pill delaying period or pregnancy ? Posted: 01-19-08 10:51am
Hello, i'm 16 and I think im pregant
becasue I haven't had my period for like
almost 4 months. I was just on birth
control and my last period was September
27 or the 29 can't remember the exact day.
And now it is januray 19. The only thing
is my boyfriend never came in me, and i
know that for a fact because he doesn't
want me pregant either. I have never had
morning sickness, my boobs have gotten a
little bigger but that could be because of
the weight gain. I get the odd headaches
here or there, im alot more moody, and i
also had odd food cravings. we are going
to go get the test today, my mom already
told me if i am pregant that shes sending
me to my boyfriends. so i have no help
there, if i am pregant i kinda wanna keep
it but i know i shouldn't. i looked on the
internet and it said such things as you
period could be delayed 2 or 3 months if
you are just getting off the pill but i
don't know what to think. and i am soo
scared and i just need someone to tell me
if its normal to not have morning sickness
and if a could be pregant. is it possible
to get pregant of pre-cum? because that is
the only was i could be pregant. Thanks.
Some women don't experience morning
sickness and yes you can get pregnant from
precum!! Anytime you have unprotected sex
there is a chance that you can get
pregnant.......even with the withdrawl
method. You should be on the pill and
using condoms if you are going to have
sex.
Also if you haven't gotten your period
since Sept. and it ends up that you are
pregnant you would be far enough
along.....so an abortion may not be an
option. you really should have tested a
lot sooner.
If you think you are responsible enough to
be having unprotected sex at 16 than you
should be responsible enough to deal with
the consequences....it isn't your mother's
responsibility.
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Idony
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Posted: 01-19-08 12:06pm
yes you could very well be pregnant, you
need to test, why didnt you think to test
sooner? 4 monthes is a long time to go
without a period, if you werent/arent
pregnant you should go to a gynocologist
and see why you havent gotten a period you
could have something wrong with your
body!
it COULD be the pill messing with you but
it COULD be your pregnant, you CAN get
pregnant using withdrawl i think its
something like a 25% fail rate, meaning
out of 100 women 25 will get pregnant
using that type of "birthcontrol" (i use
quotes because its not really
birthcontrol)
also you may feel more at home in the teen
pregnancy forum, and this post probably
would have been better suited there or the
am i preg forum (we still have that one
right (im too lazy to check lol) people
keep posting am i preg threads all over
teen preg)
like shanyan said its probably too late
for an abortion if you would want to go
that route, but its never too late for
adoption, adoption is NOT a bad thing, you
can even have an open adoption where you
get calls and letters and maybe even
visits or can go to visit your kid
good luck
~alicia~
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young Girl
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Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 01-19-08 19:39pm
wait
when did you go off birth control? or are
you still on it
if you think your pregnant take a test.
you can also go to the dr and get a blood
test done. also if you are pregnant you
have options
1. keep the baby
2. adoption
or 3. abortion
all of these options are available to you
and you might be able to get more info on
them from a planned parenthood. you can go
to the clinic and they will give you a
test and also help you figure out what you
want to do
good luck
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Proud Mama
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Joined: 05 Jan 2008 Posts: 47 Location: London, Ontario Canada
Posted: 01-19-08 22:18pm
I never experienced morning sickness with
my pregnancy. I would test and don't relie
on the pull and pray method of birth
control it doesn't work. I have a friend
who's boyfriend still to this day believes
the pull and pray works and this is after
two pregnancy. Some women don't experience
any pregnancy symptoms at all except the
missed period and sometimes still they
don't experience that.
If you're not pregnant this time then
please please please go back on birth
control and stay on it till you're ready
to have a baby.
And as the_girlfriend (sorry don't know
your name yet ) said there are
those three choices but I believe there is
another depending on where you're from and
that's foster care until you're situated
enough to handle a child. I personally
find that very unfair for the child
though. Growing up only knowing one family
and then getting pulled away to be put
with a complete stranger.
But if you are pregnant then you can
handle it you're just going to have to
work harder then you ever have to provide
for it.
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Mammoga
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Joined: 22 Jan 2008 Posts: 2
Posted: 01-22-08 07:53am
or rather make home pregnancy test if you
are scared to go to the docter.
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Schizophreniahealth
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) said there are
those three choices but I believe there is
another depending on where you're from and
that's foster care until you're situated
enough to handle a child. I personally
find that very unfair for the child
though. Growing up only knowing one family
and then getting pulled away to be put
with a complete stranger.
