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Q: Who is the father?

asked by: bigblues1981 on January 29th, 2008

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First let me start by saying I have very irregular periods...I usally have onle every other month..Anyway..I had a period in May 2007 I didn't have one in June but in July me and my then boyfriend had sex on July 14th and on July 17th I started my period it was a normal 5 or 6 day period..we broke up on July 18th (found out he was cheating) I got asked out the day after we broke up and I am still with the guy. we started having sex the day after my period ended..On Sept 2nd I found out I was pregnant and on Sept 14th the doc did an ultrasound and said based on the fist day of my last period I was 8 weeks 3 days...( but my periods arnt normal)so my due date is april 22nd I am now 27 weeks and about to get married to my boyfriend but its really stressing me out that maybe there is a 1% chance the baby could be the first boyfriends... by the way..the doctor said it was not the first boyfriends...he said I prob got preggo between July 30-Aug 4..and me and my now boyfriend did have sex in that date range..Could it be..thanks for all your help!!

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Marianne0558

replied on January 29th, 2008

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I would trust the doctor, but you should really inform your boyfriend about the possibility.
Marriage is based on strong trust and you don't want to break that by lying or not telling him something that could change his life. Children are no joke, it's time to grow up and face the man you are about to marry.
Good luck girl!
(He probably knows that you just broke up with your previous boyfriend right before you and him hooked up anyway)

bigblues1981

replied on January 29th, 2008

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Of course I told him from the very start...he knows everything I would never ever do that to someone..he knows every date just like I do..and he is not worried either..I'm the only one who is worried..

Marianne0558

replied on January 29th, 2008

Supporter

Well if your doctor ruled out the ex-boyfriend as the father, I'd trust him. Try not to worry too much until after the baby is born. Stress isn't good for the baby.
If you are concerned when the baby is born, have your fiance take a paternity test.

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