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breakup after 2.5 years Posted: 02-04-08 11:16am
Ok. I was in a relationship for 2 1/2
yrs. & now it's all done & over w/.......
( Yea I will admit right now, I havn't
been the perfect gf & I have done stuff i
shouldn't have.)
The last 4 months of our relationship has
been long distance. Well I have been
notice-n 4 bout 2 wks, dat my bf (now x)
has not had much 2 say on the phone & he's
been act-n very different towards me.
Last wk I finally asked him wut was go-n
on. he tells me he has fall-n n love w/
sum1 else, but he didn't kno wut he wanted
2 do, & blah, blah, blah........
The next day he tells me he dosn't want 2
B w/ her, he wants 2 stay w/ me, & ask if
I would 4give him. So of course (my
stupid self) I did 4give him..........
Well 2 days afta this, it was his b-day.
So soon as I woke up I called him 2 wish
him a happy b-day & this girl (that he
fell n love w/ & he supposably didn't want
2 B w/), answers his phone.........
I heard him n da back ground, but she keep
say-n he was n the shower, so I told her I
would hold on the phone until he got done.
Well bout 5 mins. lata he get on the
phone, & I said; "I jus wanted 2 tell U
happy b-day", he said; "Thanks, can I call
U lata", I said; " Yea wut the F**K eva" &
hung up.........
This happen friday morn-n, he didn't call
me til sunday morn-n. So I straight up
told him 2 please don't call me nomore & I
don't want anythin 2 do w/ him anymore.
I really don't want 2 B w/ him anymore,
but this is still really tough 4 me, cause
I really do love him......
Has any1 had this happen 2 them b-4?????
How does sumthin like this happen????????
How do U get ova sumthin like
this????????
Any advice or opinions would help!!!!
THANKS!
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Blue Tink
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Joined: 10 Jan 2008 Posts: 7 Location: ,
Posted: 02-05-08 12:31pm
Girl, stuff ike that happens more often
than not. take it one day at a time. I was
with my ex husband for 8 years & one
day he calls me at work and says he
doesn't know if he wants to be married to
me anymore and that he thinks he wants a
DIVORCE... I just heard DIVORCE and went
to file right away. Did I still luv him?
YES!! Did it hurt?YES!! We divorced in
Nov 2004 and I remarried in Dec 2005 to an
awesome guy. My ex was always running
around like a dog in heat with every one
and any one. So it's gonna sting but Ur
knight in shinning armor is coming ur way
soon. Just stay strong.. Much luck 2 u!!
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Neek
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Joined: 13 Jan 2008 Posts: 20 Location: ,
Posted: 03-14-08 11:25am
as much as you love him, the objectives
are there that show him he is not for you.
his gf. etc
i have been in a similar thing and it
hurts
if you were outside the situation and saw
it happenign to one of your friends you
would tell them to get out (i know i
would)
but i cant seem to take my own advice
either
its so hard
i hope you and i can find peace +some1 who
will return the love that we give.
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Aunt WeeWee
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Joined: 04 Dec 2007 Posts: 158 Location: Amherst, VA, 24521
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Posted: 03-17-08 10:17am
Neek,
You are very rite! Thank you for that
advice!
I'm very nerves about this wknd. My X
will be in town Sat. & Sun. It will
be the first time i have seen him since he
left. I really don't even want to see
him. I think I will be ok. It has been
very tough getting threw this, but I seem
to be making it. I'm actually talking to
another guy, but its not serious yet, we
just started talking a little ova a wk
ago.
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