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Idony

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Posted: 01-11-08 12:46pm

i know your not supose to put a baby to bed with a bottle, but the ONLY way i have been able to get val to eat lately is to make a bottle put her in her crib and leave, she will finish it in less then 5 minutes, if she happens to fall asleep, i ALWAYS go in after 5 minutes and take it from her if she fell asleep and her head is elevated because of her reflux

so is this really bad, ive just been at my wits end because the last few days shes had maybe 10-15 oz a day thats IT and it worrys me

if i try to feed her she will just play or scream so last night i tried putting her in her crib with the bottle and it worked and its been working all day so far shes already had 12 oz, so were off to a good start today

so what do you think? is it ok?

~alicia~
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Posted: 01-11-08 13:06pm

I don't see a problem with it. As long as it's not left in her mouth to drip and rot her teeth out. I'm not sure how old she is, but sounds old enough to use the bottle on her own, so try not to fret. At least she's eating!
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Posted: 01-11-08 13:26pm

You will create a habit that she needs this bottle to go to sleep. But if that doesn't bother you then don't worry about it.
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Posted: 01-11-08 13:34pm

ingi that is one thing ive very worried about, its just i cant get her to eat any other way

lilly, yeah im terified of her teeth rotting, i will NOT let that happen lol...and shes 7 monthes, but apparently she is very very advanced, at least thats what everyone (even her doctor) says

lmao...she just pulled up with my shirt and started laughing....she thinks she is so big lol

~alicia~
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Posted: 01-11-08 13:35pm

Babies don't starve themselves. If you are feeding her solids, she doesn't need a lot of formula. At 7 months she should be transitioning to solids.
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Posted: 01-11-08 13:44pm

I agree witn Ingi. This WILL create a habit. My best friend has an 11 month old that WILL NOT go to sleep without his bottle in his crib.

Even if the bottle isn't in her mouth, the left over milk that she drank WILL rot her teeth.

Sarah
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Posted: 01-11-08 13:47pm

I have done that with both of mine from about Val's age and they are both fine

don't worry about it hun!
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Posted: 01-11-08 13:48pm

babymajic0506 wrote:

Even if the bottle isn't in her mouth, the left over milk that she drank WILL rot her teeth.

Sarah


My kids teeth are pearly white and helathy Confused
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Posted: 01-11-08 13:52pm

ingi she is on solids, she has rice cerial or oatmeal 3 times a day with a friut or veggie in it....shes been on the rice since like 2 monthes though because of her reflux.....but im just so worried about her getting dehydrated.....she just started this though....i dont know im jsut worried, i think its more that she isnt getting the calories, viamins/minerals, and fluid she needs i dont want her to get dehydrated

ive been trying to feed her 6 oz every 4 hours....is that too much? a month ago her gi said it was a perfect amount

~alicia~
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Posted: 01-11-08 13:54pm

i've done the exact same thing with william. his teeth are clean and healthy. william's also got to the stage where he doesn't need a bottle before bed, just a blanket. i wouldn't worry about it too much
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Posted: 01-11-08 14:03pm

Just because people do give bottles and their kids baby teeth are healthy, etc - does not mean any pediatrician is going to advocate giving bottle to babies while they go to sleep. This is a terrible pattern and habit to give your baby.

Children at 7 months should be taking in approximately 20 oz of formula. However, they should also be eating solids approximately 3-4 times per day.

All kids diets fluctuate. Like they'll eat nonstop for days sometimes and then they will hardly eat a bite. This is natural and it coincides with growing spurts. A child's body is hungrier and needs more nutrition when it is growing. When that growth spurt is over, the child doesn't need as much.

Keep an eye on what she eats and how she eats it. You'll see a pattern. With my daughter, some days she would hardly eat. We eat a really healthy diet, so I know she was getting all the nutrition she needed regardless of how much she was eating. Don't get caught up in the numbers. Let your daughter lead the way on when she is hungry and when she isn't.
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Posted: 01-11-08 14:09pm

ok so what your saying is its normal?

man i guess im just really self concious right now, im just so worried im gonna screw up somehow

i dont know whats wrong with me right now

~alicia~
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Posted: 01-11-08 14:15pm

Yes. Any of these moms will tell you that their babies/kids do the same thing.

Being a mom is hard. Smile That is why we have to ask questions.

I researched nutrition for my daughter, made all my own baby food, fed her whole grains, vegetables and limited fruits (as they are mostly just sugar) and worried constantly because she was so very tiny. 17 lbs at a year!

I sat back and watched how she ate and realized she ate a ton - when she was growing - and then she scaled it back. Bodies are amazing at knowing what they need when they need it. Smile
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Posted: 01-11-08 15:43pm

how about water in a sippy cup once in a while? just asking. i'm not at this stage yet so i'm just asking. my doc told me to give eadie water from a normal cup every once in a while because the air gets so dry in the winter here. she is still only breastfed with a little cereal here and there but she takes water from a cup if i hold it for her and take it slow.
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Posted: 01-11-08 15:48pm

Both of my children had a bottle when they went to bed and they both have beautiful teeth. They are 5 and 12 and they both have never even had a cavity. I really don't see how it is a terrible habit......for me they each never had a soother so this was the one thing that really comforted them. I also didn't have a hard time to ween them off the bottle.

To me I think that you should do what works for you and what you are comfortable with. Just know that it is not terrible to give your baby a bottle at night. Some babies are fine without one and others need that extra little "security" .

Good luck!!
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Posted: 01-11-08 18:50pm

I don't understand.

If nobody sees it as a problem, then why doesn't anyone inform their pediatricians and/or dentists that they let their babies sleep with a bottle?? Because it's NOT healthy.

I mean, it's not going to KILL your child, but it WILL start bad habits. Starting at 6 months you should be brushing your babies teeth (or swabbing their mouths if they don't have teeth), to remove all extra milk. It WILL rot their teeth/future teeth.

I guess I'm different when it comes to that because my mom is in the dental field and I've seen pictures of children whose parents allowed them to sleep with a bottle. Seeing a 2/3 year old with silver teeth is NOT something I advocate.

Sarah
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Posted: 01-11-08 18:51pm

google "baby bottle tooth decay"...

Sarah
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Posted: 01-11-08 21:27pm

sarah i know about baby bottle tooth decay, that, attatchment and choking are teh things im so worried about which is why i asked, like i said, im really insacure about everything right now and i dont know why

i dont really want to give it to her like that and i dont do it to put her to sleep, ive been doing it just to get her to drink

kaer bear, she does get a sippy with pedialyte and water in it...and maybe a tiny bit of juice if shes constipated...thats after meals, but she likes to play with them while shes drinking

thanks everyone

~alicia~
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