Orgasm too powerful and intense Posted: 01-17-08 06:20am
I started masturbating when I was 12 years
old. I have always been very sensitive
and when I climax I do ejaculate alot of
semen. The thing is, the build up to my
orgasm and the orgasm itself is so
powerful and intense for me that I panic
and get up set. I normally end up crying
when I ejaculate.
I therefore masturbate now but never allow
myself to ejaculate because the thought of
it terrifies me .
Does anyone have a similar problem?
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crazyinluvwitchu
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Posted: 01-20-08 22:02pm
I have the same problem!.
yeah.It freaks me out sometimes.but I
haven't done that in a while!....
well do you still masterbate?!....
that's not a bAD thing..so dont worry
about it?!
do you have a boyfriend?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 01-20-08 22:53pm
You need to go to a psychologist. This is
not normal behavior - the anxiety attack
you get afterwards needs to be dealt with
or you might not be able to ever have a
normal sex life.
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crazyinluvwitchu
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Posted: 01-20-08 23:43pm
no...I dont have a problem.....
I mean..yeah that happened to me...but
now...I came to realize that It was a
stupid thing to do, so what for cry about.
it?....
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Tylanas
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Posted: 01-20-08 23:48pm
Well, YOU got over it by yourself. Clearly
the OP is not able to do that...
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lele25
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Posted: 01-21-08 00:30am
I dated a guy a long time ago that used to
cry and immediately take a shower after
sex. I started to get really offended by
it untill he explained to me that he was
raised in a family where sex is extremely
Taboo. He was always told that sex was
nasty and should only be done with the
intentions of pro-creating. He eventually
sought help from a proffesional.
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Galaxy
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Posted: 01-23-08 19:37pm
Crying might be just a form of release but
it could appear inappropriate later in
life. Having said that, I had a boyfriend
who sometimes shed a tear afterwards and I
just thought of it as sensitive and rather
sweet. If it worries you though, and it
clearly does, then you do need to talk to
someone.
