kaiteo
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I Am Now a Single Mom.
Posted: 01-15-08 15:18pm
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It's true. I left Nick. Finally. I'm at my
dad's right now, and I can't stay here for
more than a couple of days, but I'm still
figuring things out.
I have been looking at apartments. Mostly
just studio apartments, but it's better
than nothing. The thing is I can't go home
because Nick won't leave (both of our
names are on the lease).
I just need to figure out how I'm going to
raise the money for rent. There are [very]
limited jobs in Ellsworth, so I don't
think I can get an apartment close to
family, unfortunately.
Ugh. Well this time I am sticking with my
decision. He cried and cried and said
everything would be okay, but I'm really
losing it.
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Mommy35
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Posted: 01-15-08 15:22pm
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Katie, as long as you are happy I am happy
for you! Good luck to you!
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-15-08 15:28pm
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hey i just called u and left a msg
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Ingi
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kaiteo
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Posted: 01-15-08 15:34pm
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| the_girlfriend
wrote: | hey i just called u and left
a msg
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My phone's dead and I can't find my
charger.
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-Tanya-
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Posted: 01-15-08 15:35pm
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Good luck Katie. You should join a young
parents support group, maybe that way you
can find another single mommy to be share
an apartment with? That might help with
affordability.
I'm proud of you for leaving Nick.
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-15-08 15:36pm
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nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
oooooo
well im porud of you. and im here to help
ok?
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kaiteo
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Posted: 01-15-08 15:36pm
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Nick said he called another counselor and
left a message so he could get help and I
said good for him, and I will support him
but only from a distance. I have a feeling
he is doing this out of desparation. I
told him to get help, and then we can
talk.
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kaiteo
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Posted: 01-15-08 15:38pm
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| -Tanya-
wrote: | Good luck Katie. You should
join a young parents support group, maybe
that way you can find another single mommy
to be share an apartment with? That might
help with affordability.
I'm proud of you for leaving
Nick. |
I will definitely look into that. I'm
looking at places in Bangor now, but
they're all out of my price range alone.
I'm going to find someone to move in with
me.
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-Tanya-
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Posted: 01-15-08 15:39pm
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I would totally be your roomate if we were
closer. I bet we'd have fun together and
that our babies would be friends.
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kaiteo
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Posted: 01-15-08 15:39pm
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| -Tanya-
wrote: | | I would totally be your
roomate if we were closer. I bet we'd
have fun together and that our babies
would be friends. |
I know! 
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O0o0h_baby
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Location: Northern California,
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Posted: 01-15-08 15:51pm
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Good luck with everything. You're doing
what's best for you and the baby, and in
the end probably Nick too. He had no
reason to get help if he had nothing to
lose.
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kaiteo
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Posted: 01-15-08 16:17pm
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Thanks
I can be smart. Sometimes it just takes a
while 
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-15-08 16:18pm
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| kaiteo
wrote: | Thanks
I can be smart. Sometimes it just takes a
while |
hey katie i was thinking of you earlier
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grilled cheese 
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kaiteo
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Posted: 01-15-08 16:21pm
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(4:19:47 PM): i just called acadia again
and the woman should be getting back to me
today or tomorrow. im also going to call
and see if i can be represcribed my
bipolar meds from my doctor
he just said that to me. (acadia is a
mental health hospital in bangor, by the
way).
maybe he is finally realizing he needs to
get his head out of his a** and do
something for himself. i'm still not going
home, though. not until he really proves
himself. as far as i'm concerned, there is
a BIG difference between "going to" and
actually doing something.
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kaiteo
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Posted: 01-15-08 16:33pm
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Wow, so Nick wasn't replying to me for a
while after I asked if he was doing this
for himself and not just me. Come to find
out he was on the phone with Acadia and he
has an appointment at 1:30 tomorrow.
(4:32:33 PM): im sick of being like this
(4:32:36 PM): i want me back
(4:32:46 PM): i dont want to be angry
anymore
(4:33:06 PM): there is no need for it
well it looks like he is off to a good
start. i'm interested to see how things
go.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 01-15-08 16:39pm
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Good job katie, I'm very very proud of you
and I truly hope you're happier now and
that he gets the help he needs.
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