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maxers
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unprotected sex and plan b
Posted: 02-06-08 00:44am
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Hi everybody, im new here and this seems
like just the place for me to ask my
question...So about a week 1/2 ago my g/f
and i had unprotected sex but i pulled out
and im pretty sure nothing happened. We
both know about pre-cum so we wanted to be
safe, so we went and bought Plan B and she
took it within 72 hours ( i think it was
62 hours to be exact)...being as STUPID as
we are we had unprotected sex again over
the weekend (i pulled out) and she took
Plan B again to make sure everything was
ok (this time she took it in exactly 17
hours)...Now that you know all of this, is
there a high chance of her getting/being
pregnant?? Honestly becoming parents is
the LAST thing we want to happend at the
moment...I know most of you reading this
probably think we are morons but that's
why we decided to ask you guys for help.
When she finally turns 18 we will get on
BC but until then we wont be having
anymore sex...Thanx for all your help!!!!
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yellow ribbon
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Posted: 02-06-08 01:07am
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I dont know if you live in the US but if
she goes to the health dept you can get BC
without parental consent. Also pretty much
every store sells condoms.
Shes not pregnant but Plan B is emergency
contraceptive and shouldnt be taken that
often. Shell prob end up missing a period
because of all the hormones.
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Posted: 02-06-08 01:48am
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As Dani said that many hormones is really
going to screw with her cycle. She won't
be pregnant, but she'll probably be early
or late or have something really wacky go
on. If you can get on birth control before
she turns 18, try to do this. I don't know
why you'd have to wait that long, but in
any case, you probably should be talking
to your parents about this. They can get
her on birth control and help pay for it,
or if they have a plan, it might be
completely covered. Buy some condoms just
in case because as you may have realized,
it's pretty hard to stop yourself and
they're always good to have just in case.
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Posted: 02-06-08 08:34am
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She must be sick to her stomach.
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Posted: 02-06-08 09:18am
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so if you dont want to be parents yet then
buy condoms boy jeesh pull out is not i
repeat NOT a method of birthcontrol. you
are responsible for your own actions you
want sex then put a condom on it pretects
from std as well as pregnancy.
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Posted: 02-06-08 11:20am
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The Best birth Controll Ever is
Sleeping in seperate beds 
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Ingi
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Posted: 02-06-08 11:57am
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You have access to Plan B but no access to
birth control?
There are a couple of things you two need
to do. Stop relying on Plan B for birth
control is the first thing. She is not
pregnant this time. However, Plan B is not
as effective as birth control pills. Nor
is it as effective as condoms and
spermicide. In addition, her body is going
to get messed up with all those hormones!
- I bet her period is late and you two
will be stressing out over it.
Don't say 'we aren't sleeping together
until she turns 18' - because that
probably isn't true. Both of you may have
said something similar the first time you
got carried away. And it happened AGAIN.
Prevention. Prevention. Prevention. Get
condoms (they are at nearly every store
around!). Get birth control (there is a
family planning clinic - planned
parenthood - in every major city in the
USA). There is no reason to have an
accidental or unplanned pregnancy.
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Posted: 02-06-08 13:33pm
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First off Plan B should be used as a ONE
time thing... the pharamist themselves
should have gone over this with her and
its side effects for double dosing... I
highly doubt she is pregnant however why
isnt she simply on birthcontrol? Plus Plan
B is expensive? Isnt it cheaper just to
carry some condoms on you? PM me your addy
I will mail you some!
Any clinic can perscribe her birth control
without parental consent.
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Posted: 02-06-08 14:28pm
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As per your title, "yea, im stupid", I
don't think you are stupid so much as
maybe a little selfish. You are putting
her body through hell and making her sick
just so you can have fun.
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maxers
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Posted: 02-06-08 17:46pm
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| futureshock
wrote: | | As per your title, "yea, im
stupid", I don't think you are stupid so
much as maybe a little selfish. You are
putting her body through hell and making
her sick just so you can have
fun. |
ok first of all that really angers me off,
i would never do that so don't ever say
that...second of all SHE was the one who
wanted to do it without condoms and i am
not kidding about that. yea i should have
told her "NO" and zipped up, that's my
fault, basically it was both our faults
but don't ever say i would put her through
all this just so i could have fun, that's
total bull...and we would get on BC except
the planned parenthood near wont let her
buy it without parental permission, i'm 18
and they wouldnt let me buy it for her and
if her parents and my parents for that
matter found out about this, POOF!! there
goes our relationship cause our parents
would not let us see eachother again...we
know we should have used condoms just at
the moment we didnt have any cause we had
already used all of them
previously...anyways we will figure out
sumthin, thanx for helpin
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Posted: 02-06-08 17:56pm
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Thats BS my mom is a total contributor to
planned parenthood you legally do not have
to be 18 to go there that is why it is
there... have you looked into other
clinics?
future shock only said that because plan B
can really screw up your system especially
taken twice.
how old are you guys? have a female over
18 friend go in for her then.
or have her be honest with her parents
about wanting to be on birthcontrol even
if she isnt honest for the reason... she
can say shes been having weird periods and
would like to get on it to regulate
herself.
