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ShawnaNmichaelNbaby
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sex while pregnant?
Posted: 02-04-08 21:53pm
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I know sex is okay but, after my boyfriend
and I have sex "yes he is well indowed" I
am sore it almost feels as if my whole
lower abdomenb where my uterus is has
thinned out and became tender? I just want
to know why an how to fix these problems
"postions" we just donot want to harm the
baby.
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Lilly Ivy
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Posted: 02-04-08 22:14pm
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The baby is pretty well protected. Unless
he's jumping on your stomach, I'd say it's
pretty hard to harm the baby.
I hardly have sex now (I'm 28wks), but
when we do, it feels like I'm having a
BHC. I do know orgasm are supposed to
contract your uterus, but I've never heard
of it feeling as though it's thinning out.
My best advise to you is to switch
positions. Laying on your sides for
example or doggy style are usually the
best bet. Another good one is lay on the
edge of the bed while he's off of it on
his knees so you guys are making a 90*
angle and not putting pressure on your
belly...
Good Luck!
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young Girl
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Posted: 02-05-08 03:12am
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its because when your pregnant your cervix
drops (?)
so hes most likly hitting your cervix
causing it to bruise (sometimes it can
even bleed!!!)
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mominashoe
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Posted: 02-05-08 04:40am
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Unless your doctor has told you that you
are a high risk pregnancy, you can't harm
your baby. It may be just because of your
hormones (tissue becomes softer) and for
some women, a tighter vagina, that it
hurts. Some women never enjoy sex when
they are pregnant and others find that it
is the best thing ever. Everyone is
different.
Like Lilly said, try for different
positions and those that will have less
penetration so that he doesn't hit your
cervix quite as hard. Being on top is
best for you because of your belly, but it
is also the position for deepest
penetration.
It will just take some tries to find out
which position is the most comfortable for
you. If there isn't any way to make do,
there are so many other ways that you can
show your love instead 
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ShawnaNmichaelNbaby
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Thank you
Posted: 02-05-08 08:36am
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I just wanted to know if it was harmful.
I am also getting pulsations down there
for no given reason and at any given time
it feels weird.
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young Girl
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Posted: 02-05-08 14:27pm
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sex is fine unless your dr says no. but if
your not at high risk fro preterm delivery
then its fine. the baby is very protected.
you are NOT touching or hitting the baby
by having sex
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Posted: 02-05-08 18:40pm
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I agree with Suzy, I am 37 weeks and still
doing the deed
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mominashoe
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Posted: 02-05-08 22:18pm
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Sex is actually very healthy for pregnant
women. Keeps you in shape and things
stretched out a little 
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young Girl
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Posted: 02-05-08 22:27pm
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lol i had sex up til the night before i
went into labor....
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Posted: 02-06-08 10:43am
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gosh i feel the same way. I cant take more
than an 2 inches of my hubby before he
hits my cervix. With my finger it feels
like maybe one inch and then bam theres my
cervix. I used to be able to take all of
him. but now it feels like someone hit me
in the stomach with a bat after sex, even
slow sex. Is this normal to have your
cervix this low while pregnant? My cervix
has never been as low as this.
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Lilly Ivy
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Posted: 02-06-08 12:00pm
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wow, that's a little odd in my book, I've
never heard of that. It seems mine is
lower now that you say that because some
positions we just can't do because it
feels like he's hitting my tonsils lol.
How far along are you? I'd ask my doctor
if it's that concerning to you.
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Posted: 02-06-08 12:20pm
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see thats why I am so confused cause I am
only 9 weeks. The baby is barely an inch
big. thats way to tiny to start getting in
the way of sex. heck i wont show for
another couple of months. Right? At least
thats what I thought. I called the doctor
and all my lab work came back perfect no
infections. I see her in a week and a half
so I will talk to her then. but I
literally cant have sex without it
hurting. I really hope that this doesnt
last the entire pregnancy. I want to have
sex.... = (
Could there be a possibilty that I am
carrying wrong? What about misscarriage?
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Lilly Ivy
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Posted: 02-06-08 12:44pm
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I don't think there is such a thing as
carrying wrong (don't quote me, I'm not a
doctor). But I wouldn't worry about a
miscarriage just because of this. Again,
if you are really worried, you don't have
to wait a week and a half worrying about
it, call your doctor and ask.
Good Luck!
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Rosie H
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Posted: 02-06-08 13:57pm
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thanks for the replys lily ivy !
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Posted: 02-06-08 18:21pm
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im just sex sex sex sex in the brain. but
alot of people dnt like the sound of that.
by xmas i will have 2 lovly babys but by 2
different dads. how awkward is that lol
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ShawnaNmichaelNbaby
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Rosy H
Posted: 02-06-08 18:25pm
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Hey how does it feel when you say it hurts
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