First let me start by saying I have very
irregular periods...I usally have onle
every other month..Anyway..I had a period
in May 2007 I didn't have one in June but
in July me and my then boyfriend had sex
on July 14th and on July 17th I started my
period it was a normal 5 or 6 day
period..we broke up on July 18th (found
out he was cheating) I got asked out the
day after we broke up and I am still with
the guy. we started having sex the day
after my period ended..On Sept 2nd I found
out I was pregnant and on Sept 14th the
doc did an ultrasound and said based on
the fist day of my last period I was 8
weeks 3 days...( but my periods arnt
normal)so my due date is april 22nd I am
now 27 weeks and about to get married to
my boyfriend but its really stressing me
out that maybe there is a 1% chance the
baby could be the first boyfriends... by
the way..the doctor said it was not the
first boyfriends...he said I prob got
preggo between July 30-Aug 4..and me and
my now boyfriend did have sex in that date
range..Could it be..thanks for all your
help!!
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Marianne0558
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Joined: 10 Sep 2007 Posts: 1634 Location: Charleston, SC USA
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Posted: 01-29-08 09:19am
I would trust the doctor, but you should
really inform your boyfriend about the
possibility.
Marriage is based on strong trust and you
don't want to break that by lying or not
telling him something that could change
his life. Children are no joke, it's time
to grow up and face the man you are about
to marry.
Good luck girl!
(He probably knows that you just broke up
with your previous boyfriend right before
you and him hooked up anyway)
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bigblues1981
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Joined: 12 Sep 2007 Posts: 8
Posted: 01-29-08 09:26am
Of course I told him from the very
start...he knows everything I would never
ever do that to someone..he knows every
date just like I do..and he is not worried
either..I'm the only one who is worried..
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Marianne0558
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Joined: 10 Sep 2007 Posts: 1634 Location: Charleston, SC USA
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Posted: 01-29-08 11:17am
Well if your doctor ruled out the
ex-boyfriend as the father, I'd trust him.
Try not to worry too much until after the
baby is born. Stress isn't good for the
baby.
If you are concerned when the baby is
born, have your fiance take a paternity
test.
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