pot affecting our sex life Posted: 01-31-08 22:46pm
Well my boyfriend smokes cause it helps
him sleep(he gets nitemarès of the war and
stuff cause he was out there)
Lately we.ve had his friend sleep over at
our house. No problem there but my
boyfriends pot smoking has caused our sex
life to dwindle. Last nite I wanted to
initiate but he passed out before I could
make a move!lol his friend being there
freguently doesn't help cause I can't be
spontanious wit him. When I feel in the
mood he.s too high and tired to do
anything. I was ontop once and he fell
asleep :/ lol
But in the mornings is when he's horny,
and rite when I feel that I'm going to
climax he climaxes before me. All I can do
is groan in disapointment yet again I told
him today that I didn't come again and he
just says I'm sorry. I want him to cut
back on the smoking and bringing his
friend over. I want some alone time wit
him. He says he's up for sex when he has
the energy, but he gets home, relaxes,
smokes and falls asleep. I never get the
chance to try and seduce him like I used
to. What do I do!!lol
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Maddie34
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Posted: 02-01-08 00:01am
Well, try talking it over with him? Does
he get home really late? I can relate to
that, but if he gets home at a decent time
but just smokes a lot then that would
really annoy the heck out of me too.
Bring it up to him, see if there's
anything you can do to compromise. Even if
its just setting aside a few nights a week
for just you and him-- that way he still
gets his friends time and you still get
your time with him.
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ladyT02
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Posted: 02-01-08 23:43pm
i talked to him yesterday and he seemed a
little sympathetic as to how i was feeling
about the whole thing, he was extra loving
etc. we had to go do some really important
errands tonite and he ended txtn me
telling me he was going to go out with his
coworkers to celebrate the opening of
their new store. i was all dressed and
ready to go and he tells me this. im so
bumbed and tired of him blowing off
important stuff just to hang out with his
coworkers.
im trying not to seem selfish but if he
goes out with his friends, brings his
friends to sleep over and now our time
together is short of course i should be
pissed!lol
i thought me and him would have some time
alone tonight, go do our errand and maybe
get something to eat...but no he went out
with his friends. now im bored out of my
mind at home...fully dressed on the
computer ranting.lol
i kno i see him everyday, but i really
dont cause when he does get home, hes
either bringing his friend over or just
coming straight home to smoke weed and
passes out. im not feeling satisfied
anymore and that scares me to death
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