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Balldez
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FSD Female sexual dysfunction
Posted: 01-22-08 13:37pm
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My wife is in perimenepause and she has
gone from being very libidinous to cold as
ice. She has been this way for several
years now and it is really upsetting to
me. I suppose I can do without sex but her
disposition has also turned sour and I am
getting to where I do everything to avoid
her.
I told her to get her hormones checked but
she refuses. Her mood swings are awful to
deal with.
I read all over the net that 46% of women
are sexually dysfunctional. I am now
seeing why men haves mistresses. Maybe we
need to rethink monogamy.
Comments?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 01-22-08 14:05pm
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Maybe you need to rethink how you're
approaching your wife about getting help
before becoming an adulterer.
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Ingi
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Posted: 01-22-08 15:28pm
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Sounds to me like it is a fundamental
relationship issue and not just a hormone
issue.
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Marianne0558
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Posted: 01-22-08 15:56pm
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Menopause is NOT an excuse to have an
adultress.
That is pathetic.
What happened to "Till death do us
part"???
People are too easy to give up on lifetime
committments.
Besides, divorce is so much more expensive
than a wedding.
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run4life10
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Posted: 01-22-08 16:05pm
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I agree. Maybe you should be more atuned
to her needs instead of trying to avoid
her. Perhaps hormones have less to do with
her sour disposition than does living with
a man who would rather avoid her and get a
mistress than actually try to understand
and empathize with her, and god forbid
actually put effort into trying to make
things work. And not everyone has the same
problems as you, some people believe it or
not actually have very happy marriages,
and yes the wives of happily married men
also go through menopause! but happy
marriages are only achieved by effort,
understanding, and open communication. I
don't think we need to re-think monogamy
at all, maybe you just need to re-think
your marriage and how you approach things.
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Balldez
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Posted: 01-22-08 17:05pm
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I do all the stuff to romance her. The
kids avoid her like the plague. My son
thinks I should get a girlfriend. I would
but I just don't want the hassle. A lot of
my buddies are in the same boat a few of
them really enjoy having a mistress. It's
cheaper than a divorce.
Men rarely have low libido but it is
epidemic among women. I read that is is
because of xenoestrogens and estrogen
dominance along with low testosterone
levels.
If I do get a mistress I will not keep it
a secret. She'll know all about it. Maybe
then she will get to the doctor and get
her hormones checked and become a real
woman again. Right now she is a fat lump
that sits on the couch and screams at the
kids.
I do all the cleaning and cooking now and
she sits on her ever expanding butt and
complains. She ignores me and the kids
unless she has something nasty to say to
us.
I to have less sex drive because she has
gotten fat. She went from a size five to a
14. That is a HUGE turnoff. She's become
gluttonous and slothful. She needs to
MOOOOOOOOOOOOOve.
She needs HRT because without it she will
be more inclined to get bone loss and
certain cancers.
There is this little hunny who flirts with
me at the health club. Maybe a romp in the
hay with her will motivate the ice queen
into getting her hormones balanced. No
more celibacy for this guy.
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Ingi
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Posted: 01-22-08 17:26pm
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| Balldez
wrote: | I do all the stuff to
romance her. The kids avoid her like the
plague. My son thinks I should get a
girlfriend. I would but I just don't want
the hassle. A lot of my buddies are in the
same boat a few of them really enjoy
having a mistress. It's cheaper than a
divorce.
Men rarely have low libido but it is
epidemic among women. I read that is is
because of xenoestrogens and estrogen
dominance along with low testosterone
levels.
If I do get a mistress I will not keep it
a secret. She'll know all about it. Maybe
then she will get to the doctor and get
her hormones checked and become a real
woman again. Right now she is a fat lump
that sits on the couch and screams at the
kids.
I do all the cleaning and cooking now and
she sits on her ever expanding butt and
complains. She ignores me and the kids
unless she has something nasty to say to
us.
I to have less sex drive because she has
gotten fat. She went from a size five to a
14. That is a HUGE turnoff. She's become
gluttonous and slothful. She needs to
MOOOOOOOOOOOOOve.
She needs HRT because without it she will
be more inclined to get bone loss and
certain cancers.
There is this little hunny who flirts with
me at the health club. Maybe a romp in the
hay with her will motivate the ice queen
into getting her hormones balanced. No
more celibacy for this
guy. |
You, sir, are offensive.
Additionally, if you are being the
wonderful supportive husband you claim to
be - with all the romance and stuff - I'm
sure the way you speak about women in such
a derogatory manner is enough to turn her
off of you.
Women are not objects to be little hotties
for pompous balding males who think they
are still the cat's meow. I have a feeling
if your wife doesn't want anything to do
with you in the bedroom, you'll have a
hard time finding anyone else.
If you speak to your wife the way you
speak about her, she would have every
right to treat you the way you claim she
does.
Please don't speak to your children about
your sex life with their mother. It is
wrong and it is unnecessary. That is why
you have friends. Your children shouldn't
be privvy to such information.
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Marianne0558
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Posted: 01-23-08 08:39am
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OOOo..... Snap!
I wonder what the unavailable posts said.
What a pig.
OINK OINK
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Posted: 01-23-08 08:55am
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Triple OINK
Ingi is right.. maybe there is a reason
for her actions,, I might have the sames
ones..
Any man talking about having an affair to
his child already would have a mark
against him in my book..
And if he had an affair he would let her
know about it? Why not try talking to her
about it before the affair.
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Marianne0558
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Posted: 01-23-08 09:00am
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Pigs can't talk. They can only type long
diatrobs about affairs and crappy
parenting to complete strangers on the
internet. I wonder if his wife has an
account with eHealth? Now that, I would
PAY to see 
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Whaturmuva
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Posted: 01-23-08 09:09am
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Cheating on your wife will not make things
better. And do you really think going
behind her back and her knowing will make
her want to shape up for you? Not only
will you be alone because you have a
horrible view of females, but she will
leave you and you wont get off with that
"cheaper than a divorce" BS. You just seem
like a pathetic human being to me.
Maybe you would understand if you do as
beautiful little lady run4life10 said  and open up
and talk with her. Sit down and be
understanding and compassionate, because
yelling at her sure wont make things any
better. If you showed you cared about her
feelings some she might be more open to
trying things for you. But being an
problem about it will do nothing but cause
more friction in your relationship. You've
already screwed up so much buddy, it's
time to take a complete 360, get off the
selfish streak (and yes, you may do
physical things but you are very
emotionally selfish), and talk openly and
calmly with her.
But in all honesty, you sound like a
complete piece of filth and you deserve
everything that is happening to you. I
feel bad for your wife.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 01-23-08 12:55pm
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Some of them were very disgusting. I still
can't believe that this poster is a REAL
person and not just a persona made up by
someone bored behind their computer...
He's just so offensive!!
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Ingi
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Posted: 01-23-08 12:58pm
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| Eiri
wrote: | | Some of them were very
disgusting. I still can't believe that
this poster is a REAL person and not just
a persona made up by someone bored behind
their computer... He's just so
offensive!! |
Yes, he is offensive.
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Posted: 01-30-08 20:33pm
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What a low life jerk! Why dosnt he just be
a man and talk to her, try to understand
where she is comming from, its not a hard
thing to do! Talking to his kid about his
sex life? Thats beyond pathetic, thats
sick and twisted. If he thinks his wife
needs to have her hormones checked then he
needs to wake up and realize he needs to
have his brain checked, dude has some
mental issues and thats most likely whats
wrong in his marrige. He needs a lot more
then a psycologist! You SIR are scum!
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