plzz .. help me i met this guay that i
really like wen i first met him i jus felt
lik e wow but then we became freinds and i
told him wat i felt for him and he sais
that he just want us to become freinds ..
and stay like dat and see if we can become
more than frendz.. days passed and he
called me every nit and send me messages
that how he miss me alot and thinking of
me always .. after a while before xmas my
freind told me that she saw him with a
girl kissing and hugging then i asked him
if it was true and he said that yes but he
doesnt knw how that happend b/c she was
the one that approach him and that she
asked him to b her bf.. last week he told
me that he doesnt feel the chemestry that
he used to have with her like before and
that he had told her that and he asked her
to give him time to think about the
relation ship b/c it happend all of a
sudden .. and now they are jus like
freinds but they are stil in the
relationship .. i knw feel like i like him
more than before now he still calls me
invites me to go out with him to places
and so on .. but i dont knw wat to do ..
to leave him alone caus he says that he is
confused plzzz help me ... i do really lve
him
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Maddie34
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Posted: 01-27-08 21:44pm
If being with him is hard for you then I
would stick to other friends for awhile,
as long as its making you feel bad
anyways, exspecially if he just wants to
be friends then there's really nothing
that can be done.
Has he given you any indication that the
two of you could be more than just
friends?
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latingurl
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Joined: 21 Jan 2008 Posts: 11 Location: ,
Posted: 01-27-08 21:53pm
yes he had .. friday i invited him to go
with me for a walk in the city and then we
end up kissing and hugging ... we always
kiss wen we are together
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Maddie34
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Posted: 01-27-08 22:06pm
Oh wow, you didn't mention THAT.
Stay away from this guy if he's kissing
you AND with some other girl. That's
ridiculous. If he had any kind of respect
for you or this other girl he would not be
with BOTH of you.
Even if he breaks up with this other girl
and wants to be with you, are you sure you
can trust him? He doesn't seem to have any
off limits where relationships are
concerned. Be careful around this guy!
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Lico
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Joined: 30 Oct 2007 Posts: 19 Location: Phoenix, AZ U.S.
Posted: 01-28-08 01:38am
Majority of guys like to be players, and
judging by your post, it seems you and the
guy are alittle young, so I am sorry if I
am wrong. But you got to just talk to him
and tell him everything about how you
feel. Let him know that you want to be
with him and find out if he wants to be
with you. And if he chooses to be with
you, you need to make sure that he wont be
kissing or hugging up on other girls cuz
that would be a problem --- trust me, cuz
i did the same thing as that guy and it
took my gf a long time to forgive, really
it is a problem. But give him some space
to decide. Try hanging out with some other
friends for awhile and see what he says.
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latingurl
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Joined: 21 Jan 2008 Posts: 11 Location: ,
Posted: 01-28-08 22:50pm
ok u see we both 19 yrs old. we go to the
same college and hav classes together ..
everytime he stares at me .. i had told
him clearly wat i feel for him an he says
he appreciates the love that i feel for
him but he says that he is so sorry for
having a gf and that he knws that i feel
bad sake of that everytime we talk he tel
me he is so sorry ..he says that if only
he could turn back the time like it was
before .. i told him to leave her if he
dont feel that chemestry like before .. he
says that he feels bad and dont have that
courage to tel her ..but still he says
that he wil always have me in his heart
and thoughts .. dont knw wat to do
...........
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Maddie34
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Posted: 01-28-08 23:26pm
I'm sorry, but that’s ridiculous.
He's leading you on. Any decent man who
has any sort of respect for any women he's
involved with would stick to just that
woman. He's not sticking to either of you
and can you guarantee he would stick to
just you even if you were his gf? Probably
not.
What you should do is get away from this
guy. You're in college. Perfect place to
meet decent guys, and this guy is
certainly NOT one of them.
I'm not trying to be harsh, I had a friend
in the same situation and it tore her up.
She got some sense and finally left the
guy and is much better off. The best
advice you can get is to just move on from
this guy, he's not worth your time.
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Lico
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Joined: 30 Oct 2007 Posts: 19 Location: Phoenix, AZ U.S.
Posted: 01-29-08 01:07am
I am sorry, I agree 100% with Maddie34.
This guy is only leading you on.
Seriously, he wishes he could go back in
time. He is only 19 years old, he still
gots plenty of time to make things right,
and have different relationships. Also,
with him saying he is sorry and is too
scared to leave his gf, then he is not
worth fighting for. He is obvious not
fighting to be with you, so you should not
try to fight to be him since he is doing
nothing but flirting. As for going to
school with him, college has tons of guys
there that are actually descent. I am
sorry to sound so negative in this post
but if you and him keep it up, you'll end
up with a broken heart.
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latingurl
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Joined: 21 Jan 2008 Posts: 11 Location: ,
Posted: 01-31-08 14:22pm
u guys were right .. last night i was with
him we went for a walk and then we went
back to college and his girlfriend saw us
together.. he told me that he will stay
with her so i continued to walk my way ..
after that my friend wanted to go to the
mall and we went we passed through a park
and he was there with his gf kissing and
hugging each other i really felt bad ..
but i just wanted to see something like
that in order to see realities and i saw
it last night ..and i was online on my msn
and he buzzed me and told me he is sorry
for wat i had seen and i told him that
things can't go like that and he said that
he talked to her before and they were jus
freinds and now last night that they were
together she asked him to start thing over
again and he agreed ... so i decided to
leave him and make i continue my way .. he
asked me to b his friend but i dont knw
wat to do i feel really bad for wat i had
seen and not seeing the ture reality ..
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Galaxy
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Posted: 01-31-08 14:31pm
Leave well alone and stay away from him.
It sounds like he wants to keep you up his
sleeve in case things go wrong with the
g/f but who really wants to be second
best?
Anyway, he sounds like a bit of a dork if
you ask me. Go get a guy who will move
heaven and earth for you!
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Lico
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Joined: 30 Oct 2007 Posts: 19 Location: Phoenix, AZ U.S.
Posted: 02-02-08 01:04am
wow, I am sorry that happened. But the
best thing to do is to stay away from him.
If you stay friends with him, he will
always flirt with you, try to kiss and
stuff like that and it will only confuse
you more. Your in college, there is plenty
of more friends that you will meet.
