No
one..
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
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Posted: 04-25-04 01:12am
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I know this doesn't account for much, just
yet, but you have me, and the teen
pregnancy girls, come in and see how close
we are. (cept for the fakers) but the
real girls have a bond. We will help you
however we can.
~jennifer~
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lostnavymommy2b
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Apr 2004 Posts: 40 Location: Williamsburg,Va
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Ummmm..
Posted: 04-25-04 01:19am
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Yeah thanks..I really need it.. I cant
talk to anyone over here.. I mean either
the other girls I live with treat me like
a leper now or they think im a promiscuous
person.. Or there dykes...... I really
need people..I read some of the other
posts.. Seems that you gals are pretty
cool.. And I know you dont put up with
the fakes.....
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Neva Whittaker
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Dec 2003 Posts: 169 Location: FLORIDA
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Posted: 04-25-04 01:32am
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Well this baby is a blessing to you and I
hope that you do find comfort in the girls
here they r very nice and they try there
best to help you your family will
eventually come around it is just a shock
to them that is all but they will come
around you wait and see buti do do wish
you best of luck I am hoping that you go
all the way and you r not a leper good
luck and try not to stress yourself out if
you feel stressed you can always come to
the forum aand find comfort
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lostnavymommy2b
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Apr 2004 Posts: 40 Location: Williamsburg,Va
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Thanks
Posted: 04-25-04 01:46am
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Thanks neva.. I know my parents arnt
gonna come around.. Im mormon so its not
a good thing.. I am really thinking im
gonna stick it out.. I just need to get
out of here.. I dont wanna be that girl
on the news who gets killed.. Ive already
lost alot of other friends..
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Neva Whittaker
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Dec 2003 Posts: 169 Location: FLORIDA
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Posted: 04-25-04 01:51am
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I am so sorry I am not familiar with the
mormon religion and I hope that they do
because you sound so sinciere and I really
believe that it was a mistake and you did
not mean for it to happen I hope that
everything works out for the best
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lostnavymommy2b
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Apr 2004 Posts: 40 Location: Williamsburg,Va
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I Am
Posted: 04-25-04 01:58am
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I am sincere. I have nothing else.. It
was a huge mistake.. I was scared... I
mean I went from high school to watching
people die. I never know whats gonna
happen here.. Im so scared.. I just got
lied to and duped. Much like many
others.. But I should have known better
and stopped..
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Neva Whittaker
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Dec 2003 Posts: 169 Location: FLORIDA
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Posted: 04-25-04 02:03am
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Sometimes you r better judgement doesnt
kick in on time and you just do things
spontaneousdly you never that wasd going
to happen you r my hero because you r over
there ensuring my country's free will
thank you from the bottom of my heart
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lostnavymommy2b
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Apr 2004 Posts: 40 Location: Williamsburg,Va
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Yeah...
Posted: 04-25-04 02:07am
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Thanks. I am over here cause I want to
be... I just cant belive I did this.. It
is so not like me.. I held out for sooo
long.. My tent mates hate me.. They want
me to move.. I even found promiscuous
person written on my helmet cover today.
I just want to crawl in a hole and go
away.. I have duty tonight.. Maybe we
will get hit////
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Neva Whittaker
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Dec 2003 Posts: 169 Location: FLORIDA
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Posted: 04-25-04 02:10am
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Why r they mad at you they act like they
havent had sex before when you say you
have duty u mean u r going to fight why
sweetie you r supposed to be careful
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lostnavymommy2b
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Apr 2004 Posts: 40 Location: Williamsburg,Va
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Me..
Posted: 04-25-04 02:15am
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Cuase I dont fit in with there click.. I
dont drink.. Smoke. Gossip.. I read..
Sleep.. Cry.. And they think its funny..
I was this little good girl.. And its
all gone..... They always find someone to
break.. I guess im it now.. And I guess
there right. Having sex in a tent.. On a
cot.. In a war zone.. What kind of
prostitute would do that.... Guess me
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Neva Whittaker
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Dec 2003 Posts: 169 Location: FLORIDA
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Posted: 04-25-04 02:20am
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At least it was on cot and not on the
barricks floor like some of them please
stop blaming yourself it was not your
fault
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Guest
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No
Posted: 04-25-04 02:23am
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No~~ again I write this doesn't make you a
bad person.
And I will never understand why people
come down on others for something like
this.A baby is a wonderful thing.Yoou just
need to come full circle and not put
yourself down.If you think your choice was
bad than change your direction there is
always tomorrow and love yourself and this
life that will have unconditional love for
you~~now that's something to come home
too!! Isn't it?
If those around you can't support you what
are they afraid of? You can't tell me you
are the only one doing it?
So please hug your life and the little one
you've created~as someone wrote earlier
it's happen for a reason a very special
one.
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lostnavymommy2b
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Apr 2004 Posts: 40 Location: Williamsburg,Va
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You Dont Understant
Posted: 04-25-04 02:26am
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I could have said no.. It is my fault..
A floor would have been more comfortable..
But I could have said no.. I guess it
was scared and what I thought was love now
whos gonna want me...
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Neva Whittaker
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Dec 2003 Posts: 169 Location: FLORIDA
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Posted: 04-25-04 02:28am
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Plenty of people will want you a baby is
not the end of your life it is only the
beginning
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