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What shall I do next? Posted: 01-24-08 06:50am
Parents I need your advise, while doing
homework, I checked my second child's
pencil case and saw that some of the
stationery were damaged, I asked my son
why he told me that a certain classmate
did it. It was the same classmate who
called my son 'crazy boy' for no apparent
reason that boy later apologize to my son.
I wrote a letter to the class teacher and
she feedback to me saying that she had
already taken action by separating the
two.
Today during break time while my boy and
my daughter were talking he came up to
them and said 'crazy'. Okay now I need
your sincere opinion on what shall I do.
Oh one more thing he kicked my boy's chair
while my boy was sitting. The teacher
commented that my son is an excellent boy
but he is too quiet.
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AMomOf3
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Joined: 04 Jan 2008 Posts: 37 Location: San Diego, CA USA
Posted: 01-25-08 04:57am
If he's doing well in school, then that
part is okay. If you don't like his
behavior at home...tell him why it's not
appropriate to say / act the way he does.
How old is he? Can he understand what is
appropriate behavior? Let him know what
you expect out of him, and when he does
act right....reward him with kind words of
encouragement. Maybe that will help...
Good Luck
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Hart74
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Posted: 01-25-08 06:33am
(If you don't like his behavior at
home...tell him why it's not appropriate
to say / act the way he does. Can he
understand what is appropriate behavior?)
Huh? What do you mean if I don't like his
behaviour? I am asking opinion about my
son's classmate who is a bully and not my
son. Quote your son is an excellent
student Unqoute, that was what my son's
class teacher commented on his book.
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-25-08 13:47pm
AMomOf3
wrote:
If he's doing well in
school, then that part is okay. If you
don't like his behavior at home...tell him
why it's not appropriate to say / act the
way he does. How old is he? Can he
understand what is appropriate behavior?
Let him know what you expect out of him,
and when he does act right....reward him
with kind words of encouragement. Maybe
that will help... Good
Luck
she isnt talking about her son being this
way
shes saying theres a kid in his class whom
is displaying this behavior and she would
like to know how to handle it
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Tmddyan
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Posted: 01-27-08 15:20pm
exactly girlfriend. THis has nothing to do
with his behavior at home.Im sure that he
is a good child.otherwise she would be
asking about behavior modification---what
do i do if my kid does such and such--but
she isnt. honestly if the teacher isnt
handling this properly--Id go to the
parent of the child. If the child is quiet
that is part of who he is. Im quite and no
one bothered me with it.
Hart74 Id first take it up with the
principle and then when you pick up your
son--have a chat with the childs mother.
No child should be bullied in school just
because. No one should be called crazy
either--period.
