okay.
so, i've been together with this guy a
little over a year now.
the entire time has been lying to me. he
does drugs behind my back.
(even though he's getting 'better' for the
who-knows-how-many-ith-time now...)
all my friends say he treats me horribly.
and now after a few days (i knew about it)
i got him to confess that he stole
$20 from me. he's paying me back very
soon. hopefully.
this guy has drug me through hell and
back.
not to mention, i'm always the one that
crawls back to him.
hes doesn't know what he wants half the
time. sometimes
he wants a relationship, and sometimes he
doesn't.
when hes in bad moods (he's very
depressed) and i ask
him if he loves me, he says he doesn't
love anything, including me.
why do i stay in this relationship? i
don't know.
i feel so stupid for being with him, yet
so lost without him.
during our many 'breaks' i always find
myself caving in.
hes an amazing person under all this, he
really is. hes a total sweetheart.
i know i cant change him, but i want to
help him. he would be a great
person if he only knew what GOOD qualities
he has.
what do i do? i'm totally lost.
and i KNOW i'm very stupid for staying
with him. :/
but i just want to see him happy...
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crazyinluvwitchu
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jan 2008 Posts: 78 Location: SACRAMENTO, CALiFORNiA
Posted: 01-25-08 23:06pm
no...no....
no....
you're NOT stupid...it's just because you
LOVe him.....
it's hard to let go of someone when you've
been together for a LONG time......
you say he's doing drugs behind your
back?...
if so, then he's not being himself when he
says all those nasty things to you...like
he doesn't love you.....that's the DRUG
talking.....
you just gotta be strong about him...
you have to show him that you'll stay by
his side and help him through....
but if he hits you...and you feel that you
cant take it anymore...then my advice to
you is to get da hell out of that
relationship......
guys with drugs can be a bit out of
hand....
if you see that he's willing to help
himself out..then you should help him out
to0....
BE STRONG...
----kepp me posted-----
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