so im going on nuvaring soon. hopefully
within the next couple of days when i
start my period, and my boyfriend doesnt
want to have to keep using condoms. he
HATES them.
i still want another backup method to go
along with the birth controll...
whats the best kinds of spermacides and
how do you use them??
please help!
thanks alot!
<3 LadyAllie
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Georgia59
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Posted: 01-28-08 23:04pm
Oh there's tons of kinds. I would just go
shopping and see what you find. Some you
have to put in ahead of time, some you use
like lube, some are a film, some are a
gel, you'll just have to see what you can
find and read the directions .
Just be careful, some women (including me)
get really irritated and sore when I use
spermicide.
Good for you for being so careful though!
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LadyAllie
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Posted: 01-28-08 23:10pm
irritated how?
i dont do well with vaginal discomfort!
lol... who does?
guess me and my guy gotta go on a shopping
trip huh? wheres the best place to look?
its basically with the condoms and stuff
in mosts stores right??
thank you for the advice Georgia! youve
helped me tons in the short time that ive
been on the forums. i really appreciate
it!
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Georgia59
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Posted: 01-29-08 13:38pm
Well it's not necessarily going to happen
to you, it's just fairly common, so watch
out for it. Yeah, in grocery stores and
target and stuff, by the condoms. Or drugs
stores. If you can't find much, you can
always look online- there's everything you
could want online!
I'm glad I've been helpful.
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Rosie H
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Posted: 01-29-08 13:56pm
you might be able to find some at a sex
shop? I am not really sure.
You could try the spremicide on yourself
while you arent having sex that way you
can see what it does and it wont ruin the
mood if it starts to burn or irritate you.
Or maybe right before a shower you could
rub some on yourself. No one likes a fun
sex session to end like that.
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LadyAllie
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Posted: 01-29-08 22:51pm
Rosie H
wrote:
No one likes a fun sex
session to end like
that.
thats for sure! lol.
ill try testing it before... thats
actually a really good idea. thanks!
i guess we'll go to the store this
weekend. or at least i will.
gosh! thats gonna be embarassing! i
sereously just got over buying pads and
tampons like last year. lol its sad i
know, but it was just something that i was
always embarrased about!
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Rosie H
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Posted: 01-30-08 08:46am
its normal to be embarresed. Its taken me
awhile to get over those fears too. But
with a trusting partner it can turn into a
lot of fun and even a form of foreplay. My
hubby and I sometimes just go look at the
sex shops and by the time we get home we
are all over each other. Just make fun of
it and it wont seem like the big
responsibility it is. Over time you will
feel more comfortable.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 01-30-08 08:51am
I used to be really embarrassed too. I
remember once my husband and I (we weren't
yet married) went to a gas station to buy
condoms and picked up some superglue as
well (we broke something, I can't
remember) so we got up to the counter with
condoms and superglue and I looked at the
girl and I was like "these won't be used
together" lol.
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lol.
