Joined: 25 Jan 2008 Posts: 13 Location: St. Louis, MO., United States
Pro Life and Teenage Mom Posted: 01-25-08 06:54am
Hello everyone. My name is Tiffany. In
Feburary of 2007 I made the shocking
discovery of my unplanned pregnancy.
Throughout my nine months of pregnancy I
turned 16, ended up single, and out of a
job as well. I never really considered
abortion as a solution because God never
would have given me something I couldn't
handle. When everyone found out I was
pregnant I was told to get an abortion by
many, many people. I didn't fully
understand it yet but I knew I didn't
believe in it. I researched it, saw
pictures, and was completely disgused at
how people could throw away such a
blessing.
To this day I have a 12 week old son and
we're living as happy as can be, both of
us. Although abortion may seem like an
endearing solution it's nothing but a
mindless trap that will make you suffer
from depression and high loss for the rest
of your life. It's unGodly, so please
think about your gift before you take away
a life. Consider adoption, don't kill
just because you're afraid of what the
world will say to you. Stay strong,
believe in life.
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meblonde01
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Posted: 01-25-08 07:38am
I am so glad for you and your child.. I
bet you look into his little face and
think how could even have considered
aborting him..
Abotion can leave some pretty big scares.
They don't go ever go away. Some people
that have abortion say that are glad they
did and never look back. But I think they
are just trying to cover up the hurt for
their actions.
I had an abortion many years ago. And it
makes me sick to think about it. I never
had children because I felt I had my
chance and decided to end a life.
God Bless you and your son!!
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anniek
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Posted: 01-25-08 08:49am
Good for you! I too was young when I had
my daughter (just 1. And abortion was
never an option for either. Nor for my
family. I was lucky we got married before
she was born and have been together since.
I have a wonderful daughter (well most the
time!) that I could never understand why
people could go through with not seeing
the cute little face!
Some people are ok with having an abortion
and they may not scars but you know others
do because of their actions. If you have
read anything way earlier I have a sister
in law that has had 2 one of which about 3
weeks before she did it she asked me to
come to an ultra sound with her and I saw
that baby and heard it's heart beat. I've
never really gotten over either of them
but mostly that one. I have forgiven her
because that is what a good christian does
and I'm not to be the one to judge. She
knows how I feel about that she did it.
But I was there for her when she had
medical problems because of it. I just
pray that because of everything I've done
and said to her after the last one. IF she
would ever end up pregnant again she will
think and at least give it to someone who
would want a beutiful little one if she
doesn't.
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anniek
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Posted: 01-25-08 08:55am
To meblond. How old are you? I think you
would make a wonderful mom! If you still
want children go and have them and teach
them the mistakes you made. Make that time
in your life a lesson for others. That
still makes you a good person! Everyone
will be forgiven if they repeant for their
actions! Take care girl!
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meblonde01
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Posted: 01-25-08 09:08am
to late in life to have children now.. But
I ended up with a wonderful step son and
he is like my child! We have a very
close relationship. It all worked out for
the best! God has plans for our lives. I
Know abortion was not one he had for me
but he forgave and gave me Ryan.
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austinsmamma2007
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jan 2008 Posts: 13 Location: St. Louis, MO., United States
Posted: 01-25-08 09:36am
meblonde01
wrote:
I am so glad for you and
your child.. I bet you look into his
little face and think how could even have
considered aborting him..
Abotion can leave some pretty big scares.
They don't go ever go away. Some people
that have abortion say that are glad they
did and never look back. But I think they
are just trying to cover up the hurt for
their actions.
I had an abortion many years ago. And it
makes me sick to think about it. I never
had children because I felt I had my
chance and decided to end a life.
God Bless you and your
son!!
Oh wow. I'm so sorry. But thank you for
your blessing, it is very much appreciated
:]
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austinsmamma2007
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jan 2008 Posts: 13 Location: St. Louis, MO., United States
Posted: 01-25-08 09:41am
anniek
wrote:
Good for you! I too was
young when I had my daughter (just 1. And abortion was
never an option for either. Nor for my
family. I was lucky we got married before
she was born and have been together since.
I have a wonderful daughter (well most the
time!) that I could never understand why
people could go through with not seeing
the cute little face!
Some people are ok with having an abortion
and they may not scars but you know others
do because of their actions. If you have
read anything way earlier I have a sister
in law that has had 2 one of which about 3
weeks before she did it she asked me to
come to an ultra sound with her and I saw
that baby and heard it's heart beat. I've
never really gotten over either of them
but mostly that one. I have forgiven her
because that is what a good christian does
and I'm not to be the one to judge. She
knows how I feel about that she did it.
But I was there for her when she had
medical problems because of it. I just
pray that because of everything I've done
and said to her after the last one. IF she
would ever end up pregnant again she will
think and at least give it to someone who
would want a beutiful little one if she
doesn't.
I look at my son and feel all the love for
him, and I just don't see how people can
kill these innocent babies! I really
don't understand it when parents who
already have kids have abortions either.
Shouldn't they know what they're killing
already?
I'm sorry about your sister. She made 2
awful decisions and I really hope that
someday she can understand what she's
really done and feel regret for it. But
it's great that you've forgiven her! I'm
a Christian as well, but I honestly don't
think I could ever forgive my sisters for
that.
. And abortion was
never an option for either. Nor for my
family. I was lucky we got married before
she was born and have been together since.
I have a wonderful daughter (well most the
time!) that I could never understand why
people could go through with not seeing
the cute little face!
We have a very
close relationship. It all worked out for
the best! God has plans for our lives. I
Know abortion was not one he had for me
but he forgave and gave me Ryan.