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Ingi
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Posted: 02-06-08 18:15pm
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| maxers
wrote: | | futureshock
wrote: | | As per your title, "yea, im
stupid", I don't think you are stupid so
much as maybe a little selfish. You are
putting her body through hell and making
her sick just so you can have
fun. |
ok first of all that really angers me off,
i would never do that so don't ever say
that...second of all SHE was the one who
wanted to do it without condoms and i am
not kidding about that. yea i should have
told her "NO" and zipped up, that's my
fault, basically it was both our faults
but don't ever say i would put her through
all this just so i could have fun, that's
total bull...and we would get on BC except
the planned parenthood near wont let her
buy it without parental permission, i'm 18
and they wouldnt let me buy it for her and
if her parents and my parents for that
matter found out about this, POOF!! there
goes our relationship cause our parents
would not let us see eachother again...we
know we should have used condoms just at
the moment we didnt have any cause we had
already used all of them
previously...anyways we will figure out
sumthin, thanx for
helpin |
Planned parenthood does not require
parental permission. Ever. Planned
parenthood is more than likely going to be
FREE for your girlfriend as well.
Have you honestly gone there? Because, if
you had, you would know that the law does
NOT require a parent's consent for birth
control.
Planned Parenthood health centers strive
to provide services that are confidential
and affordable, especially for teens. But
for one reason or another, health care
providers in certain locations may not be
able to guarantee complete
confidentiality. To find out about the
Planned Parenthood health center near you,
call 1-800-230-PLAN.
How about you call them right now 
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maxers
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Posted: 02-06-08 18:42pm
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yea i went there, how do you think i got
the Plan B???...iono the one we went to
wouldn't let her by BC, there are a few
more planned parenthoods around so we will
go to those and hopefully we will have
better success at those ones
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prettygirlygirl
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Posted: 02-06-08 19:08pm
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Wait. Plan B is most definitely birth
control. Why would they give her that
without parental consent but not regular
birth control. That doesn't make any sense
at all.
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Posted: 02-06-08 19:31pm
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Excellent point, prettygirlygirl.
| maxers
wrote: | | futureshock
wrote: | | As per your title, "yea, im
stupid", I don't think you are stupid so
much as maybe a little selfish. You are
putting her body through hell and making
her sick just so you can have
fun. |
ok first of all that really angers me off,
i would never do that so don't ever say
that...second of all SHE was the one
who wanted to do it without condoms and i
am not kidding about that. yea i
should have told her "NO" and zipped up,
that's my fault, basically it was both our
faults but don't ever say i would put her
through all this just so i could have fun,
that's total bull...and we would get on BC
except the planned parenthood near wont
let her buy it without parental
permission, i'm 18 and they wouldnt let me
buy it for her and if her parents and my
parents for that matter found out about
this, POOF!! there goes our relationship
cause our parents would not let us see
eachother again...we know we should have
used condoms just at the moment we didnt
have any cause we had already used all of
them previously...anyways we will figure
out sumthin, thanx for
helpin |
If that part in bold is true, then I
apologize.
How old is your gf? How does she not
understand the risk she was taking by not
using condoms? You are an adult, and yes
you should have absolutely refused, but
she is as much at fault as you.
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Posted: 02-07-08 02:50am
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you can get birth control at PLANNED
PARENTHOOD FOR FREE UNDER !* WITH NO
PARENTS
and if anyone told you otherwise they are
full of it
she needs to be tested for stds
and so do you
oh and yeah dont ever ever take planned B
twice in one month
your right its both of your fault
anyways go to PP and get on BC and if she
is preg they can help her with options.
she can have an abortion if she wanted.
just seriosuly if you love her make her
get on BC because if sex would tear you
apart if your parents found out you ARE
risking it you know
you could loose her
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Posted: 02-07-08 12:06pm
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if you take plan b that close together
then the 2nd one wont work. thats what
happened to my friend she took the plan b
pill twice and the 2nd time she took it.
it didnt work because it was to close
together but if you pulled out you should
be just fine and you can go to like family
planning and they can give you birth
control with out a parent so you should
try something like that good luck !
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maxers
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Posted: 02-10-08 00:33am
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well we went to another planned parenthood
and this one allows her to get BC without
parental consent but we both don't have
money at the moment so we are gonna have
to wait until we both get our
paychecks...anyways thanks for all your
help! i really appreciate it
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maxers
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Posted: 02-10-08 01:02am
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just out of curiosity, u guys all said her
system will be messed up for a while so
does that mean she wont have a period at
all or she will just be late?...so far she
hasn't had that many symptoms from the
plan b and her period is supposed to come
soon but she should be experiencing some
pms symptoms by now and she hasn't. so
should we be worried if she is late or
sumthin?
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young Girl
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Posted: 02-10-08 01:36am
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she cpould be
late,early,spotting.irregular,heavy/lighte
r flow
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