They Want Me to Get An Abortion Posted: 04-30-04 03:59am
My parents called me this morning befor I
left for school and they said that they
stayed up all night considering my options
and they think that it is in my best
interrest to get an abortion i' don't
wanna I need help I can't go back there
advice?
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 04-30-04 04:08am
You dont have to. They cant force you to
have one. The doctors will not go through
with it if you say no. There is no rule
that they make you. You show them you are
mature enough to handle it and say you are
going to take full responsibility of this
baby. And they have no choice but to let
you. Just stand up for yourself and dont
hide from them
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lilmama2b_oct04
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Mar 2004 Posts: 1970 Location: Wisconsin
Posted: 04-30-04 04:13am
Do what feels best in your heart, dont
listen to what they say cuz they will
probably only try to persuade you... How
old are you? How old is your boyfriend?
How does your boyfriend feel about it? If
you dont want an abortion tell them, dont
be afraid of them, dont listen to them
when they say "oh we're gonna kick you
out" or "we wont have anything to do with
you anymore" cuz they are just trying to
scare you into doin what they want. Talk
to them about other options, like keeping
it, or adoption, but if you dont want an
abortion tell them no and thats final...
They will just have to live with that
fact.
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insurancegirl
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Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 04-30-04 04:13am
Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-21-04 11:06am; edited 1 time in total
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lee25
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Joined: 30 Dec 2003 Posts: 1018 Location: new york
Posted: 04-30-04 04:24am
Your 17 almost legal, nikki's right they
can't force you without your consent.
What does your boyfriend think?
Brenda
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KariM18
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2004 Posts: 1436 Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
Posted: 04-30-04 07:19am
If u have any doubt whatsoever, dont do
it! U will regret it the rest of ur life
if u get an abortion just because ure
parents wanted u to.. They cant live ur
life for u.. And theres another life at
steak now..R u 17? If u are, u can do
it.. Im 18 and im 7 months and im
keeping him. If u dont have any support
and dont feel like u can/want to do it,
then theres so many lovely families that
will adopt ur baby and love it like their
own! How far r u? Goodluck!
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bellax0femmina
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Apr 2004 Posts: 823 Location: New Jersey
Posted: 04-30-04 11:00am
If you dont want to , you dont have to.
Do what you feel is best! Good luck hun!
Im here for ya!
