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how to end it Posted: 01-22-08 07:11am


Well I just typed out the same topic and then the internet messed up so I've lost it all. I'm not in a good mood now. Yeah well basically I've been with my boyrfriend for 4 and a half years and I don't know how to tell him that I want to move on. There's a number of reasons why which I'm not typing out again but basically I'm not attracted to him anymore, but I can't tell him that because it will hurt him so much. We're doing sex therapy together and it involves exercises which need us to be intimate and such but when we do it I almost can't stand him touching me, or me touching him. I don't even want to think about us having sex again. I don't know why I feel this way and I hate myself for it, because he's been nothing but sweet to me (well, mostly) and he really loves me. This is my first real relationship so I don't know what to say to end it. Help me please?

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Posted: 01-23-08 09:24am


All you can do is be honest. Sit him down and explain things to him... because no matter how you do it, it is going to hurt.

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Posted: 02-01-08 14:07pm


I'm doing it tonight. Dunno quite what to say exactly. I would've done it before now but things have always got in the way, and he's been working away all week so I haven't seen him. I'm just nervous about his reaction. I know he won't be happy.

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