Dry Precum Swimming Up "there" Posted: 09-11-03 23:30pm
hi,
my name is victoria and i'm worried that I
might be pregnant and I was wondering if
you could help me answer it, because i'm
freaking out.
Here's what happened:
i touched my boyfriend's penis a lot of
times tonight and i'm not sure if I got
precum on my fingers, but let's say that I
did. About five minutes later he went
down on me and at one point I took two
fingers and sort of touched the inside of
my "lip." so if I had precum on my finger
it was pretty much dried up. The only
thing that concerns me was that I was
“wet” from arousal and I feel that some
sperm may have swam up there, because I
was wet. Is there a high chance I could
get pregnant from this?
Please help me.
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janetp9
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Sep 2003 Posts: 13 Location: washington
Posted: 09-12-03 03:16am
It is very doubtful that you are pregnant
from this. When was your last period?
However, you may want to consider the
morning after pill just to be sure.
1-888-not-2-late
here is some info on it from Dr. Drew ,
he has a radio program,
i am a huge advocate of the morning after
pill. I feel it really is one of our best
options to help eliminate -- or at least
reduce -- unwanted pregnancies and
abortions.
The problem is that there is a great lack
of understanding about how this pill
works. People tend to confuse it with
ru486 -- the true abortion pill. Ru486 is
now available in our country and it does,
in fact, cause an abortion in the first
trimester of pregnancy.
While I am in favor of the law of the land
and i’m glad women have choice, I am very
uncomfortable with abortion. If the
morning after pill worked by impairing
implantation or causing an abortion, I
would not be such a strong advocate of it.
It turns out that the morning after pill
-- or emergency contraception -- works
exactly the same way as the daily birth
control pill. There is really no
difference whatsoever. The morning after
pill is basically a double dosage of
contraception used within 72 hours of
unprotected intercourse. The daily
contraceptive pill that many women take
suppresses an egg from being released by
an ovary. Hence, there can never be
fertilization. However, there is a small
risk that an ovulation could occur, and if
it does, there is also a small risk that
the pill could impede implantation of that
fertilized egg.
For reasons I cannot understand, activists
have chosen to attack the morning after
pill form of contraception, believing that
its primary mechanism is impairing
implantation of a fertilized egg. This
cannot be further from the truth.
If people wanted to attack emergency
contraception based on its scientific
mechanism of action, in order to be
philosophically consistent they would also
have to work to eliminate all forms of the
pill and a couple of anti-inflammatory
drugs -- vioxx and celebrex -- which also
tend to have some effect on implantation.
It seems to me that if we are all
interested in helping advocate on behalf
of the health of our young people, we
should be urging that they have this pill
available, and of course that they use
appropriate contraception and don’t take
risks. But at least they know what their
options are, should a mistake occur. We
should also be strongly urging adoption as
an option for those who do get pregnant.
As to whether the presence of emergency
contraception would increase promiscuity,
there is simply no evidence of this. The
american medical women’s association
likens it to keeping a fire extinguisher
in your kitchen. Does the presence of a
fire extinguisher mean you’re going to
torch your food? No, of course you’re not
planning to have a fire, but if you do,
you’re grateful that the extinguisher is
there.
Furthermore, there is no evidence that
educating young people about contraception
methods increases their promiscuity.
Rather, helping them understand themselves
as sexual beings, teaching them to achieve
interpersonal health, and helping them to
negotiate what they want from a
relationship has a much higher impact on
the healthy choices they will make for the
rest of their lives.