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im pregnant Posted: 01-18-08 10:56am
no not me lol
how did you tell that to everyone, the
daddy, your parents, your friends, etc,
and how did they take it?
~alicia~
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 01-18-08 11:15am
That was just WRONG!!!!!!
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Idony
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Posted: 01-18-08 11:22am
i couldnt think of what else to title it
lol
~alicia~
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Martiny
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Joined: 10 Jan 2008 Posts: 54 Location: Montreal, Quebec,
Posted: 01-18-08 11:56am
OMG my heart jumpedlol.
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young Girl
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Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 01-18-08 13:15pm
haha alicia
i was like "OHMYGOD SHES PREGNANT (page
loading) OHMYGOSH ANOTHER VAL..."
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Bridget
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Posted: 01-18-08 13:46pm
dammit alicia! i got really excited!
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Katrinadoodle
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Joined: 02 Nov 2007 Posts: 1231
Posted: 01-18-08 14:26pm
Jacob brought me the test and I didn't
tell him, he saw the tears in my eyes and
knew. I told my best friend "There was two
lines."
and I didn't tell anyone else... it leaked
out at school because Jacob's ex (who
was/is still in love with him) saw him get
the test and told everyone, and my mom was
snooping through my diary and found out
before I could get up the guts to tell
her.
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 01-18-08 14:41pm
I know it doesn't count. But I'll share
anyways.
I did a have scare when I was younger (14)
and my mom actually asked me. I had been
trying to figure out how I was going to
tell her (in my 14 year old mind that was
the only reason to miss a period) And we
were at dinner one night and she just
busted out with "Are you pregnant?" I cried and told
her that I didn't know. She handled it
wonderful. But I still don't know how I
would have told her had she not asked.
When I told the guy that I was late...he
split. I still harbor hard feelings toward
him and remind him constantly. Lol. Even
though he has appologized a gazillion
times.
But it defintely taught me a lesson. I
didn't have sex again until I was engaged
to my now dh.
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yellow ribbon
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Joined: 07 Dec 2005 Posts: 5554 Location: FL
Posted: 01-18-08 16:33pm
with macy i was sittin on a swing at a
bar/pub lol it was our hang out and i was
a few weeks late, steven said something
about kids and i was like ya i think your
having one.
With liam we had gone to walmart to buy
test but he didnt realize i was taking it
already n i came out and said "so what ya
wanna name this one?"
took a test in the bathroom at our hotel
with Roan, dont think i even said ne thing
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young Girl
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Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 01-18-08 16:39pm
well. travis actually BOUGHT the test. he
went into walgreens got it and came out.
it was the kind that had 2 in the box. we
waited til everyone was alseep then we
went into the bathroom and tested. the +
sign showed basically after 5.2 seconds. i
looked at it and he said "what does it
say" and i said "im pregnant" he took it
and looked at it and went "NUH UH!!" and
told me to use the other one too. so i
did. and it was positive also
then he sat on the toilet seat and i sat
on the floor and we just sat
for about 10 minutes. and didnt say
anything. and then he said
"so we're pregnant?"
and we talked all night
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yellow ribbon
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Joined: 07 Dec 2005 Posts: 5554 Location: FL
Posted: 01-18-08 16:56pm
aw i can just see his face o n the were
pregnant question cracks me up, like do
you have to carry the baby for 4 1/2 mos?
cuz im pretty sure im the pregnant one who
has to suffer
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young Girl
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Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 01-18-08 16:58pm
~dani~
wrote:
aw i can just see his face o
n the were pregnant question cracks me up,
like do you have to carry the baby for 4
1/2 mos? cuz im pretty sure im the
pregnant one who has to
suffer
lol 4 1/2 months
yeah it was cute
oh and at 37 weeks he asked "isnt there
like some way we can just go to the
hospital and like...get it out?"
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yellow ribbon
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Joined: 07 Dec 2005 Posts: 5554 Location: FL
Posted: 01-18-08 17:10pm
lmao were you driving him crazy?
