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monkeygirl22

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My wonderful day...
Posted: 01-22-08 00:35am

If you didn't already notice, I was being sarcastic with the title. I had been having contractions like crazy all freaking weekend. They got stronger last night. When I woke up this morning, I just felt horrible. My swelling had gotten remarkably worse, I kept feeling like I was going to pass out, didn't have an appetite, just bad in every sense of the word. I decided that if the contractions got strong again on top of how I was feeling that I would go ahead and go in.

Well, they came back and I went in. I got there and found out that I am 4 cm and 85% effaced. At first, I was llike woohoo I'm gonna get to have a baby. Sarah said the same thing. My contractions had slowed down again at this point and were less intense but they were still there. My bp was 155/92. No wonder I've been feeling so bad. She watched me for a little bit and then called my wonderful doctor. As soon as she came back, they sent me home. Yeah, I understand no pitocin to help things along until Friday at the earliest when I'm 38 weeks. I was actively contracting and have been in horrible pain from these contractions for the last two days again.

Before we headed home, I called the doctor so I could talk to him directly. He basically told me I just had to deal with the pain. I asked him how I was supposed to gauge exactly when to go in to the hospital then because when my contractions start they are 5 minutes apart at least. So he told me I should wait until they are even closer and stronger than they already have been. I understand the logic behind that I really do, but my God I am so scared I'm gonna be delivering this baby either in my floor or in the car. I live 45 minutes away from the freaking hospital. I really don't want that-especially with her heart arrhythmia. She needs to be monitored closely in case she needs to get out quickly. She skips beats a lot so it makes her heart rate go into the 90's for a period of time. I still believe that all the stress my body's been in due to constant contractions during this pregnancy have something to do with her problem.

Anyways, that's my rant and update for today. I am 37 weeks 3 days. I go back to the doctor Wednesday and we are going to set an induction date which will probably be for next monday. We shall see though.
Let me say again though that I am very thankful to have made it to full term.
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Katrinadoodle

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Posted: 01-22-08 03:18am

DON'T HAVE THAT BABY YET!

I'm sending out the clothes either tomorrow or the day after! I just gotta get them washed Very
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And I'm sorry you keep getting sent home Sad I would camp out in the waiting room to make sure I was at the hospital when things finally got moving Laughing
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stepbak26

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Posted: 01-22-08 04:33am

I am sorry you going through all that pain. With your BP being 155/92 why would they send you home with such a high bp? Over the course of my whole pregnancy 27.6wks today I have been having a bp of 141/90 or 138/90 and they have recently started me on bp medicine so that when I am ready to deliver, i won't have pre-clamsia. (sp) Anyway, just hang in there!!
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Electriceyes

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Posted: 01-22-08 04:53am

geez Stef. I would have REFUSED to go home.... If I had was in THAT much painn, lived that far away from the hospital..ect. They are INSANE people for sending you home.
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stepbak26

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Posted: 01-22-08 05:16am

princess6591 wrote:
geez Stef. I would have REFUSED to go home.... If I had was in THAT much painn, lived that far away from the hospital..ect. They are INSANE people for sending you home.


i agree...
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rosejackson

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Posted: 01-22-08 06:49am

i am sorry you have to go through this. i dont understand why they keep sending you home though
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Shanyan

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Posted: 01-22-08 09:05am

I'm sorry that you are having such a difficult time Sad I couldn't imagine going through what you are going through. I bet that you will be relieved to have it over with already and just have your beautiful girl in your arms.

BTW.....isn't there some sort of policy that they usually admit women when they are 4cm? I maybe be wrong....but I think they should because really you are almost halfway there. I think that they should be playing this safe and just admit you already!!

Is there anyone that you can stay with that lives closer to the hospital?
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Eyes Wide Shut

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Posted: 01-22-08 09:23am

Shanyan wrote:


BTW.....isn't there some sort of policy that they usually admit women when they are 4cm? I maybe be wrong....but I think they should because really you are almost halfway there. I think that they should be playing this safe and just admit you already!!



That's EXACLT what I thought when she told me she was 4cm!!!! I was like yes you're gonna have that bebe!!!

Steph, I'm sorry that you're going through all of this. But it sounds like your Dr just wants baby Brina to cook for as LONG as possible!!

I just reallllly hope you can get to the hospital on time!!!! He(your Dr) will feel soooo stupid if you wind up having her in the car in the parking lot!!!!

Sarah
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mamaTT

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Posted: 01-22-08 09:34am

So sorry you are going through all of this. But soon, it will be a distant memory and you will be holding your little one. Hang in there just a little bit longer!
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Posted: 01-22-08 10:45am

really where do you and Sarah pick out your doctors?? I cant believe they would send you home at 4 cms. I woulda sat there n been like nope, you can admit me and not give me drugs but I AM NOT driving home 45 mins just so I can come right back. Id punch my doctor in the face...
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Eyes Wide Shut

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Posted: 01-22-08 10:59am

LOL!! We must have the WORST luck with Dr's!!!

I mean, come on! 4cm!?!?! And you're gonna send her home?! WHO DOES THAT?!?!

That's just crazy...

Sarah
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acruz

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Posted: 01-22-08 11:10am

Sad I am so sorry that you hare having such a crappy time!!! That dumb ole doctor!!! We will be thinking of you and looking forward to hearing your birth story and see your beautiful baby!!!
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ladylee70

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Posted: 01-22-08 11:13am

~dani~ wrote:
really where do you and Sarah pick out your doctors?? I cant believe they would send you home at 4 cms. I woulda sat there n been like nope, you can admit me and not give me drugs but I AM NOT driving home 45 mins just so I can come right back. Id punch my doctor in the face...


Dani, I think I quote you the most.

I completely agree. Sending you home at 4 cm? Your doctor needs to retire. I don't care how old he is, he still needs to retire.

I can't stand your doctor. You should be in the hospital right now. Can't you go to labor and deliver even if he doesn't tell you to?
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monkeygirl22

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Posted: 01-22-08 11:17am

Thanks for your replies girls. I'm making another post now.
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