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Hart74

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I am so upset with myself
Posted: 01-29-08 09:49am

Today on the way back in the elevator, one of my neigbour backpack hit my son's face I know it is accidently because my sons was behind him but at least say sorry or something I am really upset that I am not able to be a good mother who can't even protect her own son, am I being paranoid or is it really something to be upset? To make the matter worse my husband just can't be bother when my children making a mess in the dining room while I tried to sort out the pics that I lost in my digital camera, btw if anyone knows how to copy back the pics from the pc to memory card please tell me or pm me thanks.
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Becky

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Posted: 01-29-08 15:53pm

Aw I'm sorry hun- some people are just ignorant. It's a sad thing that we can't protect our kids from all the nastiness of the world. But at least take pride in knowing you are doing the best job you can Smile
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oh_mommy

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Posted: 01-29-08 20:00pm

becks i like ur avatar.. post pics again
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Hart74

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Posted: 01-30-08 10:15am

Thanks Becky at least with those encouraging words of yours it makes me feel better, I know that some people are so ignorant and they can be nasty I try to protect my children from them in all means that a mother can protect a child but sometime I can't help to feel that I am useless and not fit to be a mother you can't protect enough, thanks again Becky for everything!
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Becky

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Posted: 01-30-08 10:24am

That's ok hun. Anytime you want to chat feel free to PM me
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Mommy35

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Posted: 01-30-08 12:21pm

Did this person know that they had hit your son? I mean maybe they had no clue at all. Some people do walk around oblivious to the world around them? If they knew than it would only stand to reason that they would have the decency to say they were sorry.

I'm sure you are a fine mom, and the fact that you are concerned with wanting to protect your kids makes it more evident.

Good luck
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Hart74

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Posted: 01-31-08 07:14am

Awwww Mommy35 thanks for your kind words too hun, I guess you are right this person is so self centered because there is this one time that his wife just chucked their garbage (the garbage disposal happend to be infront of my house) without throwing it in the chute but just left them out in the open besides the other neighbour also complain about the liquid in the garbage dirtied their five foot way. I've been trying to avoid them but sometime living in the same place we tend to cross path. About my children I tried to make them feel secure as much as possible but sometimes there is only much I a parent can do. Thanks again.
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Hart74

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Posted: 02-01-08 11:33am

You know what today the same neighbour (the daughter) who stared at my daughter since last year stick out her tounge at my daughter I think this is the final straw I think I might tell her parent soon as I don't know what the problem that she have with my daughter (she never done anything to my son) but the thing that worries me is that the parent will say that my daughter who started everything they look like an unreasonable type and I don't want to be called petty. What you all think?
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Hart74

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Posted: 02-03-08 03:06am

Ahhhhhh what a relieve this morning one of my neighbour belled at my door at 8.30am and guess what the mother of the child who started at my daughter was there I took the chance to tell her about what her daughter did, you know what she seems like can't be bothered hmmmmmmm will she tell her daughter to stop what she's doing?
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