head sensitive during stimulation Posted: 01-21-08 23:52pm
During both intercourse and masturbation,
at intervals (but every time I have sex or
masturbate) the head of my penis will
become almost painfully sensitive for a
short time and all pleasure from the
experience will stop (so much so that even
if I continue intercourse my erection
begins to slightly lessen). If I stop
intercourse or masturbation for a short
time (~10-20 seconds) it will stop being
sensitive and pleasure will return, but
the sensitivity will inevitably come back
during the experience (depending on how
long it goes on).
While this is obviously not life
threatening, it can make for some
uncomfortable/awkward moments during
intercourse.
I am in my late 20s and sexually
experienced, and circumsized (I don't know
if it is relevant, but my frenulum is
intact).
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you.
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-21-08 23:56pm
actually- its normal
some people can go for orgasm after
orgasm, but most people after one have to
stop because they become too sensitive
this happens to both male and female
as long as you dont have any pain then its
normal. but if you ever have pain during
sex or anything you should go see a dr
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BRS07
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Posted: 01-22-08 00:11am
I understand that oversensitivity is
normal after orgasm. But this is
pre-orgasm. It will happen a few times
during sex/masturbation, and I am able to
achieve orgasm normally, but the
sensitivity I am describing comes before
the orgasm. Sorry for being unclear.
And thanks for your quick response.
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-22-08 00:13am
ohhh
ok sorry i misunderstood your post.
hmm im
not really too sure then. has it always
been like this or is it something that
just spontaneously popped up ot of
nowhere?
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BRS07
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Posted: 01-22-08 00:21am
Not a problem, grateful for the help.
It's been happening for as long as I can
recall (but that doesn't mean that it's
always been like this - I just don't
recall when it started, but several years
ago).
The only thing I can think of, and this is
of course pure speculation, is that I
masturbate in a non-traditional fashion (I
use three fingers at the base of the head
of the penis over my remaining foreskin,
with the middle finger positioned at the
bottom of the head, one on the left side
and another on the right side and then
move them up and down - not sure if this
description is helpful at all).
Other than that, I have no idea.
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-22-08 00:27am
but if it was pure speculation you'd think
it would only occur during masturbation
and not intercourse?
the only thing i can really find on it is
the developing of PE (or premature
ejaculation)
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BRS07
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Posted: 01-22-08 00:33am
Yes, it occurred to me that it would only
happen during masturbation, although after
reading through this forum i'm wondering
whether this method may cause something
similar to TME (but once again, pure
speculation).
I've never had a problem with premature
ejaculation - in fact, during intercourse
it can take me a good while to ejaculate.
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-22-08 00:36am
lol im stumped then
sorry i couldnt
really help you more
im still looking it up though so if i come
up with something i'll def let you know
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MiseEire
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Posted: 01-22-08 11:39am
You could try wearing thicker condoms. I
never use the damn things because my glans
(the head) isn't sensitive due to a
foreskin condition I need to fix in a few
months, but they definitely reduce
sensitivity in that area from my
experience.
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BlueManDude
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Wow same here man Posted: 02-01-08 01:24am
I didn't think anyone experienced the same
issue. People look at me dumbfounded when
I try to explain. But for me. It's very
sensitive all the time. It just started
like 7 months ago. I've been locked up
until a month ago. Haven't had sex yet.
I'm actually quite nervous to. I'm scared
I won't enjoy it. But when I take care of
business. If you know what I mean. Its
very uncomfortable. It thrusts and
contracts when the head is rubbed. But
when I came close to having sex. It didnt
seem to bother me. I dont know man. It
sucks a lot and it angers me off.
im
not really too sure then. has it always
been like this or is it something that
just spontaneously popped up ot of
nowhere?
sorry i couldnt
really help you more
