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panicballoon

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Posted: 01-31-08 01:04am

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Posted: 01-31-08 11:29am

Hey, come on now! Did you talk to your bf? How is everything going with you?
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panicballoon

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Posted: 02-09-08 01:08am

oh man! things keep changing everyday!

in a nutshell, I caught my mom hacking into my facebook/myspace/email accounts the other day. She was reading my mail, emailing my friends, deleting messages that my friends would send me so I could not see them, deleting comments that I would post on my boyfriend's profile, and deleting private messages that he would send me before I even read them. All this because she claims that she cannot TRUST me. Granted I have told her lies in the past, but this has everything to do with my boyfriend, punishing me for his actions.

She wants me to go out on dates with other guys...to basically cheat on my boyfriend.

My boyfriend is getting his caca together. We had a great talk the other day. I just wish that my mother would not be so overly involved and try to sabotage things. All of this nonsense that is happening is because she HATES him. I know for a fact now that my boyfriend is not cheating on me, even though my mom is trying to put those thoughts in my head.

I've almost come to the conclusion that it's my mom, not excatly him that is driving me crazy. I dunno what to do about my mom...
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Posted: 02-09-08 06:22am

Yes, I thought so from your first posting. By the way, what she is doing is illegal, not to mention scary. Where will her meddling and controlling end? Think about your future with your man. Help him overcome his anxiety. And if i were you, I would find somewhere else to live!
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panicballon
Posted: 02-09-08 06:33am

I am a mother myself and I can't picture myself doing that to my girl eventhough as you mentioned that you've lied to her before. That's invading one's privacy and doesn't respect others of their right, I suggest that you talk to your mom nicely afterall she is still your mom and explain to her that you need some privacy and to give you the respect and space that you need tell her why you don't like her doing that to you and explain to her that doesn't earn your respect. Good luck.
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