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10 month old not sleeping through night Posted: 01-30-08 10:21am
Hi, I hope someone can help me.
My first child...10 mo. old.
He is still breastfed---in that I pump and
give it in a bottle and have been doing so
since birth.
He still wakes up in the night maybe 2
times...my mom is saying this is not right
and I want someone to verify if this is
correct....should he be sleeping thru the
night--even if getting breastmilk.
He is NOT eating very well these
days...very fussy, this is new in the past
2 or 3 days...usually he's not too bad of
an eater.
Also, I can't seem to get him to go to bed
until about 10pm...is this NORMAL for
anyone else?????
It doesn't matter how long I try and put
him down (but I do stay with him, I give
him 5 or so minutes alone, and then if he
cries I go in...but he won't go down until
usually around 10pm.
He gets up at 8am....has a morning nap at
11am then sometimes has a late afternoon
nap at 5pm, and then won't go to bed
until around 10pm.
Now, if I delete his late afternoon nap he
doesn't quite make it thru to 8 or 9, but
falls asleep maybe around 7pm...but...it
always works that if this happens, then he
will sleep for an hour, and then wakes up
and is up until 11pm...
HELP...I don't know what to do about these
problems..anyone have any suggestions..
My mother is DRIVING ME CRAZY WITH
CRITICISM THAT I'M NOT DOING THINGS RIGHT
AND I WILL REGRET IT LATER ON...
Thanks for any and all advice.
Sue.
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butterfly4565
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Posted: 02-01-08 04:08am
Hi,
I have a 7 month old baby girl,who is 7
months old,still breastfed and doesnt
sleep thru the night either!
It is totally 100% normal for babies to
still be waking during the night,eveb
beyond 12 months!
I dont know if your mum realises that
'sleeping thru' is actually a classified
as a stretch of 5 hours sleep overnight?
Some peopl are lucky and their babies
start sleeping thru for long periods when
they are young.But babies are designed to
wake overnight,it keeps mum's milk supply
going strong.And it lessens the chance of
SIDS.
I still sleep with my bubba,its much
easier to feed her overnight that way,and
I find I get more sleep because I dont
fully wake up.
Rest assured this is NORMAL behaviour,and
it wont go on forever!!
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SamanthaM
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Posted: 02-01-08 09:51am
I have a 20 1/2 month old boy and he still
doesn't sleep through the night. Some
babies just don't. Don't let anyone tell
you that you are doing something wrong.
The fussiness and not eating could be a
sign of teething, or possibly and ear
infection.
If you want him to go to sleep a little
earlier at night, try pushing his morning
nap back by about an hour. My boys always
have lunch at 12 and then take a nap for
about 2 hours. My 9 month old usually goes
to bed about 8 and the 20 1/2 month old
usually goes about 9. I think you should
try to feed him lunch or something to keep
him up until 12. If he takes a good nap, I
would just cut out the late afternoon nap.
He should be ready to go to bed by 8, and
hopefully stay asleep.
If you need anything, feel free to pm me
anytime.
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Cheri_Jay
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Joined: 25 Feb 2008 Posts: 3
Posted: 02-25-08 07:34am
I agree with samanthaM that it could be
teething or ears... My 9 month old was
sleeping wonderfully until he started
teething at 7 months. Well since then I
have been up from 2 to 6 times a night. He
also got glue ears in the last month,
which are not painful, but uncomfortable
and it interfears in their sleep. Got him
on medication and it is clearing up.
Luckily it does not last forever, but
remember that every baby is different and
do not take the criticism to heart. If you
have a good GP, go see him/her or visit a
pediatrician to get peace of mind.
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mominashoe
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Posted: 02-27-08 10:12am
I agree with the above posters. Every
baby is different and you mom should never
interfere with you like this. She should
be more supportive. It's actually not a
good thing for kids to sleep through the
night (which at most is only 6 hours
straight) if something is wrong. Your
mother comes from a generation where the
main thing was to get the baby to sleep
through no matter what. They would give
the baby cereal to help them sleep back
then, but now we all know that it's not a
good idea to do that. They need the
comfort and the nutrition of more
feedings, not a lump of starch in their
stomach. Your mother should be more
supportive of you...it's not yours or the
baby's fault that this is going on. It's
just life.
Your baby is only 10 months old. Some of
my children would still make a nightly
visit to my room even after they were
two!! (Not to scare you lol.) I have a
sister in law whose babies would sleep
through the night as soon as they reached
10 lbs.
A lot of babies teethe around this time
and also go through growth spurts. This
will throw off any sleep schedule. Just
make sure he is getting enough to eat and
taking his naps during the day. You can
give him a little infant Tylenol before
bed to ease the teething pain too.
Your schedule that you have the baby on
really isn't too bad....Here is a link to
a chart which you can use as a guideline
for what he needs.