Joined: 10 Jan 2008 Posts: 54 Location: Montreal, Quebec,
How do friends react Posted: 01-19-08 20:44pm
Im doing this post cuz im sick and tired
of my ( Well cant say friend anyore ) who
use to be so friendly and now just ignore
me and treat me like nothing. Ok i got a
kid, im 19 but is it an excuse to
disrespect me like this hmf..
Am I the only one or its normal that they
dont care anymore.
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prettygirlygirl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Mar 2006 Posts: 213
Posted: 01-19-08 21:16pm
Totally normal. I don't have any friends
any more at all, you're lucky you've still
got a few left!
Once you get pregnant and have a kid your
priorities and interests change big time.
YOu want to talk about milestones,
breastfeeding, and babyhood (or swelling,
navigating a huge belly, and general
discomfort if you're still pregnant), and
they really just don't give a caca outside
of cooing over the cute baby and moving on
with their teenage life stuff.
Not to mention, your friends will still
hang out and talk all the time when you're
in iwth the baby. They get used to you not
being around.
Sorry youre having a crappy time. Sucks
eh?
How old is the kid? Any chance you could
join a mommy play group or something just
to get out and be social?
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Idony
Supporter
Joined: 23 Sep 2006 Posts: 1611 Location: virginia beach, va usa
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Posted: 01-19-08 21:16pm
i never really had friends
but maybe you should just try to find new
friends ones that maybe have kids, just a
thought, if they want to treat you like
dirt you are way better then them you dont
need that
~alicia~
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 01-19-08 21:45pm
its normal
i was a varsity cheerleader and ran track.
every weekend i was out with friends.
every day after school i'd go hang outwith
someone
football games
practice
parties
now...ive got maybe 10 people i still keep
in touch with.
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Verizon-y
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Aug 2007 Posts: 3291
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Posted: 01-20-08 00:41am
10 people is A LOT, though!
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 01-20-08 01:15am
well i talk to 10 people. but really i
only have 2 close friends who i keep in
touch with. mikey who is over here alot
lol. him and trav are best buddies now.
and me and mikey grew up with each other
pretty much since diapers.
and then my sister. whom i talk to
sometimes
the others are over aim,IM,txt,etc
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Martiny
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jan 2008 Posts: 54 Location: Montreal, Quebec,
Posted: 01-20-08 15:10pm
Well me i have 2 close friend one who also
have a kid, mine is 10 months. And an
other girl who is like my sister she was
alwayd their. The other ones dont care or
talk to my bf and i if they need money.
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Katrinadoodle
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Nov 2007 Posts: 1231
Posted: 01-20-08 15:59pm
I still have most of my friends. I grew
apart from most of them during my
pregnancy, but I'm slowly building my
relationships back up. I lost a few
friends who were very negative about me
been a teen mom, but who needs them
anyways?
Surprisingly, my three best friends
actually want to here all about
motherhood.... colic, diapers,
sleep-deprivation, and all.
