Women who can't climax off sex alone? Posted: 02-04-08 12:30pm
So many people have said that not every
woman can climax off sex alone!
Approximately 1 out of 3 women can climax
off sex alone which isn%u2019t great.
With that being said, how can other women
enjoy sex in different positions while
stimulating the clitoris to achieve that
orgasm? If a woman can%u2019t achieve an
orgasm off sex alone can that be learned
or taught for her to do this? This is the
problem that I am experiencing with my g/f
and many people have said to be happy as
long as the relationship is healthy. This
is all true however, my g/f wants to
achieve an orgasm off sex alone and she
has been questioning me but I don%u2019t
have the answers for her. She has been
trying those keggle exercises that she got
from a Kama Sutra book but still no luck.
Are there any thoughts and/or feelings on
this topic as well are there any women
with the same problem is so what do you
do???
Thanks so much%u2026
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thelmas4sale
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jul 2007 Posts: 45 Location: ,
Posted: 02-05-08 21:32pm
i just wanted to let you know your not
alone. i've been having sex with my
boyfriend for a year and a half and have
never been able to manage an orgasm at
all! you can imagine how frustrated he is.
oral doesnt do it. sex doesnt do it. even
just fingering/rubbing cant get me off. so
i have no suggestions for you. just wanted
to let you know shes not alone there. and
dont give up! experimenting is the fun
part
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Teresann86
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ME ME!!! I KNOW!!! Posted: 02-06-08 20:42pm
Hey! My husband and I have been married
for almost 3 years (together for alomost
4) and I have only had an orgasm ONCE from
sex alone. Oral doesn't do it for me
either....unless alot of rubbing/touching
is involved. So, I find other ways to
orgasm. Here are some things I do that you
and your girlfriend can try (if you are
comfortable enough with each other). 1#
Buy a toy, just a small vibrator that she
can use on her self during sex, or you can
use on her. 2# Do it doggy style, that
way, SHE has access to her vaginia and can
use her fingers during sex. 3# Let her be
on top, that way YOU have full access to
her vagina and you can use your hands on
her. 4# While she is on top, tell her to
go all the way down on your penis and
grind back and forward (this should allow
her clitorus (sp?) to be stimulated enough
for her to orgasm.). Well, that's all I'v
got for ya! Those things REALLY work for
me! Talk to your girlfriend and let her
know that you feel comfortable with these
things (only if you really do of course).
Tell her not to be shy;O) Good luck!!
Teresa<3
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Verizon-y
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Posted: 02-07-08 14:56pm
Tell her to be on top.
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bbfeet9
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Feb 2008 Posts: 62 Location: ,
Posted: 02-07-08 15:37pm
If she can find her sweet spot you guys
will be all good. It took us forever to
find mine. If i am on the bottom, forget
it. Sittin straight up is the key. Pumping
up and down doesn't work for me either. I
have to grind and at the same time, moving
my hips front to back. I also find that if
i start doing keagles while grinding, i
get off faster. (not always wanting
faster) You will be able to feel her G
spot as well with your penis. When she is
on top, you have full access to her
nipples and her clit. Clitoral orgasims
only work for me during oral sex. I have
to be sitting on my husbands face and at
the same time tweaking my own nipples. If
she does keagles, that is the excercise
that tightens her vaginal muscles, making
it better for you. It makes her seem
tighter. She can do these excercises
during intercourse, you'll be able to feel
her do this. You will know when she has an
orgasm as the muscles in her vagina will
contract and spasm. Have fun. Now I can't
wait for mine to get home!!!!!!!!
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