Need help getting over him Posted: 01-15-08 19:53pm
Im having really bad problems getting over
my ex.My ex was everything I wanted in a
guy and he had almost everything in common
with me.We agreed on everything and im
still in love with him.We went out for 6
months then he broke up with me because he
said he just wasn't happy and he was
depressed.Well he pushed me away and said
mean things to me and after all of that I
was still there for him.Well I helped him
fix that problem then me and him went back
out for 2 months.Then he broke up with me
and said more mean things to me and I was
still there for him.Well me and him were
trying to work out things but after a week
he said that things would just never work
out between us.Well that broke my heart
after all of those times he hurt me and I
felt like he didn't care but yet I still
gave him chance after chance.Well after he
told me that he said he didn't want to
date anyone for awhile.Well two days later
I find out that he is talking to this
other girl after he told me that he still
had feeling for me and lied to me.Well he
was saying how amazing she is and they
haven't even known each other for
awhile.It just hurts to see the one your
in love with like someone else.It's been a
couple of days since I have talked to him
and I won't be talking to him again since
I called him and told him that he lied to
me but he denied it and then we started
yelling at each other,then he had his dad
cuss me out.I know this may sound selfish
but I don't want to see him happy since he
hurt me so bad,he doesn't deserve to be
that happy.I know that me and him will
never be able to go back out.But I need
suggestions on how to get over him.
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himinameisash
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Joined: 15 Jan 2008 Posts: 5 Location: hi, hi
his not for u Posted: 01-15-08 20:12pm
then hes not for u...try going on blind
dates or star hanging with ur friends do
things that u will never think of doing u
now...live ur life be free...if hes up
there calling u names then sweetie forget
him screw him forgive and foget ok ur much
betta then that and hes just a low life
man who calls a woman names u now so take
care
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Roberta777
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blondie_899 Posted: 01-15-08 21:00pm
I know what is like. You invest your love
and time in a person and believe they are
going to be honest with you. Sometimes,
guys just don't know the meaning of being
honest or else they want to hold onto what
they have with you at the time, or even
worse, they weren't raised right.
I had to let go of somebody that I truly
loved and he has been both a blessing and
a child in so many ways. A child can
cause you grief, but this guy still is a
mixed bag of emotions to me. He has
caused me great stress on my home as I got
out a line of equity credit against my
paid off home to put in a vineyard. He
honestly couldn't figure out diggledy
squat. Came in $70,000.00 over budget.
Still, he is helping me take care of it.
Some of these guys are just immature.
Sorry to you guys out there.
I haven't been with him in that special
way for a long time now, but I still dream
about him, think about him, how great it
was with us. I think it is all part of
the process of letting go.
Then, sometimes, I remember how upset I
would be when he said he would be coming
over and didn't and also didn't have the
respect to call and let me know that he
couldn't make it.
Like I said, I believe it is a way of
letting them go.
Go on and find somebody worthy of you
girl.
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Neek
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Joined: 13 Jan 2008 Posts: 20 Location: ,
. Posted: 03-14-08 11:10am
i hope your heart finds peace, i am also
in the process of trying to let go
but i keep meeting up with him........ its
terrible and its soooo HARD
sometimes i wish i never met him,because
he has hurt me soo much
when things go fine with us, i jst forget
about the bad things and then i seem fine
but deep down i know i have to get rid of
him
he is emotional hurting me. even though he
doesnt know it.
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genrai
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Mar 2008 Posts: 5
Posted: 03-21-08 15:18pm
first rule!!!!!!!! dont invest your 100%
in loving someone try to love him or her
25% so that when time comes that you two
gonna seperate your ways you will not hurt
much. invest 100% when are you trully sure
that he or she is the one for you......
hope it helps...