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Electriceyes
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Joined: 18 Nov 2007 Posts: 1059 Location: Monroe, Michigan United States
Posted: 01-18-08 19:32pm
Well, with me. My ex lived here so, he
knew when I started and blah blah. He had
gotten worried 'cuz I said something like
"hmm i don't have any cramps yet. COOL" I
ALWAYS get cramps like 2-3 days before. He
was like when do you start? I answered
with the 25th of May.. He said well, you
go to get on the pill the 22nd everything
will be ok. Well, I had GAINED 10 lbs in
THREE weeks. So when I went to planned
parenthood and I had mentioned that she
asked if I needed a test done, I said NO
I'M NOT PREGNANT!!! That was the first
thing to scare me about it. I worried for
the next three days about it without
telling my ex. The 25th came and went and
I hadn't started. Devon (ex bf) asked if
i'd started. I couldn't even look at him
when I told him no... Well, we went
shopping (him, mom and myself) the next
day and mom had asked if devon and i had
had sex and I told her NO, Devon right
then told her yes. she then asked if i'd
started I had told her yes...When we got
home her and Devon were out back talking
and they called me outside and devon had
told her I was like 2 days late. She said
I THINK you are but I bet the first test
will come up neg. No matter what you
decide IF you are, i'll support you. If
you don't start by your birthday (june
5th) we'll go get a test. Well that week
came and went and eventually we went and
go a test. I went into the bathroom and
read the directions and did what it said.
It was supposed to take 3 mins. Well, we
got to the van and waited. After the 3
mins nothing was showing up and Devon
started yelling at me that I should have
taken the damn thing right and blah blah..
I was balling at this point 'cuz I knew
that I was... but a min later it came up
neg.... Well, later that day my friend and
I went to the store and we got another
test... a different brand I came home read
what to do, took it and as SOON as i peed
on it up popped a pos. I couldn't find
devon so I called him and told him to come
upstairs to our room. I showed him the
test and he started to cry.. He went and
got mom and told her. We all went and
talked about everything in the basement
for a while. Mom came upstairs and him and
I talked more. He called his dad and told
him and the 3 of us talked about
abortion.. which i had agreed to do
because I was scared but chickened out...
Well it eventually came down to this... He
said "get rid of it or i'm leaving and
want NOTHING to do with you or that
baby".. He continued to live here for 5-6
months. He is slowly changing his mind
realizing he's going to be a dad...
Half my family didn't even find out until
I was 7 months pregnant but they all took
it well...
I had a pretty emotional ride while I was
with Devon
Oh! and he STILL wanted sex tho' he didn't
wanna be with me
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oh_mommy
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Posted: 01-18-08 19:43pm
well shawn and i had a test in his dresser
from a previous scare (we bought a box of
three on sale) i was thought i was sposta
get my period like 2 days after my bday
but it wasnt there so i jokingly said
maybe im preggy and he said nah, then i
said hey, i'll test just for fun" well...
i went to the bathroom, put the test in my
hoody pocket so his sis wouldnt see when i
was waling to his room. then when i enterd
the room i snuggled up to him, and i took
the test out, i didnt wanna look at it he
saw it before me thn when i saw it i
started to cry so he comferded me by
saying "it'll be ok, dont worry hunny, i'm
not going anywhere" which made me cry even
harder.. and because i dont like people
seeing me cry i dug my head into his
armpit lol.
for my mom, shawn and i met her at DQ, on
the way there i told shawn we are telling
her now because i can't keep secrets, and
she needs to know eventually anyways. so
we were sitting eatting sundays and when
she finnaly shut up for a second i said
"so your gonna be a grandma" then she was
like "what, no, really? no?" and i told
her we saw a doc the other day, i skipped
school to see a walk in guy and they
comfirmed it. she was holding the coffee
news paper and ripped it to shreds she was
so nervous.. she then threatend shawn "if
you hurt her, leave her, i'll hunt you
down! dont think i wont" haha
i lived with my dad so i was scared to
tell him so i gave him a note and spent
the night at my best friends house, who
found out the day i did, after shawn and i
talked i went on msn and said "Lisa, im
PREGNANT!" she thought i was kidding at
first. then she threatend to kill shawn if
he hurt me.. lol
I cried and told
her that I didn't know. She handled it
wonderful. But I still don't know how I
would have told her had she not asked.
