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benknefelshit

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Posted: 04-26-04 05:56am

Hey I am a 16 year old guy2 nights ago I received oral sex from a woman and did not reach orgasm so, while laying down belly up to the left I continued to masturbate until I ejaculated. I shook my penis off and slid my pants back up. Using my right hand I figured no semen would get on my hands. (i ejaculated into the grass to the left of me. About 2 minutes after this I fingered my girlfriend with my left hand. I was wondering if there was a chance that she could get pregnant. I did not ejaculate into my hands, but I am afraid when I shook the remainder off that some got on my pants and when I slid them back up that my hand touched it. I cant remember, but I probably put my hands in the wet grass when I moved and I cant specifficaly remember any ejaculate on my hands.

Should I tell my girlfriend to take the morning after pill. This might freak her out so I am hesitant. It has been a day and a half.
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2ferano

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Posted: 04-26-04 13:17pm

It is possible, but unlikely.
Maybe you should tell her and let her decide what to do. But do it soon. Just be more careful next time.
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benknefelshit

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Posted: 04-27-04 20:25pm

I told her and she freaked out and started crying. She is going to take it after school today at plannedparenthood. It will have been 86 hours by then. Along with no vaginal intercourse and the fact that the ejaculate mabye got touched then the outer vagina got touched, what are the chances that she will get pregnant? What percentage chance that she wont get pregnant? Is it better because there was no vaginal intercourse? Thank you guys alot.
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bootsie840

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Posted: 04-27-04 21:22pm

Its very unlikely that shes pregnant, but if it makes her feel better then I guess it wouldnt hurt to take it, being that shes going to the planned parenthood, maybe she should consider going on birth control pills, but just know until the pill gets in her system you should still use condoms, or another back up method, you dont half to have sexuall intercourse to become pregant, I had a friend who didnt complete the act but her and her boyfriend were fooling around and even though he didnt ejaculate in her it was close to her vagina so anything is possible
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benknefelshit

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Posted: 04-28-04 10:14am

Thanks for your help. What should I say to calm her down? Before I told her that it was a possibility, she didnt know anything about it so now she is freakin out.


Does it help that she said it has been a month since her last period and that she was getting cramps last thursday the 22?


She decided not to take the pill. She called and they said if she didnt have vaginal intercourse than she would win the lottery before she would become pregnant.

I still want to try to get her to take it today which is 108 hours later... Thanks




thanks so much for your expediant replies
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benknefelshit

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Posted: 04-29-04 09:35am

I think its all over now thanks
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2ferano

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Posted: 04-29-04 10:32am

Well that lottery thing isn't true. I mean in your exact situation it is very unlikely. But you can get pregnant without having actual intercourse. All it take is one of those little guys to get in there. Just be careful not to put your hands "down there" if you do have cum on your hand. Just to be safe.
Is she going to go on birth control though to avoid future scares?
A woman can get pregnant any time of the month. So, it really doesn't matter when her last period was.
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KissyBai912

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Posted: 05-18-04 02:16am

Hun, the morning after pill has to be taken within 72 hours of the mishap. After that it most likely wont work. Just for future reference.
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2ferano

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Posted: 05-25-04 16:10pm

You can use birth control pills as emergency contraception up to five days after intercourse. But, the sooner the better. The morning after pills is only 75% effective.
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linuxChique

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Posted: 05-27-04 06:02am

hotasfrick wrote:
you can use birth control pills as emergency contraception up to five days after intercourse. But, the sooner the better. The morning after pills is only 75% effective.


where did you read that? I don't see how that can be true, because otherwise, there wouldn't be any babies born to moms who take birth control, and people who are on birth control get pregnant all the time. Birth control pills affect the health of the baby, but they are not an emergency contraceptive.
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2ferano

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Posted: 05-27-04 06:41am

I didn't say birth control was emergency contraception. I said it can be used as emergency contraception.
I read it on the planned parenthood website and have even used it. It lists the brands of birth control and how you can use your brand as emergency contraception. If you don't believe it than look it up, but please do not tell me I am wrong before researching. Thanks.
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Steph333

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Posted: 05-27-04 20:10pm

Hotasfrick is right, you can use a certain dosage of your birth control pills in place of the emergency conraceptive pill. Its just as safe and effective.
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Natalie112

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Posted: 06-03-04 14:55pm

Sperm cannot survive once it has reached beyond the body. This is why your testes remain so warm as to protect your sperm. There is no need to worry.
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2ferano

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Posted: 06-03-04 21:34pm

Sperm can live up to 72 yours outside of the body. The only way it dies is if it is dried up or washed off. It can live inside a woman's body for 5 to 7 days.
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linuxChique

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Posted: 06-04-04 11:12am

Lol you can use _anything_ as emergency contraceptive in high enough dosage!
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bellax0femmina

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Posted: 06-04-04 12:50pm

/\ lol very true

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gaby
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2ferano

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Posted: 06-04-04 15:09pm

Yeah, if you use something to kill yourself. That would take care of it now wouldn't it.
I am serious for goodness sakes.
Here go to: ht tp://www.Plannedparenthood.Org/library/bir thcontrol/ec.Html

this is where I learned about it in the first place.
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